Ukuhlolwa kokuqala kwengane yakho kuzokwenziwa esibhedlela. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma usekhaya kuzofanela ukwenze yenza isikhathi sokubonana nodokotela wezingane, Futhi-ke kuzoqala ukungabaza: Ungakhetha kanjani udokotela wezingane omuhle? Ubani ongacela iseluleko? uma senginokubonisana, yini okufanele ngiyibuze? Noma uyisa nini ingane kudokotela wezingane? Le yimibuzo bonke omama abake baba nayo, nokuthi sifuna ukukusiza ukuthi uyixazulule.
Uhla lodokotela bezingane ongalukhetha nalo luzoya nge lapho uhlala khona, uma ukwazi ukuhamba noma cha, futhi uma uya esikhungweni sikahulumeni noma esizimele. Yiba ngangokunokwenzeka, lezi yizinkinga okufanele uzicabangele lapho uvakashela udokotela wezingane.
Ungayikhetha kanjani udokotela wezingane omuhle noma omuhle
Kubalulekile ukuthi lapho kukhethelwa izingane zethu udokotela wezingane, thina njengabazali, ake sizizwe sikhululekile naye. Futhi kubalulekile ukuthi uyihloniphe indlela yethu yokufundisa nokunakekela izingane zethu, ngenkathi wabelana ngezinto ezisikhathazayo. Kwesinye isikhathi odokotela bezingane bayabuza ezinye zezinqumo zethu noma indlela esenza ngayo.
Ngokwazi kwakho sincoma ukuthi ubheke ifayela le- udokotela wezingane eduze nasekhaya. Ikakhulukazi phakathi neminyaka emine yokuqala yempilo yengane, lapho ukuvakashelwa kuvame kakhulu. Kuhle futhi ukuba nenombolo ongaxhumana naye ngayo, ukuze ukwazi ingane yakho kanye nokwelashwa okulandelayo kungakweluleka ngezinto eziphuthumayo.
Ngaphandle kwabazali abathembele kudokotela wezingane, ingane nayo kufanele ithembe. Akukho okubi kakhulu kunodokotela wezingane ongazithandi izingane. Ungatsheli ingane yakho ukuthi “uma uziphatha kabi, ngizokusa kudokotela”. Ukuvakashela udokotela wezingane akunakuba usongo noma isijeziso. Okubi kakhulu ukufaka ukwesaba. Kubalulekile ukuthi kokubili emndenini nakuchwepheshe kube nefayela le- umbono wokuvimbela, ezokusindisa ezinkingeni eziningi nasekuhambeni okuningi.
Amathiphu okufanele uwagcine engqondweni lapho uvakashela udokotela wezingane
Usuvele ekubonisaneni, ukubonisana okuqoqa wonke amafayili we- izimo zenhlanzeko futhi unodokotela wezingane kuphela wena nengane yakho. Bona ukuthi ikhona yini umhlobiso ezejwayelekile ezinganeni, lokho kuzenza zizizwe zikhululekile hhayi izithombe zamathambo nokunye okunjalo.
Manje ungasheshi udokotela, ake azethembe umfana noma intombazane, noma ngabe mdala kangakanani. Sisebenzise ngokugcwele isimo futhi buza yonke imibuzo ocabangelayo, noma ngabe ahlobene nombuzo okuholele ekubonisaneni. Uma kunesidingo, lapho zivela, zibhale phansi encwadini yokubhalela futhi manje isikhathi sokuzikhipha.
Izimpendulo zikadokotela wezingane kufanele zihambisane nokungabaza kwakho. Yena noma udokotela wezingane kufanele ziveze ngokucacile. Ngaphambi kokushiya ukubonisana kufanele ngabe waneliseka ngokuphelele. Khumbula ukuthi omunye wemisebenzi yodokotela wezingane ukuqondisa nokufundisa abazali ekunakekeleni izingane zabo, ikakhulukazi ezisanda kuzalwa.
Ukubonisana ngocingo noma nge-inthanethi, ingabe kulula?
Ngalesi sikhathi, ngazo zonke izicelo esinazo kutholakale kalula, zingenziwa ukubonisana online noma ngocingo nodokotela bezingane. Le mibuzo azithathi indawo yokuvakashela uchwepheshe, ezokwenza ukuhlola okujwayelekile futhi ihlolisise ingane, kepha zingakusiza kwezinye izimo ezinjengemibuzo mayelana nokudla, izinkinga zokulala, imibuzo mayelana nokukhula kwengane yakho. Kepha azisetshenziselwa izimo eziphuthumayo, futhi qaphela! Qinisekisa ukuthi umuntu okuphatha ngudokotela noma uchwepheshe kwezokwelapha izingane, kwesinye isikhathi kungodokotela abajwayelekile abaxazulula ukungabaza.
Ngokuphathelene nemikhombandlela yabazali, izindatshana namakhasi e-Intanethi, imayelana imininingwane ewusizo, akukho ukuxilongwa. Ngakho-ke zisebenzise ukukwazisa, kodwa hhayi ukuyelapha noma ukuxilonga ingane yakho.