Yize sesivele sikhulume ezikhathini ezedlule mayelana izingozi ezitholakala ekusebenziseni kabi i-Intanethi nokuvinjelwa kwayo, lolu hlobo lwezeluleko lufunwa kakhulu yimindeni enezingane nentsha. Ngalesi sikhathi Ngisekelwe esiqeshini sezindaba engizifunde izolo ... Ixoxa ngodaba lomama olingise intombazane yakhe kuFacebook lapho esebona ukuthi 'unondindwa uyayihlukumeza'.
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Kulezi zimo, abahlukumeza ngokocansi bathola ukwethenjwa yizingane futhi banamandla okuqala nokugcina ama-blackmail. Akunakuphikwa ukuthi kusukela ngesikhathi sokusola, inhloso yabazali kufanele kube ukuvikela izingane zabo, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo baqoqe ubufakazi besenzo sobugebengu. Ngoba yebo, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zezingane kuyicala, futhi ngokusho koMkhandlu WaseYurophu ichazwa 'njenganoma yikuphi okubukwayo okubukwayo okusebenzisa izingane ngokocansi'.
Kusukela ekusetshenzisweni kwezithombe ezicacile zocansi zezingane ezihlanganyela ekuziphatheni ngokocansi (noma ngabe zilingiswa), ekusetshenzisweni kwezinto ezibonakalayo zemibukiso yezocansi, behamba ngezithombe ezibonisa izitho zocansi zezingane. Futhi ngasendleleni, ngishilo ngenhla ukuthi kwakungumuntu onukubeza izingane owayexhumane naleyo ntombazane ukuthola izithombe zayo enqunu, kepha wake waba nokungabaza ngomehluko phakathi kwe-pedophilia ne-pedophilia? Yebo, ibhokisi elingezansi, olungiselelwe yi-Internet Grooming (osuka ku-Pantallas Amigas) uyichaza kahle, futhi ngamafuphi ngiyakutshela ukuthi 'isenzo sokuhlukumeza' yiso esenza umehluko, futhi yini ehlukanisa onondakayo.
Ungenza kanjani uma usola ukuthi ingane ihlukunyezwa ngumkhwenyana?
Ukukhuluma ngokuvikela kulula, vuma ukuthi izingane zethu zingaba izisulu hhayi kangako, ngezansi sizophinda amathiphu okufanele sigwenywe, kepha ungenzenjani uma ungazithola usesicathulweni sikaSabrina? Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukugcizelela ukuthi kufanele sigcine isimo sokuqapha kakhulu, ezingxoxweni nezingane nasezinyathelweni okufanele sizithathe, ngoba ngaphezu kwakho konke kufanele sizivikele. Kungenzeka ukuthi sisola ukuthi kukhona okwenzekayo kuye ngoba ushintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo nemikhuba yakhe emasontweni adlule, ukuthi umngani wakhe usitshele uhhafu ngale nkinga, ukuthi siyifundile ingxoxo, ngisho nokuthi izingane ziyitshelile kithi okuthile.
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- Ukunakekelwa kwengqondo kungadingeka.
- Isikole sendodakazi yakho, abangane abaseduze, nomndeni owengeziwe - kuyasiza, vele - kufanele kwazi amaqiniso ngemuva kokuthi wenze okuthile. Lokhu kuzosiza ekuvikeleni.
- Qaphela ukuvuselelwa kabusha! Gwema noma ngubani ongakulimaza.
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Ukugwema ukuzilungisa: umsebenzi olindile?
Ekungeneni okungenhla besivele sinikeze imininingwane eminingi mayelana nokuvinjelwa, ukugqamisa ukubaluleka kokuxhumana komndeni: ukuthi bayazi ukuthi bangazivikela kanjani kunokungathembi KONKE into ezungezile. Chaza ngokusobala izindlela zokuphepha: izilungiselelo zobumfihlo zokuxhumana nabantu, akukho ukubonisa izithombe ezisondelene, ukugadwa kwabazali, akukho mhlangano nomuntu omazi kuphela ku-inthanethi, gcina imishini iphephile, usungule indawo ejwayelekile endlini yokusebenzisa amadivayisi.
Ngamafuphi, kumayelana nokuhlanganisa ingqondo nokuvivinya umzimba okudingekayo komama noma kobaba, kwesinye isikhathi okusho ukusungulwa kwemingcele.
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