Akekho owathi ukuba ngumzali kulula. Ayikho incwadi yokufundisa futhi nengane ekhaya izinkulungwane zokungabaza ziyavela. Abantu abaseduze kwakho abanezinhloso ezinhle bakutshela ukuthi uzenza kanjani izinto. Abanye ukuthi umyeke akhale, ukuthi akwenzeki lutho. Abanye abangasho, ukuthi awusoze wabayeka bakhale ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.
Ngikwenza kahle? Ubani ozoba neqiniso? Yini okungcono kakhulu kwengane? Ngezeluleko eziningi ezinhle kodwa eziphikisanayo singasangana kancane. Ukwesaba nokungabaza kuzungeze abazali be-novice ngokuthi ungayinakekela kanjani ingane yakho. Kungakho sikushiyela okunye amathiphu awusizo kubazali abasha, esinethemba lokuthi lizoxazulula ukungabaza kwakho.
Shintsha amanabukeni
Ngomntwana ekhaya, amanabukeni akufanele alahleke! Badinga isilinganiso samanabukeni ayi-10 ngosuku. Noma iyiphi imodeli oyikhethayo, kufanele ugcine lawa macebiso engqondweni:
- Yiba nakho konke okudingayo esandleni lapho uya ukushintsha inabukeni, ukuze akudingeki ukuthi ushiye ingane yodwa ingagadiwe umzuzwana.
- Shintsha ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Vumela ingane ukuthi ibe kancane kosuku ngaphandle kwenabukeni ukuze isikhumba sakho singene umoya.
Amadada ukuchelela
Ukugeza kungaba isikhathi esihle kakhulu sosuku noma okubi kakhulu. Abazali abaningi bazizwa bengakhululekile ekugezeni kokuqala., kube sengathi ayinazandla. Ngenhlanhla emakethe kunamabhavu okugeza asetshenziselwa izingane ukuze zingakhiphi futhi ungakujabulela ukugeza kwazo nazo.
Ngokungafani nalokho obekukholelwa phambilini kokuthi izingane kufanele zigezwe nsuku zonke, ngonyaka wazo wokuqala kwanele ukuthi izingane zibageze amahlandla ama-2 noma ama-3 ngeviki. Ukuzigeza kakhulu kungadala isikhumba esomile. Yebo kunjalo, ungalokothi ushiye ingane yakho yodwa ngesikhathi igeza.
Isifuba noma ibhodlela?
Kwesinye isikhathi kwenziwa ngesinqumo, kanti abanye ngesinqumo. Akubona bonke omama abangancelisa izingane zabo ibele ngaphandle kwezinzuzo zalolu khetho. Into ebalulekile ukondla okufunwayo (lapho ingane ikudinga). Ukugwema igesi, ungakhohlwa ukuwagquma ngesikhathi sokudla.
Amaphupho amnandi
Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ngokuvamile azilali isikhathi eside. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi isisu sabo sincane kakhulu futhi badinga ukudla njalo njalo. Uma evuka kaningi ebusuku ungethuki, kuyinto ejwayelekile. Njengoba ekhula, uzokwazi ukuhamba isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokudla futhi ubuthongo bakhe buzoba bude.
Kukusiphi isikhundla okungcono ukulala kubo?
Kwakunezinhlobo eziningi zezimfashini maqondana nokuthi ungayilalisa kanjani ingane kangcono gwema isifo sokufa kwezinsana ngokuzumayo. Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule kwathiwa kungcono ukulala ngohlangothi lwabo. Kulezi zinsuku izingane zinconywa ukuthi zilale ubheke phezulu ikhanda likhotheme ohlangothini olulodwa. Uhlangothi kumele luguqulwe ukuze kuvinjelwe ikhanda lakhe, elingakaqedwa, ukuthi lingacaci endaweni eyodwa.
Naka ingane yakho
Uzolalela izinkulungwane zezeluleko ngokuthi omunye nomunye ucabangani ngezici ezahlukahlukene: ukondla, ukulala, ukumbamba ngezandla ... Lowo owazi kangcono ukuthi yini ayidingayo ingane yakho. Okusebenzele ingane eyodwa akusho ukuthi kuzosebenza kuwo wonke umuntu. Mhlawumbe iqhinga noma indlela yokwenza izinto ibasebenzele laba bantu, kepha akumele kube umthetho.
Njengoba wena nengane yakho nazana, nizokwazi ukuthi yini ayidingayo ngaso sonke isikhathi nokuthi yiziphi izinto ezimhambela kahle nokuthi yini engekho.
Cela usizo uma uludinga
Abazali bangazizwa befudumele kakhulu baze baphume esibhedlela, kodwa kanye ekhaya izinto ziyashintsha. Unganqikazi ukuya kumbelethisi wakho uma unemibuzo mayelana nokuncelisa, ukuthi ungamshintsha kanjani noma umenze kanjani alale.
Ungabuyela nasemndenini wakho, kumlingani noma kumnakekeli womntwana ukuze wenze izinyanga zokuqala zokuzivumelanisa nengane zikwazi ukubekezelela. Kuyisigaba sezinguquko eziningi futhi lonke usizo lincane. Ungazizwa kabi ngokwamukela.
Ngoba khumbula ... ukweluleka kulula, into enzima ukuyithola.