Isisho esishukumisayo sentsha kungaba ucezu olusemqoka lwe- qala indlela entsha bese uzibekela imigomo empilweni yakho. Kukhona izingcaphuno eziningi ezishukumisayo ezikusiza ukuthi uzithuthukise futhi zikunikeze umfutho wokuzuza okuhle. Zonke zibhalwe ngababhali, abalingisi noma izazi zefilosofi, ngubani baye bahlangabezana nobunzima empilweni yakho ukuze ukwazi ukubhala le misho.
Uma sisebasha futhi sidinga ukubambelela kokuthile ukuze sikwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo, ukufunda lezi zinhlobo zemishwana kungasiza nqoba okuhlangenwe nakho nezikhathi okungekho lula ukujwayela. Konke kungukuzizwa okusha futhi phakathi kothando nokudumazeka kungaba yipothole okudingeka silinqobe. Cabanga iyindlela engcono kakhulu futhi funda uhlakulele Kuyasiza kakhulu.
Imisho yesigaba sobusha
Le mishwana yilokho okumaka lesi sigaba esibalulekile ukuthuthukiswa komuntu, khombisa izici ezibaluleke kakhulu ngokuhamba kwalesi sikhathi futhi mhlawumbe usize ukuqonda isigaba abadlula kuso. Basiza ukuqaphela ukuthi kufanele siphile kumzuzu wamanje, ngoba intsha iyadlula bese ingena entsha isigaba sesibopho kungakwenza ucabange kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthi kwakubaluleke kangakanani ukuhlala ngaphandle kwezibopho. Nazi ezinye ze-7 zale misho:
1-Imikhuba emihle eyakhiwe ebusheni yenza umehluko omkhulu.-Aristotle.
I-2-LIsithwathwa nobusha yizo kuphela izinkinga ezidlulayo uma ungazinaki isikhathi esanele.-U-Earl Wilson.
3-Thembeka emaphusheni wobusha bakho.-U-Friedrich Schiller.
4-Ubusha mhlawumbe indlela yemvelo yokulungiselela abazali isidleke esingenalutho.-UKaren Savage.
5-Njengomuntu osemusha, usesigabeni sokugcina sempilo yakho lapho uyojabula khona ukuzwa ukuthi ucingo lungolwakho.-UFran Lebowitz.
6-Esikhundleni esingcono kakhulu sesipiliyoni ukuba neshumi nesithupha.-Raymond Duncan.
7-Intsha ikhala ngokuthi ayikho into engayenza, bese ihlala ubusuku bonke ikwenza.- UBob Phillips.
Eminye imishwana ekhuthazayo futhi ewusizo kakhulu yokukhuthaza intsha ingatholakala kule misho. Kunjalo ukucabanga okucabangisiwe okubhalwe ngongqondongqondo abakhulu, kuzokusiza uzizwe ungcono kulezo zikhathi lapho intsha ingazazi nokuzazi. Nazi izinkulumo eziyi-10 ezinhle:
1-Impilo akuyona indlela egcwele izinkinga ezidinga ukuxazululwa; kuyindlela okufanele uzame ngayo.
2-Zama bese wehluleka, kepha ungalokothi wehluleke ukuzama.
3-Ukwehluleka kwangempela akukhona ekuhlulweni njalo, kepha ekungazameni futhi.
4-Ukuvuthwa ikhefu elilodwa ebusheni.-UJules Feiffer.
5-Akunabusha obubi, kepha ubusha obulahlekile.- USanta John Bosco.
6-Ngokungafani nokuguga, okuhlala njalo kungeziwe, isici sentsha ukuthi kuhlala kusefashini.-UFernando Savater.
7-Kunzima ukukholisa osemusha ukuthi uzothola izinkinga ezinzima kakhulu kunalezo ze-algebra noma i-geometry.-U-Edgar W. Howe.
8-Yinye kuphela into eyenza iphupho lingenzeki: ukwesaba ukwehluleka. Paul Coelho.
Ngo-9-NNoma ngabe uhamba kancane kangakanani uma nje ungami.- uConfucius.
10-Umbono omuhle ithemba eliholela empumelelweni. Akukho okungenziwa ngaphandle kwethemba noma ukwethemba.- UHelen Keller.
Akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi i- umbhede womndeni yingqungquthela yekusasa lezingane zethu. Uma sifuna ukusiza izingane zethu kufanele khuphula ukuzethemba kwabo, kufanele kuthiwe indlela esiziqhenya ngayo ngabo. Ukuqinisa ukuphepha kwakho kufanele zifake, bethi bangathembela osizweni lwethu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ubenze bakholwe ukuthi uhlala ukholelwa kubo, futhi kunjalo kakhulu ukuthi uyabathanda.