Yebo, amaholide ehlobo lezingane zakho abonakala engapheli ... cishe izinyanga ezintathu zeholide, nezinsuku zayo ezicishe zibe ngu-3. Ungakuthola njengokuphupha kabi ekuqaleni, kepha ngokubona kusengaphambili nokuhlela kungaba yindlela ehlukile yokuphila nokujabulela ihlobo ndawonye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi lapho kuphela ihlobo, uzisole nokuthi izingane zakho ziqala isikole nemikhuba yazo yansuku zonke futhi, futhi zichithe isikhathi esincane nawe.
Abazali abaningi bacindezelekile becabanga ukuthi bangazigcina kanjani izingane zabo zimatasa, ngoba ezimweni eziningi kungadla imali eningi, ikakhulukazi lapho ukugcina izingane zimatasa kusho ukuzibhalisa ezikoleni zasehlobo noma emisebenzini yasehlobo ebiza kancane. Akubona bonke abazali abakwazi ukukhokhela izingane zabo imisebenzi, ngakho-ke kufanele babe nobuciko ngokwengeziwe ngoba cishe yonke into ehlobene nezokungcebeleka ibiza imali, kusukela ekuyeni emamuvini kuya echibini lokubhukuda lomphakathi.
Ngokulungiselela okuncane, ukuhlela nokucabanga, ungathola izingane ukuthi zibe nemikhuba emihle futhi, zingaba matasa ngaphandle kobuchwepheshe obusha nezikrini okufanele zibe 'ngabantwana abagcina izingane' ... futhi into enhle kakhulu ukuthi kungenzeka kube ngaphakathi isabelomali sasehlobo. Ungaphuthelwa yimibono elandelayo yezomnotho.
Ama-movie ekhaya
Yize kunesikrini esincane lapha, uma usilawula kahle futhi kungenzelwe nsuku zonke, izingane nazo zingawajabulela ama-movie ekhaya. Ukuphela kokufanele ukwenze ukuthola ama-movie athandwa yizingane zakho futhi uzenzele ukudla okulula. Njengamanje futhi ngenxa yeNetflix nezinye izinketho ezinikezwa ngama-smart TVs ane-Intanethi, kuzoba lula kunangaphambili ukuthola ama-movie ngaphandle kokuwaqasha esitolo samavidiyo. Khetha ama-movie ofuna ukuwabona futhi ulungiselele isikhathi esisodwa noma eziningi zemidlalo yaseshashalazini, kuzoba kuhle ikakhulukazi ngamahora ashisa kakhulu ongeke ukwazi ukuphuma endlini!
Sebenzisa ngokunikezwayo nezaphulelo
Ehlobo kungahle kube nokunikezwa okuhle kakhulu nezaphulelo ongazijabulela nezingane zakho. Kuzodingeka wazi izindaba noma ukuxhumana nomphakathi ukuthola izaphulelo ezimnandi kakhulu ehlobo. Ungathola amathikithi echibini lentengo yomphakathi noma imisebenzi izingane ezingazijabulela ezitolo ezinkulu mahhala (Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezindaweni zokuthenga kukhona ne-air conditioning ... futhi lokhu kuhlanganisa!).
Imidlalo yebhodi neyebuchopho
Izingane ziyayithanda imidlalo ezibekela inselelo futhi ikakhulukazi lezo ezijabulisa kuzo futhi zifunde izinto ezintsha. Iziphicaphicwano, imidlalo yebhodi, imidlalo yamagama, imidlalo yesipelingi ... Kunamathuba amaningi okuthi izingane zijabule zidlala etafuleni egumbini lakho lokuphumula. Thola kuphela leyo midlalo ebakhuthazayo nabathanda ukuyenza.
Isikhathi sendaba
Ukufunda akumele kulibaleke ehlobo ngakho ukufunda kufanele futhi kuthuthukiswe njengesikhathi sokuzilibazisa hhayi njengesibopho. Ukufunda kufanele kube yinto ejwayelekile, ukuze ukwazi ukusetha 'isikhathi sendaba' nsuku zonke, isibonelo ngemuva kokudla uma izingane zakho zingafuni ukulala. Ngale ndlela bazobe bekhululekile futhi ngeke bakhiqize i-cortisol eningi ngokungaphumuli. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma izingane zakho zithatha isihlwathi, ungabeka isikhathi sendaba ngemuva kokudla okulula ngoba kusashisa kakhulu ukuphuma uye epaki.
Imidlalo yakudala
Imidlalo yakudala ayipheli ngesitayela futhi izingane ziba nesikhathi esihle. Uma izingane zakho zinesithukuthezi, chaza eminye imidlalo oyidlale useyingane nokuthi uyithandile. I-hopscotch, phezulu okujiyayo, ukuqhuma amagwebu, uSimon uthi, ngiyabona ngiyabona, indawo yokucasha, impumputhe yomuntu oyimpumputhe… ziningi izindlela ongakhetha kuzo! Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi yimaphi amageyimu owawuthanda ukuwudlala ebuntwaneni bakho.
Kukusize ekhishini nasekhaya
Izingane ziyathanda ukwenza izinto ezintsha nezikhiqizayo. Ngalo mqondo, bangaba ngabasizi bakho abakhulu ekhaya lapho kufanele wenze ukudla noma umsebenzi wasendlini. Cabanga ukuthi baneminyaka emingaki namandla abo okucabanga ngokwabela umsebenzi wesikole ozokusiza. Bazokujabulela ukwenza izinto ezikhiqizayo futhi bazokuzwa nokweneliseka ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle.
Ungakha nezikhathi zasekhishini zokwenza izinto ezikhethekile, njenge; i-ayisikhilimu enempilo, amakhukhi, ukudla okulula kwemifino, njll. Izingane zizoba nokupheka okumnandi okuningi eduze kwakho ngemuva kokujabulela izindlela zokupheka ezizilungiselele zona. Bazoba ngabapheki abahle kakhulu eceleni kwakho!
Imidlalo yokudala
Izingane zinemicabango eminingi nezikrini zivame ukubukela phansi amakhono azo okudala. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi ubasize badlale ngokuthuthukisa ubuhlakani babo. Kulula njengokubashiyela upende, iphepha nezikele, amarowu wephepha lendlu yangasese nemibala, amabhokisi amakhadibhodi okwakha amabhalekisi nezinqaba, izingubo ezindala zokudlala izingubo zokugqoka… Ufuna izingane zakho zicabange kanjani namuhla? Banikeze okokusebenza futhi bazokwenza okunye.
Ubuciko ntambama
Izingane zithanda imisebenzi yezandla, ngakho-ke konke okumele ukwenze ukuthola iziyalezo ezimbalwa zokwenza okwazo ukudala. Uzodinga nezinto ezifanelekile abazokwenza ... Imisebenzi yezandla enopende, amakhadibhodi, i-glue, isikele, i-glitter ... bazoyithanda futhi bayijabulele kakhulu! Ungabafundisa nokwenza amasongo noma imigexo ngezinto ezahlukene.
Dlala ikona ekhaya
Izingane ziyakuthanda ukudlala yingakho, uma uzinika indawo ekhaya ukuze zidlale ngamathoyizi noma ngabe zifuna kanjani… Kuyoba umqondo omuhle kakhulu. Bazokwazi ukuba nesikhala ukuze isikhashana ngosuku (uma kuhlelwe kangcono), bakwazi ukudlala futhi bazijabulise. Izingane zidinga ukudlala ngaphandle kwabantu abadala ukuze, zibeke imithetho yomdlalo futhi zenze njengoba zifuna. Kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwabo.
Bayeke babe ngabahloli bakho abancane
Usuku olulodwa ngesonto ungahlela ukuphuma komndeni ezindaweni ezintsha. Zingaba amapaki, imifula, amabhishi, amachibi okubhukuda ... Kunezindlela eziningi izingane ezingazijabulela ngaphandle kwekhaya ngesikhathi sasehlobo. Awudingi ukuchitha imali eningi (ezokuthutha kakhulu). Zingaba yizindawo lapho zingabizi imali yokungena futhi zithathe ukudla neziphuzo ukuze zingachithi ezindaweni zokudlela. Izingane zizoba nesikhathi esimnandi, zithanda ukudla okulula ezindaweni ezikhethekile!