Ungabhekana kanjani nokungahloniphi okuvela enganeni yakho

Marta Castelos

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yenza ingane engenanhlonipho

Izingane zingasicindezela kuze kube semkhawulweni ngokuziphatha kwazo, ikakhulukazi lapho zingasihloniphi. Uma singenawo amathuluzi adingekayo singenza isimo sibe nzima kunokuba sikuxazulule.

Ngokungabi nencwadi yabazali, siphendula ngokwemvelo kuzinselelo. Kwesinye isikhathi ngokweqisa nakwabanye ngokuzenzakalela, singenza yonke into ibe yimbi kakhulu futhi siphelelwe umoya. Kungakho sikushiyela amathiphu wokuthi iziphi izindlela ze- amasu angcono kakhulu okwenza ngokubhekana nokuntuleka kwenhlonipho enganeni yakho.

Inhlonipho, enye yamagugu asemqoka emfundo

Njengabazali sinesibopho sokufundisa izingane zethu ngamanani. Esikoleni bafunda izinto, kepha ekhaya kubekwa isisekelo semfundo yabo esizobaphelezela ezimpilweni zabo zonke. Izingane zidinga abantu abadala ukuthi babhekele imfundo yazo, bazibonise ukuthi bayazihlonipha futhi bayahlonishwa.

Ezinsukwini zakudala, iningi labazali lalicabanga ukuthi izingane kufanele zinikeze inhlonipho engenamibandela. Kwakuyimfundo yobushiqela necindezelayo. Namuhla izingane zilashwa phakathi koboya bekotini ukuze zingatholi ukuhlukumezeka. Kuyimfundo eyekelelayo futhi engaphephile. Awudingi ukuya kokunye ngokweqile noma kokunye. Izingane kufanele zifunde ukuthi iyini inhlonipho, futhi kufanele sizihloniphe ukuze sigweme izimo ezinzima.

Ungenzi kanjani lapho ingane yakho ingahloniphi ingane yakho

  • Ungabahloniphi nabo. Uma siphendula ngokufanayo ngokushoda kwenhlonipho, sizilimaza ngokwethu. Ukukhala, izinsongo kanye nokuthukwa okuwukuphela kwento esizoyizuza ukuthi bafunde izindlela eziningi zokungahloniphi, nokuthi bakubona njengento ejwayelekile (Uma abazali bami bekwenza, kungenziwa). Kuzokwenza isimo sibe sibi kakhulu, ukwethembana kudalwa futhi bazizwe bebukelwa phansi. Ungangeni ezingeni elifanayo, ungalahli ukuphola kwakho.
  • Ungenzi lutho. Uma izindlela zabo zokungahloniphi zingenayo imiphumela, bazokukwenza kaningi. Izingane zidinga imingcele futhi izikhathi eziningi bayasihlola ukuze babone ukuthi bangahamba ibanga elingakanani. Kufanele siqine futhi senze imithetho icace, futhi singashintshi izingqondo zethu ngokuphazima kweso. Uma kungenjalo, kuzokudalela ukudideka.

ukukhuthaza inhlonipho emndenini

Ungabhekana kanjani nokungahloniphi okuvela enganeni yakho

  • Chaza ukuthi kuwukuziphatha okungahloniphi. Mkhombise ukuthi kuyini ukungabi nhlonipho ngaso sonke isikhathi nokuthi kuzokwenzekani uma enza njalo. Kufanele ungaguquguquki, ubachazele ukuthi akuyona indlela efanele yokuphendula futhi ubakhombise indlela eyiyo. Kufanele uqine, ucace futhi ucacise ukuthi yini evunyelwe ekhaya nokuthi yini engavumelekile.
  • Imithetho yenhlonipho ekhaya. Ekhaya ngalinye, kufanele kwenziwe imithetho yokuhlalisana, kubandakanya nokuziphatha okuhloniphayo. Futhi akekho umuntu uqobo kuphela, kepha futhi esikhaleni sakhe nezinto zakhe zangasese. Ngokunjalo nemiphumela yokungahloniphi kumele kuvunyelwane ngayo.
  • Khombisa inhlonipho. Isibonelo yisikole esihle kunazo zonke. Isimo senhlonipho kufanele sibuse ekhaya. Kufanele ube ngowokuqala ukuhlonipha imithetho. Mfundise indlela yokuphatha abanye ngenhlonipho ukuze kube lula ngaye ukulandela isibonelo sakho.
  • Qinisekisa ukuziphatha kwabo ngenhlonipho. Kulungile ukumkhombisa uma enza okuthile okungahloniphi kepha futhi aqinise nokuziphatha kwakhe okuhle. Kwenze ngokudumisa, hhayi ngemivuzo.
  • Sebenzisa imiphumela lapho kudingeka. Lapho usuvele uyazi ukuthi kuyini ukuziphatha okungahloniphi futhi wazi nemiphumela, kufanele ungaguquguquki. Ungesabi ukusabela kwakhe, umfundisa indlela yokuziphatha empilweni. Akunasimo lapho kufanele ubavumele bakudelele, noma ngabe bancane kakhulu.

Inhlonipho iyisisekelo semfundo. Kufanele sifundise izingane zethu ngamagugu ukuze kusasa zazi ukuthi zihlobana kanjani nemvelo yazo ngendlela eyiyo, ethembekile futhi ecabangelayo. Kungaba nzima ekuqaleni, kepha ngokuzijwayeza uzokwazi ukuphendula, futhi uzosebenza kangcono.

Kungani ukhumbula ... cabanga kahle ukuthi yimaphi amanani ofuna ukuwadlulisela enganeni yakho, inhlonipho itholakala ngenhlonipho.


Shiya umbono wakho

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

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