Sike sakhuluma nangezinye izikhathi ukuthi sifundisa kanjani izingane ukwazi inani lemali. Zombili lezi zindlela zokufunda ukusisingatha, nokuthi bazi inani enalo. Izeluleko zokuthi baqonde kahle ukuthi imali ayikhuli ezihlahleni nokuthi kufanele uzame ukungayimoshi.
Namuhla sifuna ukuthi uqonde ukubaluleka kwalezi zimfundiso ezinganeni zakho. Hhayi nje ukuthi bazokuthonya ngokomnotho, kuyinto ejulile kunalokho. Sizobe sikufundisa ngokubaluleka kokuthi yonke imigomo idinga umzamo nokwaneliseka okuza ngokufeza izinhloso zakho.
Imali nezinto ezibonakalayo njengomgomo wokuthuthuka
Namuhla sizithola sisemphakathini lapho ingane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala, noma ngaphansi kwayo, ingaba ne-smartphone noma ithebhulethi ngaphandle kobunzima. Lokhu kubhekwa njengokujwayelekile, abazali abaningi abangakubheki njengokufanele imfundo yabo bagcina beyekelele. Konke ngoba bekhathazeka ngokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi izingane zabo zizobhekwa njengezincane kunabanye.
Kuyiphutha elikhulu qhathanisa imfundo yezingane zakho nokusebenza kwakho njengomzali nabanye abazali nezinye izingane zabanye. Ngale ndlela uzokuthola lokho kuphela ngesibonelo osinika sona, bayaqonda ukuthi kufanele babe semncintiswaneni oqhubekayo nabanye. Akusizi nje kuphela ekukhuleni kwabo, ngoba kungadala izinkinga zokukhathazeka lapho izinhloso zabo zingafinyeleleki. Okuhumusha ekubekezeleleni okuphansi ukukhungatheka.
Kufanele kube kumnandi kuye ukuziphushela yena nokufeza inhloso eyedwa, njengokukhuphuka.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho imfundise ukuthi abe semncintiswaneni oqhubekayo, kodwa azenzele yena. Lokhu kuqinisa isifiso sakho sokuzithuthukisa. Ngale ndlela sithola izinto ezibonakalayo nemali yokuhlala esihlalweni esingemuva. Vumela ukwaneliseka kokufeza umgomo ngamandla akho kube ngumklomelo wangempela. Lapho nje usuzwa ubumnandi balolo thando, sizokwazi ukuthi silawula ukukufundisa ukuze uzithuthukise njalo.
Phatha izimpahla njengomthwalo wemfanelo nobuhle besineke
Lapho ingane yakho isiyifezile inhloso yayo, iyoyazisa kakhulu, ngoba bekuwumzamo. Kusukela manje leyo mali noma leyo nto yezifiso zakho, iba eyakho ngokuphelele, ngoba usuyitholile. Lokhu kuzosho ukuthi uzothatha umthwalo omningi ngakho. Ngoba uyazi ngempela ukuthi kubiza malini ukuyithola nokuthi uma ulahlekelwa yiyo, kuzofanele uqale phansi kusukela ekuqaleni. Ingane engenzanga mzamo ngeke igcine imali noma izinto ezitholwe ngokunakekelwa okufanayo.
Lapho-ke kukhona ukubaluleka kokufundisa izingane emzameni wokufeza izinhloso. Kodwa-ke, kumele sikuphoqelele ukuthi kusukela manje kuqhubeke banesibopho salokho abakutholayo. Kufanele ubaqondise uma kuziwa ekuphatheni ukonga.
Izingane azicabangi isikhathi eside, kepha zifuna ukwaneliseka ngokushesha. Kungumsebenzi wethu njengabazali ukubonisa ukubekezela ukuze sithole ukwaneliseka okukhulu, noma ngabe kufanele silinde. Kufanele bafunde ukuthi uma bechitha imali yabo ezintweni zokuthenga okuncane, ngeke babe nayo ukuthenga lelo thoyizi elibizayo abalithandayo.
Imali nemibuthano yomphakathi
Namuhla, kunemibuthano eminingi yezenhlalo lapho kukhonjiswa khona ukuthi "unokuningi, ubaluleke kakhulu." Imibuthano lapho ingane yakho ingacwaswa khona. Lokhu kungenzeka ngoba awunayo leyo foni yesizukulwane sokugcina oyicelile.
Uma sifuna ukuguqula lokhu nokuthi izingane zethu zikhule futhi zakhe umphakathi ohlukile, kumele bafundiswe emcabangweni wokuthi okubalulekile ukuthi banamandla, banempilo futhi bayajabula. Kuyinto edingekayo kubo nakithi. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho umphakathi ungadalwa lapho umuntu abaluleke kakhulu kulokho anikela ngakho kwabanye ontanga kunelifa angalishiya, lihunyushelwe kuma-euro. Umphakathi lapho ukusebenza kanzima kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo.