Okokuqala, ngoba kuyicala. Okwesibili, ngoba izingane zakho azikho ezandleni zakho futhi awukwazi ukwenza noma yini oyithandayo ngazo ngoba nje 'ungubaba wazo' noma 'ungunina'. Akunakwenzeka. Abazali abaningi ngephutha bakholelwa ukuthi ukushaywa ngempama noma ikhekhe ngesikhathi esifanele kuzosiza izingane zabo ziqonde ukubaluleka kwesiyalo. Futhi, wazi ukuthi ngubani umphathi ekhaya.
Akukho okunye okuvela eqinisweni, ukushaya ingane kuzomane kuvuse imizwa yentukuthelo, inzondo futhi ngeke kuthuthukise isimilo esikhathini esizayo. Kunalokho, kuzokwenza kube kubi kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi ingcindezi nokukhathala kwabazali kwenza ukwahlulela kwabo kugubuzelwe nokuthi ukumemeza, ulaka kanye nokushaya kuyinto yokuqala eza engqondweni ukuze izingane zabo zisabele futhi zithobele. Akusona isixazululo.
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kungani kungafanele ushaye izingane zakho, ungaphuthelwa ngezansi kwezizathu ezithile ezinamandla ukuze kuthi uma wenza kanjalo, uyeke ukukwenza njengamanje. Izingane zakho zidinga ubaba nomama ozihloniphayo, oziqondisayo ecabangela imizwa yazo nokuthi ulaka luxoshwa unomphela emndenini wakho (ulaka lwanoma yiluphi uhlobo). Ezinye izizathu zokuthi kungani UNGAFANELE ushaye izingane zakho:
- Kuyicala
- Ayifundisi
- Uzophula isibopho sakho esingokomzwelo
- Uzokubulala ukuzethemba kwabo
- Ngeke ngikuthembe
- Ngeke ube yisibonelo esihle sikababa / umama
- Ungadala izinkinga ezinkulu ezingokomzwelo
- Ngokuzayo, angaba nokuziphatha okunolaka noma okungahambisani nomphakathi
- Ukhombisa ukuthi awazi ukuthi uzikhulisa kanjani izingane zakho kahle
- Kukhombisa intukuthelo nolaka
- Ulahlekelwa ukulawula imizwelo yakho
- Ufundisa ukuxazulula izingxabano nodlame
- Uzokwakha izingane ezinolaka, ezesabekayo, ezingavikelekile nezinenselelo yomoya
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