Ukukhulelwa kungenye yezigaba ezikhetheke kakhulu owesifazane angaphila ngazo, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuhle njalo nokuthi bonke abesifazane baphila ngayo ngendlela efanayo. Umzimba ngamunye wehluke kakhulu, owesifazane ngamunye wehluke kakhulu, kangangokuthi bekungeke kwenzeke ukukhiqiza lapho kukhulunywa ngabesifazane abakhulelwe. Okucacile nokuthile ongabelana ngakho ukuthi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwakho kufanele uzinakekele futhi uzitotobise ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ikakhulukazi uma okokuqala, kusukela lapho unezingane ekhaya, ukukhulelwa kuphila ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Omama abasha abazophila ngokwesaba okujwayelekile kokungaziwa, ukungaqiniseki, ukukhathazeka nokujaha ngoba isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha futhi bahlangane nengane yabo kungekudala. Kukho konke lokhu, abesifazane abaningi bakhohlwa ukujabulela ngempela ukukhulelwa, futhi lesi sikhathi esiyingqayizivele nesingaphindaphindeki sidlula njengomoya okhishwa ngaphandle kokuqaphela.
Amalungiselelo okufika kwengane
Okuthile okuvame ukwabiwa yibo bonke abesifazane abakhulelwe ngamalungiselelo okufika kwengane. Iningi labesifazane lichitha isikhathi lilungisa igumbi lengane, lilungisa ibhulukwe labo, futhi lilungisa futhi lihlanza phansi ukuze yonke into ilunge. Futhi yize konke lokhu kuyingxenye yenqubo yokukhulelwa futhi kuyingxenye yokulinda ingane yakho, akumele ukhohlwe ukuzenzela ezinye izinto.
Ngaphezu kokunakekela indlela odla ngayo nokuvivinya umzimba njalo, kuyadingeka ukuthi unikele ngesikhathi sakho. Lapho ingane yakho ifika, imikhuba nemikhuba yakho izoshintsha ngokuphelele ngakho-ke kufanele uthokozele konke okuthandayo manje njengoba usenesikhathi.
Uma ukhulelwe, ungakhohlwa yenza zonke lezi zinto:
Nikezela usuku lonke lwakho wena kuphela
Ngubani othi omunye, uthi eyodwa ngenyanga noma eziningi njengokuthanda kwakho. Khohlwa ukuhlanza indlu yakho nezibopho zakho zansuku zonke futhi ujabulele usuku lonke kuwe. Hamba uyothenga, uthathe ithuba lokudla endaweni yokudlela oyithandayo, yenza izinzipho zakho esalon noma uye kumamuvi uma uzizwa uthanda.
Chitha usuku ungenzi lutho
Akukho lutho ngaphandle kokufunda, ukuphumula, bukela uchungechunge noma ama-movie, i-crochet noma ngabe yini oyithandayo. Khohlwa ukuhlanza nomsebenzi wasendlini futhi jabulela usuku lonke ungenzi lutho ekhaya. Ngaphezu kokuphumula, uzothola ukuthi akukho okwenzekayo ngokungabi nakho konke okuphelele, okubalulekile ngoba kungekudala lokhu kuzokwenzeka.
Phuma nabangani bakho
Futhi uma kungenzeka, hlela impelasonto yamantombazane. Lapho ingane yakho ifika, kuzothatha isikhathi eside ukuthi uphinde ube nesikhathi sokuphumula okwakho nabangane bakho. Ungaphuthelwa yithuba lokujabulela idina nabangane, iya kuma-movie noma umdanso futhi ube nesikhathi esimnandi.
Lala konke ongakwenza
Kungenzeka ukuzwile lokhu ezikhathini eziningi futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange ukuthi kuyihaba. Yebo, akunjalo, noma ngabe unenhlanhla yokuthola umntwana oleleyo, ukulala kwakho nokuphumula kwakho ngeke kuphinde kufane, okungenani isikhathi eside. Lala konke okufunayo nokukwazi, laze embhedeni futhi uphile ngaphandle kwewashi le-alamu, uzoyikhumbula ngokushesha.
Jabulela isikhathi nomlingani wakho
Ubudlelwano babashadikazi buvame ukuba nezinguquko uma izingane zifikile futhi kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhohlwa ukunakekela le ngxenye yempilo yakho. Lungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa esikhethekile futhi umangaze umlingani wakho ngobusuku bochungechunge, thatha ithuba lokujabulela izikhathi zokusondelana lokho kungekudala kuzongena ngemuva.
Jabulela konke ongakwenza ngesizungu sakho
Lapho ingane yakho izalwa, isizungu sakho sizophela isikhathi eside. Yize uthanda ukuhlala nomntanakho futhi unamathele kuwe usuku lonke, iqiniso ukuthi kungekudala uzoqala ukukhumbula isizungu futhi ukwazi ukwenza noma yini oyifunayo noma kunini. Sebenzisa ngokunenzuzo manje futhi ujabulele ukuchitha isikhathi uwedwa, funda incwadi, hambahambahamba noma nje uthathe isikhathi usuku ngalunye uthule futhi ube wedwa nawe.