Uzokhumbula ukuthi ngesonto eledlule sabelana ngamaSocial Networks umkhankaso owakhuthazwa yiNational Association for Child Safety and Emergency, kuyisenzo sokuqwashisa abantu mayelana Ukuphepha kwengane emgwaqweni, futhi kugxile koku isidingo sokubheka ngaphambi kokuwela nokudlulisa ilambu eliluhlaza. Lezi yizenzo ezimbili ezilula neziphumelelayo, futhi kulula ukuzisebenzisa, kodwa… kaningi sikhohlwa ukuthi “izingane zenza ezikubonayo”.
Futhi njengoba benza abakubonayo, uma sibanikeze isibonelo esibi ngokuya kude nokuwela abahamba ngezinyawo, noma ngokusebenzisa irobhothi, kunengozi yokuthi bazophinda lezi zimilo zokungahloniphi umphakathi sebekhulile, okusho ukuphepha labanye abantu. Futhi-ke kukhona futhi ingozi kuwe uqobo, etholakala kulokhu kuziphatha, ingozi engaba yi ingozi enemiphumela emibi ezinganeni zethu. Ngaphezu kokukutshela ngalo mkhankaso, sifuna ukusebenzisa ithuba ukuphendula noma imiphi imibuzo onayo mayelana "Kunini lapho kuba lula khona ukuthi amantombazane nabafana baye esikoleni emgwaqweni", yedwa noma nabangane.
Umkhankaso engisanda kukutshela ngawo uno- inhloso enkulu yokuqwashisa umphakathi, futhi ihlose ukufinyelela ikakhulukazi imindeni. Sidinga ukuthola imikhuba yokushayela ephephile, futhi sibone ukuthi senza kanjani lapho izingane zikhona. Ngokunjalo, kwenziwe umzamo wokuthola ukuxhaswa kwesikhungo nabezindaba ukusabalalisa imininingwane. Ibhulogi yethu ibivele ibambe iqhaza ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, kepha kuyisihloko esibaluleke kangako ukuthi sifuna ukunikezela imigqa embalwa kuso.
Ukuphepha Emgwaqweni: izingane ezihamba ngezinyawo.
Kwesinye isikhathi sikhohlwa ukuthi ezokuphepha emgwaqeni zifaka phakathi yonke imihlahlandlela ukuvimbela ukulimala okungahlosiwe ngenkathi uhamba emgwaqweni, hhayi kuphela lezo ezihlobene nezimoto. Khumbula ukuthi "ukulimala okungahlosiwe" kuyinkinga yezempilo ebangelwa ukuvezwa kwama-ejenti omzimba aziwayo, futhi ivikeleka ngokunembile ngenxa yokungahlosi kwayo.
Ngokusho kwe- Umhlahlandlela Wokuvimbela Ukulimala Okungahlosiwe eshicilelwe ngoDisemba owedlule yiMapfre Foundation kanye neSpanishi Association of Pediatrics: "ukufa kwabantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-14 ubudala emigwaqeni yasemadolobheni naphakathi nemigwaqo kwehle phakathi kuka-2010 no-2013, noma ngabe bekungabahamba ngezinyawo, abagibeli noma abashayeli." Kugalari encane yezithombe ezingezansi ungabona ukuvela.
Akukho ukuphepha emgwaqeni ngaphandle kwemfundo yabashayeli.
Kunjalo, uma singaziqondisi izingane, uma thina ngokwethu siziphatha budedengu, abancane bazolingisa lezo zindlela zokuziphatha ezingafanele: phuma emgwaqweni ungabheki, uwele noma yikuphi, uvikele izimoto ezimiswe erobhothini ukuze ufike kolunye uhlangothi lomgwaqo, njll.. Kodwa-ke, izimpawu zomgwaqo zenzelwe okuthile: akuyona inhloso yokulawula kuphela, kepha futhi kuyindlela yokuvikela nokuphepha.
Nazi ezinye izincomo ezivela kuMhlahlandlela oshiwo ngenhla, zihlobene neMfundo Yezokuphepha Emgwaqweni lapho uhamba emgwaqweni:
- Yenza isibonelo: unqamula imigwaqo yokuwela, ubheke ezinhlangothini, linda ilambu eliluhlaza.
- Izingane ezinomuntu omdala ezineminyaka engama-6 noma engu-7 okungenani. Bahole ngesandla, bahambe nathi bangasali ngemuva.
- Izingane zihamba zibambene nomuntu omdala nangaphakathi komgwaqo.
- Qapha ukuphuma kwamagaraji, uma kwenzeka izimoto zihamba.
- Bafundise ukuwela imigwaqo enqamula abantu, babheke nhlangothi zombili ngaphambi kokuwela, bese uluhlaza.
- Gwema ukugijima eceleni komgwaqo nokuwela umgwaqo.
- Ukudlala, hamba ezindaweni ezifanele: izikwele nezingadi.
Ngibayeka bahambe bodwa ngasiphi iminyaka?
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule ucwaningo lusitshele lokho Amaphesenti angama-70 ezingane ezineminyaka ephakathi kwengu-8 nengu-12 azikaze ziye esikoleni zodwa, Amaphesenti angama-70! Ngikuthola kusethusa ukuthi sizincisha lokho kuzimela, yize kuyiqiniso, konke kuzoncika ebangeni ukusuka ekhaya kuya esikoleni, ukuthi zikhule kangakanani izingane, izimpawu, nokuba khona kwezinye izindlela zokuzivikela eziseduze nesikole. isikole: amaphoyisa omgwaqo, amarobhothi, izindawo eziqondile zokupaka izimoto, ezishiya izindlela zabahamba mahhala, njll.
Bayayidinga, nawe ngokunjalo, kodwa wumndeni wakho okufanele uthathe isinqumo: kukhona izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 ezikulungele ukuya esikoleni zodwa (Uhambo lwemizuzu eyi-10 lwamukelekile kuleyo minyaka) futhi uma behlangana nalabo ofunda nabo emgwaqeni, abanye bahamba ngamaqembu (weminyaka eyahlukene), kunezingane ezineminyaka eyi-9 ezikhetha ukuhamba nomama wazo ngoba ngeke zisaba khona ngimbone kuze kube amahora angu-17. Noma kunjalo kungakuhle ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi uyawazi umzila, ukuthi bayazikhumbula izindlela zokuzivikela nokuthi bayazi ukuthi kufanele baziphathe kanjani (ukungagijimi, ukungaphazamisi abanye abahamba ngezinyawo, ukwenqaba okunikezwa ngabanye abantu abadala ababamema ukuba babashayele, njll.).
Asifuni futhi asikwazi ukunweba lezi zeluleko ngoba njengoba ngiphawulile azikho izingane ezimbili ezifanayo futhi ayikho imindeni emibili efanayo. Futhi uma kuliqiniso ukuthi izingane zakho zilangazelela ukuthola leso siqeshana sokuzimela, kungcono ukuthi ngaphambi kokukuthola zilungele. O, futhi njengoba umndeni kungewona kuphela umenzeli, buza futhi ufune noma kunini lapho ufuna ukushintsha izinto (awekho yini amaphoyisa asesitebhisini eduze kwesikole futhi esiminyene kakhulu?, Ngabe izimoto zingena ezindleleni zabahamba ngezinyawo?). Ngalokho, abaphathi (amaKhansela Omkhandlu) nezinye izinhlangano (ama-AMPA) bangakwazi ukubhekana nezikhalazo zakho noma bakusize ukuzenzele kwezinye izimo.