Lapho usuku lokuzalwa lwezingane lusondela, ungahle uzizwe sengathi i-vertigo. Lusuku olukhetheke kakhulu ngoba kulapho waletha ingane yakho emhlabeni, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye uyazi ukuthi kungaba ukukhishwa okukhulu okungenzeka kungakulungeli wena. Kepha kunjalo, iphathi yosuku lokuzalwa futhi yindodana yakho ... Akuyona into okufanele yenzeke sengathi ayilutho, kepha nawe akufanele wedlule kwisabelomali.
Namuhla ku Madres Hoy, sifuna ukukunikeza amathiphu ukuze ukwazi ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwezingane zakho futhi ungalifaki kakhulu ephaketheni lakho. Kunamanye amasu ongawasebenzisa ukwenza usuku lokuzalwa lwengane yakho lube lukhethekile futhi ukuze ukwazi futhi ukujabulela iphathi enkulu.
Isikhathi sibalulekile
Yize ungahle ungakukholwa, isikhathi osigubha ngaso usuku lokuzalwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukusibheka. Ngemuva kwesidlo sasemini nangaphambi kokudla isidlo sakusihlwa isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuba nephathi yosuku lokuzalwa, okungukuthi, ngesikhathi sokudla okulula. Izingane kanye nabantu abadala abalindele ukudla okugcwele, nge-peck elula futhi ikhekhe lingaphezu kokwanele futhi futhi bobabili izingane nabazali bangaba nesikhathi esihle.
Uma izingane zincane, into ejwayelekile ukuthi iphathi eyezingane nabazali - ngakho-ke kungaba yinto ebiza kakhulu. Uma izingane sezikhulile kancane, ungaba nedili lokuzalwa lezingane nje futhi kuzoba yinto eshibhile.
Hlela kusengaphambili
Uma usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lomntanakho lusasele izinyanga ezimbili, ngakho-ke yisikhathi esihle sokuqala ukuhlela iphathi yosuku lokuzalwa kwengane yakho.. Ngale ndlela nangesikhathi esanele ungaqhathanisa amanani wokuthenga ukudla, ukuyilungiselela noma ukuthola izikhungo zobumnandi zokunakekela konke. Kwesinye isikhathi, kufanelekile ukufuna indawo yokubungaza usuku lokuzalwa noma ukubheja kwinsizakalo yobuchwepheshe ekwenza ube namanani amahle.
Izimemo zedijithali
Kuze kube yiminyaka eminingi edlule, abazali abaningi basebenzise imali eningi kwizimemo zamaphepha zabo bonke abangane bezingane zabo ... Kepha namuhla lokho akudingekile. Ngobuchwepheshe obusha, imicimbi ye-Facebook noma amakhadi angathunyelwa nge-digitally yi-WhatsApp angaphezu kokwanele ukuze umeme bonke abangane bezingane zakho futhi, awudingi ukushiya imali eningi kukho, kunalokho ... ngeke ushiye lutho!
Usuku lokuzalwa olwabiwe
Uma ungenandaba nengane yakho yabelana ngokugqama nezinye izingane, khona-ke ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa okwabiwe kuwumqondo omuhle. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma iphathi lokuzalwa kwengane yakho liseduze nosuku lokuzalwa lomunye umngane, ungakwazisa ukukhuluma nabanye abazali nokuba nephathi ephindwe kabili. Nobabili nabazali bakomunye umntwana ningabelana ngemali ezobiza yonke into kanye nezibopho. Kuzofanele uqiniseke kuphela ukuthi ingane ngayinye inekhekhe layo futhi, nesikhathi sabo sokugqama ephathini, laba ababili kumele babe ngabalingisi abaphambili ntambama!
Cabanga ngendlela ofuna iphathi ibe ngayo
Ukuze wonge emcimbini wokuzalwa wengane yakho, kubalulekile ukuthi ube nombono wokuthi ufuna ukugibela ini ukuze ivumelane neminyaka yabo kanye nezinto abazithandayo. Kwesinye isikhathi izingane ziyayijabulela ngempela ipikinikini nomndeni wazo nabangane ngaphandle kokunye okuningi. Mhlawumbe enye inketho engaba nentshisekelo ukuthi ube nesidlwana enxanxatheleni yezitolo, phansi esendlini, endaweni yezingane ... Sesha bese uqhathanisa amanani ukuthola ukuthi yini ongakwazi ukuyikhokhela nokuthi bakunikeza kuphi okungcono kakhulu.
Kepha khumbula ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi isivumelwano esihle asisho ukuthi kuyindlela enhle. Bheka ikhwalithi - intengo nokuthi insizakalo oyikhokhayo ikufanele ngempela. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanelekile ukukhokha imali ethe xaxa nokuthi insiza inekhwalithi futhi yenziwa ngochwepheshe.
Yenza ikhekhe elenziwe ekhaya
Ukwenza ikhekhe akuyona inkimbinkimbi kakhulu, kunezindlela zokupheka ezilula kakhulu zokwenza futhi ezingaba futhi amaqebelengwane amnandi. Kukhona namakhekhe angadingi ngisho nesikhathi sokubhaka, ngakho-ke uzokonga ugesi nesikhathi. Uma ungenasikhathi, ungabuza umuntu owaziyo ukuthi angenza kanjani amakhekhe amahle akwenzele eyodwa ngokuthenga izithako bese ukhokha lowo muntu ngesikhathi sakhe.
Umhlobiso othobekile kodwa omuhle
Uma uzogubha iphathi yosuku lokuzalwa ekhaya, akudingekile ukuthi kufanele uhlobise ngisho nemininingwane emincane ngoba ingabiza kakhulu, uzosebenzisa nemali ekuhlobiseni okuzophela usuku udoti. Ngakho-ke, okuhle ukuyidlala iphephile ... ungaphuthelwa isibhengezo sosuku lokuzalwa -ungayenza ngesandla futhi kuzoba kuhle kakhulu-, amabhaluni, i-confetti ... nomculo ukusetha konke!
Imidlalo ekhaya
Uma unomqondo wokugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwengane yakho ekhaya kepha ungafuni ukuchitha imali ngokugqwayiza noma yini efana naleyo, ungahlelela imidlalo abazoyidlala futhi babe nesikhathi esihle. Isibonelo, ungahlela imijaho yamasaka, imincintiswano yemidlalo yebhodi, isikhathi somculo wokudansa, i-karaoke, imidlalo yezingane efana nokufihla nokufuna… njll.
Ungaphuthelwa yindaba noma isikhathi sokuphumula
Lapho kugujwa usuku lokuzalwa ekhaya futhi kwenziwa imisebenzi yomzimba, izingane zidinga ukwehlisa umoya kancane ngaphambi kokuba ziye emakhaya. Ngalesi sizathu kuyadingeka ukuthi ube necebo lokuthi abancane baphumule njengokuthola isikhathi sendaba, ukubukela okufushane okugqwayizayo okuthandwa yizingane ngaphambi kokuba ziye ekhaya… izinketho azipheli.
Uma unephathi ekhaya, cishe uzogcina ukhathele kakhulu kunezingane, kepha ngokungangabazeki kuzokufanelekela ubuso bokwaneliseka nenjabulo ingane yakho ezoba nayo ngokugubha usuku lokuzalwa oluhle kangaka nolumnandi.
Hawu Maria José! Impela omama nobaba abaningi bakuthola kuhle lokhu okuthunyelwe. Ngibheja emicimbini yosuku lokuzalwa elula eshibhile, kepha futhi ingaba ngeyomuntu uqobo, enobungane futhi ethandekayo. Ngibambe iqhaza nasezinsukwini zokuzalwa ezabiwe nezingane zombili. Ekugcineni, amafomula amaningana angavivinywa ngaphandle kokuba intombazane noma umfana ayeke ukuba nephathi yabo ethile (abebephupha ngayo amasonto).
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