Ubuwazi ukuthi ngemuva kokubeletha umama nengane bayadingana?

Inkulumo ethi 'uphila kanye kuphela' imvamisa isebenza ukuxhasa ukujabula kwawo wonke umzuzu wokuphila, futhi iyisihloko sebhayisikobho nengoma. Kuliqiniso, kepha kunjalo nangaphezulu ukuthi impilo iqukethe izinsuku, amasonto, izinyanga neminyaka eminingana (ngaphandle kokuzisola), futhi kwesinye isikhathi sinethuba lokulungisa amaphutha; sinayo futhi ukuthi sifunde ngokuqhubekayo.

Kepha uyazi? UMUNTU UZALWA KANYE, futhi yinto ebengilokhu ngiyiphinda njalo iminyaka eyi-11 nengxenye, lapho ukuzalwa kwami ​​kokuqala 'kwebiwa' kimi ngaphansi kochungechunge lwezivumelwano zesibhedlela (ezingadingekile). Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, indlela esizalwa ngayo ingakhomba impilo yethu ngendlela ethile, futhi kusekhona okunye, ngoba uma ingane nonina behlukaniswa ngesikhathi ihora lokuqala emva kokuzalwa, izinqubo zomzimba njenge zemvelo njengoba kudingeka ziyaphazanyiswa.

Kuningi okubhaliwe ngoMichel Odent, kukhona nalabo asebeke baba nenhlanhla enkulu yokumbona mathupha, ngoba ngo-85 uyaqhubeka nokusabalalisa ulwazi lwakhe mayelana ukulethwa komzimba. Isisho sakhe "Ukushintsha umhlaba kumele ushintshe indlela ozalwa ngayo". UMnu Odent ungudokotela obelethayo waseFrance, owasungula iPrimal Health Research Centre; Unezincwadi ezingaphezu kwezingu-10 azibongele, phakathi kwazo okukhona i- "Cesarean Section" noma "Ingane iyisilwane esincelisayo."

Cishe eminyakeni eyi-13 eyedlule washicilela udaba olubizwa ngokuthi Ihora Lokuqala Ngemuva Kokuzalwa: Ungamvusi Umama! ("Ihora lokuqala lokuphila: shiya umama yedwa"). Lo mbhalo uqhubeka nokuxoxa ngezihloko ngokugcwele, hhayi ngoba uqhubeka ucashunwa ngezikhathi ezithile, kepha ngoba kusadingeka ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuzalwa kwenziwa ngabantu - noma, njengoba esho, 'baphathwa ngamamalia' -; Manje ingane nomama bayadingana, ngaleso sikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu nesibucayi empilweni yomuntu. Futhi lokhu, ngaphezu kokuba yisincomo esiyisisekelo, ubufakazi obufakazelwa iSayensi.

Makungabikho muntu ophazamisa ukwakhiwa kwesibopho phakathi kukamama nengane

Ukuzalwa kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu emndenini wonkeLokhu kuyiqiniso, yize sivame ukukhohlwa amalungelo engane; Futhi kungenzeka singakwazi nalokho iqiniso uqobo lwalo luthatha isinqumo ekuthuthukiseni ikhono lothando. Uyabona, i-oxytocin yihomoni ephathelene nothando, omunye wemisebenzi yayo ukukhuthaza ukufinyela kwesibeletho ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Ngemuva kwalokho imunca umgudu wokugaya wengane ngobisi lwebele, lapho likhona futhi, empeleni amazinga alo akhuphuka lapho umama esezoncelisa.

Ake sibuyele kulesosikhathi ngemuva kokubeletha, uMvelo uhlakaniphe kakhulu ukuthi ucabanga ngakho konke, futhi konke kungaphelela uma kungekho muntu ohlukanisa lezo zidalwa ezimbili ezithandanayo ngaphambi kokuhlangana. Uma kungekho kungenelela kwabasebenzi bezokwelapha KUDINGEKA, ingane esanda kuzalwa kufanele ihlale nonina, akunanzuzo ukufuna ukushintsha inkambo yemvelo yezinto. Ayikho into ebaluleke njengokuzivumela ukuba zihlangane, kwazise isidalwa esincane sekunesikhathi eside sisesibelethweni, futhi senzelwe ukuthola umzimba ozowuvikela futhi usondle.

Akukho ukuphazamiseka: ingane esanda kuzalwa ayidingi ukugeza okugcwele (ngokwesibonelo); kodwa futhi ukuthi umama uhlelelwe ukuyithola ngokushesha, ngaphandle kwalokho kungaba nezimo zokunqanyulwa maqondana nengane, noma kube nobunzima ekuphenduleni izidingo zabo. Akusiso isikhathi sanoma ngubani omunye, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi yebo, kepha kulelo hora lokuqala bobabili bazokwazi ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani, futhi bazokwakha isibopho esidingekayo. Isincomo sisebenza ngisho nalapho kuzalwa ngokuhlinzwa, ingane ingaba kumama ngokushesha ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, futhi sekuvele kunokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okukhombisa lokhu.

Futhi manje ungazibuza Umama angaqiniseka kanjani ukuthi ngeke ahlukaniswe nengane yakhe esanda kuzalwa? Into yokuqala ukuthola ngamathuba angempela onawo wokulethwa kwakho, uma kuba ngcono ngokushesha, ungalindi kuze kube yisonto lama-35 lokukhulelwa. Ingabe unaso isibhedlela sezingane esiseduze? Uyazi ukuthi yini a Uhlelo Lokuzalwa? Ubani okufanele ubuze? Imibuzo eminingi futhi ayikho izimpendulo, okwamanje. Njengoba uzazisa, uzoyeka ukuzizwa ungavikelekile, futhi uzobona ukuthi unamandla amaningi okwenza izinqumo mayelana nokukhulelwa kwakho nokubeletha kunokuba ucabanga.

Ungangabazi, cela udokotela wezifo zabesifazane noma wezifo zabesifazane ozivakashelayo izivivinyo, buza abangane bakho, funda ukucela umbono wesibili, kwenze kucace kuwe ukuthi protagonist nguwe. Kukhona nombelethisi ozobheka ukukhulelwa, izinhlangano ezifana EPEN, imininingwane eqinisekisiwe ongayithola nge-Intanethi, ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuxhumana ne-doula ukuhambisana nezinqubo, ...

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sazi ngokubaluleka kwezidingo ezihlonishwayo ngesikhathi sokubeletha, kanye namahora alandelayo.

Isithombe - Matteo bagnoli