Lapho abashadayo beshada abacabangi ukuthi ngokuzayo bangahlukanisa, lokho akungeni ezinhlelweni zabo. Kepha impilo ingashintshana futhi isehlukaniso singaba enye ingxenye yempilo yabantu. Izithandani ezazithandana phambilini futhi zaba nezingane ngenxa yalolo thando, zingabona ukuthi uthando alufani futhi zikhetha ukuhlukana noma ukuhlukanisa.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi kunezinkinga zombhangqwana ezingenakuxazululwa nokuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokujabula futhi uzame ukuthola ukuzwana empilweni ngokuhlukanisa nokwenza impilo futhi. Kepha lapho kunezingane ngenxa yalobo budlelwano, baba nesikhathi esibi kakhulu esehlukanisweni, ngoba abaqondi ukuthi kungani ukuzinza kwabo ngokomzwelo kufanele kuthinteke ngale ndlela. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabasiza kanjani ukuthi babhekane nale nqubo ukuze ingaholeli ezinkingeni ezingokomzwelo. Ungaphuthelwa izeluleko ezilandelayo.
- Kwenze kucace ezinganeni ukuthi zithandwa yizinhlangothi zombili. Lokhu kuzobenza bazizwe bethandwa futhi bezolile. Isehlukaniso asisho ukuthi noma yimuphi umzali uyeka ukuthanda izingane zakhe, kude nalo.
- Khuthaza izingane ukuthi zikhulumisane kahle nowawushade naye.
- Ungalokothi uwasebenzise njengezithunywa phakathi kwabazali.
- Yiba nezimo ngamahora wokuvakasha.
- Ungalokothi uxabane phambi kwezingane. Idivosi ayisiyo impi.
- Musa ukubachazela ngemininingwane yesehlukaniso. Akudingeki bazi, kudingeka bazi kuphela ukuthi ngeke nisakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye kodwa nizoqhubeka nokuba ngabazali babo, ukuthi bathandwa ingunaphakade yizinhlangothi zombili.
- Musa ukudala ukungezwani.
- Vumela izingane zakho ukuthi ziveze imizwa yazo ngalesi simo futhi zisho nemizwa yazo.