Kungakhathalekile ukuthi isikhathi sini sonyaka, ukuya eholidini nezingane zakho kusho ushintsho lwejubane emisebenzini ejwayelekile. Ungathola ukulala ngokwengeziwe, udle ezinye izinto, ujabulele izindawo ezintsha, ubone abantu obakhumbulayo unyaka wonke… Ngeshwa, ngenkathi ushintsho luqabula kubantu abaningi, lungaba nzima ezinganeni ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Umphumela: isikhathi okufanele sibe mnandi futhi siphumule singaba nengcindezi futhi sikhinyabeze imizwa.
Ngenhlanhla, kungenzeka ukuhlela iholide elihle nengane yakho enezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo (SEN). Kuzofanele wenze ukuhlela okwengeziwe, kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, wena nengane yakho nizozuza.
Yiziphi izidingo ezikhethekile izingane ezizidingayo ukuze ziphile futhi zikhule?
Ezinganeni eziningi ezinezidingo ezikhethekile, ukwakheka nokungaguquguquki okhiye bempumelelo yansuku zonke. Mhlawumbe kubaluleke kakhulu izindawo zokuhlala, ezihlelekile nezingakahleleki, ezinciphisa izinselelo zemizwa, zehlise ezinye izithiyo, noma zenze imisebenzi ethile ibe lula. Ngokuhleleka, ukungaguquguquki, nendawo yokuhlala efanele, impilo ingxenye enkulu iyalawuleka. Ngaphandle kwabo, hhayi kakhulu ... kufanele ucabangele okulandelayo:
Isakhiwo
Ezinganeni ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo, impilo ingadida. Bangaba nesikhathi esinzima sokubona amaphethini, ukwenza umqondo wesikhathi esidlulile, noma ukuphatha amashejuli abo. Lapho kubekwa ukwakheka, ngohlobo lwamawashi, izinsimbi zasekilasini, imisebenzi ejwayelekile yangemva kwesikole, kanye nemikhuba yakusihlwa, impilo iba nencazelo eyengeziwe. Kulula kakhulu ukusebenza emhlabeni ohlelekile, ongaqagelwa futhi ojwayelekile.
Isimo
Ngaphezu kwesakhiwo, ukungaguquguquki kungenza izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zizizwe sengathi zilawula umhlaba wazo. Lokhu kunciphisa ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka, nakho okunciphisa ukuqhuma okungokomzwelo nokungakhululeki. Ukungaguquguquki kuzohluka ezinganeni ezahlukahlukene, kepha kungasho, ngokwesibonelo, ukudla okufanayo usuku ngalunye, amavidiyo afanayo ngasikhathi sinye, uhlobo olufanayo lwensipho endlini yokugezela, imisebenzi efanayo, ileveli yomsindo efanayo, noma iphunga elifanayo.usuka ekhaya uye endaweni yokuhlala.
Ukuzivumelanisa nezimo
Izikole zinganikeza indawo yokuhlala esemthethweni yengane yakho enezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo. Isibonelo, bangasebenzisa izibani ze-incandescent esikhundleni sezibani ze-fluorescent ekilasini labo ukunciphisa izinselelo zezinzwa. Bangakunika isikhathi esithe xaxa sokuqedela izivivinyo noma banikele ngezinhlelo zokuzivocavoca eziguqukayo. Ekhaya, ungasiza ingane yakho ngokuqinisekisa ukuthi iyakwazi ukufinyelela kuthelevishini lapho ingekho esikoleni. Ungasika wonke amalebuli ezingutsheni zakhe ukuze zingamkhathazi isikhumba sakhe. Ungathenga ukudla okukhethekile ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi unezinketho ezinomsoco ezamukelekayo empilweni yakho ...
Lapho izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zinazo zonke lezi zinto empilweni yazo yansuku zonke, noma ziseholidini, maningi amathuba okuthi ziphumelele ekhaya nasesikoleni. Impilo ingaba yinselele, kepha okungenani iyalawuleka. Kodwa lapho izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zizwa ukuthi impilo ayinakuphatheka, zenza; lapho benza, bazizwa bekhungathekile ngokomzwelo, okungabuye kwehlule labo ababanakekelayo.
Kungani amaholide angaba nzima kangaka ezinganeni ezinezidingo ezikhethekile nemindeni yazo?
Amaholide, eningi labantu, awasho ukugcina isakhiwo, ukungaguquguquki, nendawo yokuhlala. Kusho ukuzenzela, ukuzama izinto ezintsha, ukuzibeka engcupheni… Kungasho ukuhlala nabantu abasha noma ezindaweni ezinzima njengamakamu. Kusho ukuthi imikhuba, amashejuli, nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kuphelelwa isikhathi esithile. Esikhundleni sokunethezeka kwekhaya nesikole, ingane yakho kulindeleke ukuthi ivele izobhekana nezwe lesiphithiphithi, ngokulindela okungenzeka kube ngaphezu kwamandla engane enezinselelo zokuphatha, zokuqonda, ezingokomzwelo, zenhlalo nezokusebenza.
Iningi lezingane lingaphatha lezi zinguquko, futhi iningi lazo liyalithanda. Kepha manje cabanga utshela ingane yakho ngezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo ukuthi ngomzuzu wokugcina ngaphandle kwesixwayiso:
- Yabelana ngekamelo nomuntu olalela umculo onomsindo
- Ukuthi udla ukudla angakuthandi nokuthi angakhonondi
- Chitha isikhathi esingeziwe ezindaweni ezikude nekhaya ngisho noma ufuna ukuba lapho
- Sukuma ukuluma izimbungulu
- Musa ukungena endaweni yokudlela kuze kube yilapho wonke umuntu eqeda ukudla
- Yiba nomusa kubantu ongabathandi
- Yisho yebo kwimisebenzi engase ingakuthatheki
Wonke la maphuzu azwakala engathandeki, akunjalo? Ngalesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zezingane zethu, noma ngabe zinezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo noma cha, futhi balindele imisebenzi abangayithokozela nangezikhathi zeholide.
Ngoba okulindelwe ngamaholide kungathumela ezinye izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile ezinxushunxushwini ezingokomzwelo, abanye abazali beqa amaholide omndeni ngokuphelele. Abanye besaba amaholidi, bazi ukuthi izingane zakubo, ogogo nomkhulu noma abantu abangabazi bazohlulela futhi balahle izingane zabo nabazali babo. Kodwa-ke, abanye banamandla ngesikhathi samaholide, bephoqa ingane yakho enezidingo ezikhethekile ukuthi ithule futhi idale izinkumbulo ezimbi nokukhathazeka impilo yonke. Ngenhlanhla, akukho kulezi zinketho ezidingekayo. Ngempela Kungenzeka ube neholide elihle lomndeni ngokubona kusengaphambili, ukuhlela kusengaphambili, nokuvumelana nezimo.
Kubalulekile ukuthi amaholide owakhethayo aguqulelwe wonke umuntu, hhayi abantu abangenawo izidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo. Thola indawo yeholide lapho zonke izingane zakho zingaba nesikhathi esihle. Uma kudingeka, funa usizo kumuntu onolwazi nesipiliyoni sabakhubazekile ukuze akusize ngenkathi useholidini. Kuyacaca ukuthi lokhu kungadla imali ethe xaxa ekugcineni, kepha uma usukwenzile, uzobona ukuthi kufanelekile ukutshalwa kwemali. Kuyafaneleka ngoba wonke umuntu angakwazi jabulela amaholidi ngo-100% noma ngabe unquma ukukwenza ngasiphi isikhathi sonyaka.