Ukuqinela abanye kuyinto evamile osukwini. Siyibona ezindabeni futhi sonke siyawazi amacala ezingane ezixhashazwayo. Umsebenzi wethu njengabazali ukwazi sifundise izingane zethu ukubhekana nokuxhashazwa. Noma ngabe ungumhlukumezi noma uyisisulu, inkinga kufanele ilungiswe ngokushesha okukhulu.
Umsebenzi wokunqanda ukuxhashazwa kungenye ukusebenzisana phakathi komndeni, isikole, uhulumeni nomphakathi. Ngokubambisana singenza lesi sihlava sinyamalale.
Izeluleko Zabazali Zokuthola Ukuxhashazwa
El Ukuhlukumeza esikoleni (noma ukuxhashazwa) ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, ngamazwi noma ngokwengqondo okwenziwa phakathi kwezingane zesikole. Akufanele idicilelwe phansi ngamabinzana adlala phansi afana nokuthi "bekulokhu kukhona lokhu", "izingane ngaleyo ndlela ziba namandla." Kunamacala amaningi kakhulu okuzibulala ezingane ezihlupheka ngakho kuyindaba ebucayi kakhulu okungafanele ivunyelwe.
Ngaphandle kokuthi unemihuzuko ebonakalayo, kukhona okunye izimpawu lokho kungasitshela ukuthi ingane yethu ikhona isisulu sokuhlukumeza:
- Izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwakho noma ekuguqukeni kwemizwelo (ukudabuka, bacasuka kalula)
- Inkinga yokulala nokudla
- Ubuhlungu bengqondo (ikhanda, isisu sibuhlungu ...)
- Akafuni ukuya esikoleni, ngisho nasezihambweni noma ekuvakasheni. Njengoba ungeke ube nelinye ikhambi, uzofuna ukuphelezelwa.
- Bahlale belahlekelwa yimpahla yabo: izibuko, izincwadi ...
Amathiphu abazali wokubhekana ne-bulelele
- Lalela ingane yakho, akhulume ngaphandle kokuphoqa futhi ngaphandle kwengcindezi. Menze abone ukuthi ukhona ukumsiza nokuthi angakuthemba. Zibophezele ukulungisa inkinga.
- Ungayingabazi indaba yengane yakho. Kunzima ngokwanele ukuthi ohlukunyeziwe angakhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa kwakhe ukuze abuzwe. Ake kuphume.
- Yehlisa umoya. Mvumele abone ukuzimisela nokungakhathali ebusweni bakho.
- Mhalalisele ngokuba usitshelile, futhi wakwenza kwacaca ukuthi ukusolwa kukwi-stalker kuphela futhi kukodwa.
- Ungamgqugquzeli ukuthi azivikele ngodlame. Ingane yakho akudingeki ibe yilokho okungeyona ukuze izivikele. Udlame aluxazululwa ngodlame.
- Yazisa umfundisi ngokubhala Ngerekhodi bese ucela umhlangano ophuthumayo.
- Uma ubona ukuthi indodana yakho konakaliswe kakhulu emoyeni funa i- isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esikhethekile ekuhlukumezeni.
- Izikole eziningi zine- umthetho olandelwayo wesenzo kulawa macala. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba sengozini, thintana nabaphathi.
Iseluleko sezingane ezixhashazwayo
- Awusiye umenzi wobubi, ayikho into oyenzile noma ongayenzanga ebingashintsha izinto.
- Gwema isilandeli bese uhlala nabantu obathembayo, ungazidedeli.
- Zama ukungasabeli. Lokhu akuwona umsebenzi olula, kepha iziqhwaga ngokuhlukunyezwa kwazo zibukeka zizizwa ziphakeme. Futhi bakuthola kanjani lokhu? Ukwenza omunye azizwe emncane, akhale noma azizwe kabi. Kungcono ukubeka "ubuso be-poker". Ungahambi nokugeleza, lokho akufunayo ukukulimaza. Ungakuvumeli, njalonjalo uzosusa amandla.
- Khuluma nomuntu omdala. Bangakusiza ngesimo sakho futhi basinqande ukuthi singenzeki.
Kungani ukhumbula ...qaphela inkinga, Kokubili kubazali nasezinganeni, kubalulekile ukuthi unikeze i- isinyathelo sokuqala ukuqeda ukuhlukunyezwa.