Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa nakho kuqondwa njengokulibaziseka kwentuthuko futhi kunezimbangela eziningi ezahlukene. Zingaba izimbangela zofuzo, izinkinga zokukhulelwa noma zokubeletha ... Imvamisa nokho, imbangela ingaziwa. Ezinye zezimbangela zingaguqulwa kalula uma zibanjwa kusenesikhathi, njengokulahlekelwa ukuzwa kokutheleleka okungapheli kwezindlebe.
Kunezimo eziningi ezahlukahlukene ezingaholela ekubeni ingane ibe nokulibaziseka kokukhula, ayikho indlela eyodwa 'efanele' yokugwema ukubambezeleka kwentuthuko. Okubalulekile ukucabanga lapho ingane yakho ifinyelela izigaba zayo zokukhula. Ukwazi lokhu, kufanele ubonane nodokotela wezingane ukuthola noma yiziphi izinkinga. Ukungenelela kwangaphambi kwesikhathi kubalulekile ekusizeni ingane yakho ukuthi inqobe ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa.
Kuphathwa kanjani ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa?
Ayikho indlela eyodwa yokubhekana nalokhu ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa ngoba alukho kuphela ukwelashwa olungasebenza ezinganeni. Ingane ngayinye yehlukile futhi udinga ukumazi ngendlela eqondene naye ukuze wazi kahle ukuthi kwenzekani kuye futhi ukwazi ukumphatha ngokuya ngezidingo zakhe ezithile.
Izingane zehlukile, ziyafunda, zikhule futhi zikhule ngendlela yazo, ngejubane lazo ngokuya ngamandla azo nobuthakathaka bazo. Noma yiluphi uhlelo lokwelashwa luzokuholela kokuhlukile okufanele ukubhekwe, ngoba kufanele lwenzelwe ukugxila kuzidingo zomuntu ngamunye.
Ukungenelela kwangaphambi kwesikhathi ukwelashwa okuyinhloko, kepha kuzoya ngokuthi ngabe kukhona yini isifo esiyimbangela esikhona ekubambezelekeni kwentuthuko. Izinsizakalo ze ukuvuselela kokuqala ingafaka lezi zici ezilandelayo:
- Ukwelashwa kwenkulumo nolimi
- Ukwelashwa emsebenzini
- Ukwelashwa ngokomzimba
- Izindlela zokwelashwa - njengokulapha i-autism noma i-ADHD ngokwesibonelo-
Futhi, uma kukhona okunye ukukhubazeka, izindlela zokwelashwa zamanje zingadingeka ukuphatha izimo ezithile zengane yakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi zonke izingane ezinokubambezeleka kokukhula zihlolwe ukuzwa nokubona ngaphambi kwanoma yini enye ukuhlola ukuthi kungenzeka yini kube ukubambezeleka ngenxa yokukhubazeka okubukwayo noma kokuzwa okungalashwa okungahambisani nalesi simo.
Umehluko phakathi kokubambezeleka kokuvuthwa nokukhubazeka
Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa akufani nokukhubazeka. Odokotela kwesinye isikhathi basebenzisa la magama ukubhekisa entweni efanayo, kepha iqiniso ukuthi ahluke kakhulu. Ngokulandelayo ngizokuchazela ukuze ukwazi ukukuhlukanisa kahle kusukela manje.
Ukukhubazeka
Lezi yizinkinga zomzimba nezengqondo futhi izingane azisoze zanqoba, yize zizokwazi ukuthuthuka ngokuphawulekayo ngokulandela okuhle. Ukukhubazeka kudala izinkinga zokufunda nokuzinakekela. Isimo esithile singadala izinkinga ezengeziwe zokuthuthuka kanye nokulimala kobuchopho.
Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa
Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa noma ukubambezeleka kwentuthuko akuvame ukubangelwa yizimo zomzimba noma zengqondo, futhi ngokuphathwa kahle kuzonyamalala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungaba nezimpawu zokunakwa nezinkinga zokufunda. Ukungenelela kusenesikhathi kuyadingeka ngoba kuzosiza izingane zithuthuke emakhono azo. Ezinye izingane ezinokubambezeleka emakhonweni azo lapho zifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala besikole, kuyadingeka futhi ukuthi zinakekelwe futhi ziqiniswe ngongoti - umeluleki wezokwelapha / a noma i-psychopedagogue / a-.
Uma ingane yakho ingafinyeleli ezinhlosweni ngokweminyaka yayo njengoba kufanele, kuyadingeka ukuthi uchwepheshe amhlole ukuze azi kahle ukuthi sikuphi isimo sakhe samanje. Ukuhlola kungathola umthombo wenkinga. Ungahlola futhi ukuthi yimaphi amasevisi nezinsizakalo ezingadingeka ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho nokuthi ungaya phambili.
Izindawo ezingenzeka zokubambezeleka kokuvuthwa
Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa kungenzeka endaweni eyodwa noma kokumbalwa. Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa imvamisa kuhlala njalo ezindaweni ezimbili noma ngaphezulu zentuthuko. Lapho izingane zithuthukisa amakhono ayisisekelo ezindaweni zentuthuko, kungabonakala ukuthi ezinye izimbangela zokubambezeleka kokuvuthwa kungaba:
- Ukubambezeleka kokukhula kokuqonda. Leli likhono lokucabanga, lokufunda nokuxazulula izinkinga. Ezinsaneni lokhu kuvela lapho kungekho ilukuluku mayelana nemvelo. Kuyindlela ingane ichaza ngayo imvelo yayo ukuthi ayinandaba nokwenzekayo eduze kwayo - ngoba ilukuluku enganeni yilapho lihlola umhlaba ngamehlo, izindlebe noma izandla. Ezinganeni ezincane zifaka nezinto ezifana nenkinga yokufunda ukubala, ukuqamba imibala, noma ukufunda amagama amasha.
- Amakhono omphakathi nawomzwelo. Lokhu kuyikhono lokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Kubandakanya ukukwazi ukuveza nokulawula imizwa yakho. Ezinsaneni kusho ukuthi uyamamatheka kwabanye noma enza imisindo ukuxhumana, ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa kulapho engakwenzi. Ezinganeni ezisencane kusho ukuthi uyakwazi ukucela usizo, akhombise futhi aveze imizwa yakhe futhi azwane nabanye… kungahle kube nokubambezeleka kokuvuthwa uma engafuni.
- Ukukhuluma namakhono olimi. Leli yikhono lokusebenzisa nokuqonda ulimi. Ezinganeni, lokhu kufaka ukukhala nokubhuza. Ezinganeni ezindala kubandakanya ukuqonda lokho okushiwoyo nokusebenzisa amagama afanele ukuze abanye baqonde umyalezo wakho. I-lag yokuvuthwa kule ndawo kulapho lokhu kungafinyelelwa.
- Amakhono amahle futhi amakhulu emoto. Leli yikhono lokusebenzisa imisipha emincane - amakhono emoto amahle-, ikakhulukazi ezandleni kanye nemisipha emikhulu - amakhono amakhulu emoto- yomzimba. Izingane zisebenzisa amakhono amahle emoto ukubamba izinto. Ojahidada nabasafunda esikoleni basebenzisa izinto zokubamba ukwenza izinto, ukusebenza ngezinto, nokudweba. Izingane zisebenzisa amakhono amakhulu emoto uma kukhulunywa ngokuhlala phansi, ukuzigingqa, nokuqala ukuhamba. Izingane ezindala zizisebenzisela ukwenza izinto ezifana nokugxuma, ukugijima, nokukhuphuka izitebhisi. Ukubambezeleka kokuvuthwa kule ndawo kungasho izinkinga kulo mkhakha.
- Imisebenzi empilweni yansuku zonke. Lokhu yikhono lokusingatha imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Ezinganeni ifaka imikhuba efana nokudla, ukugqoka nokukhumula, ukugeza, njll.
Nginomfana oneminyaka emithathu oziveza sengathi unonyaka nohhafu, njengakho konke okunye, kulungile nje ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi ngizizwa sengathi akaziqondi izinto eziningi, futhi umunca isithupha sakhe kakhulu. Yini kungaba izimbangela?
Sawubona Lety, ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo akufani kuzo zonke izingane, njengoba usuvele uyazi ... kunezingane ezineminyaka engama-24 ubudala ezichaza izindaba futhi zisho cishe ziphelele, ezinye ezithi ku-3 zethulwe ngegama elilodwa, kodwa zigcine bekhuluma kahle omunye nomunye. Mayelana nokuqonda, angazi ukuthi ngikutshele ini, ngoba (angazi noma ngabe kuyicala lakho yini) kwesinye isikhathi kubukeka sengathi thina bantu abadala sifuna ukuba baqonde sengathi baneminyaka eminingi bekhulile. I-reflex yeminyaka emi-3 yokudonsa mhlawumbe ayikhombisi inkinga.
Ngamafuphi: impendulo yami ukuthi uyayibheka ingane yakho, ukuthi uyayivuselela intuthuko yayo, kepha nokuthi ubonane nodokotela (udokotela wezingane, owelapha izinkulumo) uma ucabanga ukuthi kunenkinga.
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