Ngikhulelwe, Ngizoba umama! Yeka umzuzu wemilingo futhi okhethekile. Ukuxubana okukhulu kwemizwa nokungabaza okungapheli kuza engqondweni emasontweni nasezinyangeni (ngisho naseminyakeni ezayo).
Ngabe ngizokwazi ukunakekela ingane yami? Ngizoba ngumama onjani? Uma ingane yami igula? Sizoyinika igama lini
Ukungabaza ngokukhulelwa, isikhathi sokubeletha, usana olusanda kuzalwa, ukuncelisa, ukukhulisa izingane, njll.
Abaningi bethu bayaqoqa izincwadi, omagazini kanye nezindatshana ekufuneni ibhukwana eliphelele. Sibuze omama nabangane bethu ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Sifuna ukwazi konke esikudingayo ukuze sibe omama abaphelele besikhathi esizayo. Lona umgomo wethu omusha; ube ngumama ophelele.
Kodwa-ke ngokushesha siyalibona iqiniso, ayikho incwadi ekahle noma ibhukwana lokuba ngumama. Okuhlangenwe nakho nemibono yabantu esibajwayele kuhluke ngokuphelele, kwesinye isikhathi kuyaphikisana. Futhi okubi kakhulu, iseluleko samahhala ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ingabe kuzwakala ujwayelekile kuwe?
Ukucabanga okungokoqobo
Into yokuqala esiyifundayo ukuthi ukuba ngumama yinto, ezimweni eziningi, kukude kakhulu nenhle esasinayo. Akukho okwakubonakala, kepha ukuba ngumama kunjalo.
Omama bangabantu ngakho-ke noma ngabe senza izinto ngokusemandleni ethu, siyawenza amaphutha.
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zomama njengezabesifazane. Azikho ezingcono noma ezimbi njengoba kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu zokwenza izinto ezifanayo. Konke kususelwa ebuntwini bakho, emcabangweni, kokuhlangenwe nakho, emakhono, njll.
Kule nqubo ngeke ziswele izikhathi lapho umuzwa wecala. Asiphelele futhi sicabanga ukuthi lokho kungakhiqiza ukukhungatheka. Iqiniso ukuthi kunzima ukufinyelela kukho konke (izingane, umsebenzi, umlingani wethu, indlu, njll) futhi wenze konke kahle. Asinawo amandla amakhulu!
Eeziyisisekelo samukele futhi sizazise njengoba sinjalo. Ukuvumelana nezimo kususa ingcindezi futhi kwenza konke kugeleze kangcono. Ngale ndlela singajabulela ukuba ngumama wethu kakhulu.
UNGABI kanjani umama ophelele
Isikhathi sokuma isikhashana bese ucabanga ngochungechunge lwamaphoyinti ube ngumama "ongaphelele" futhi ungafi uzama.
- Lnoma okubalulekile yilokho uthando olungenamibandela ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngendodana yakho. Kunezinto eziningi ezisezingeni eliphakeme futhi ezingalinda. Musa ukuchitha isikhathi sakho esiyigugu ngabo.
- Ungangeni ephutheni le- unike ingane yakho konke obukufuna lapho useyingane. Ukuthanda kwabo kanye nezidingo zabo ngeke kufane nokwakho ebuntwaneni bakho.
- Okuningi akukuhle ukuba nakho konke okufunayo akukwenzi ujabule ngokwengeziwe.
- Ngaphambili nayo ayingcono. Ingane ngayinye kuhlukile futhi inesigqi sayo sokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Gwema ukuqhathanisa nezingane zakini, izihlobo, nomakhelwane. Kudinga nje uthando nesikhathi sakho.
- Izingane zethu zihlala emphakathini wokuncintisana kakhulu, ukuzivikela ngokweqile ngesikhathi sezingane ukugwema konke ukukhungatheka kwabo ngeke kubasize babe ngabantu abadala abanokwethenjelwa.
- Udinga isikhala sakho. Ngiyazi ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala kungenakwenzeka kepha kubalulekile ukuthi uzitotose futhi uzinikeze "isifiso" ngezikhathi ezithile. Asikwazi ukutholakala ezinganeni zethu amahora angama-24 ngosuku.
- Asiphelele kodwa nezingane zethu aziphelele. Kungcono ukuba nayo okulindelwe okungokoqobo futhi ujabule.
- Kujwayelekile ukufuna wena kepha kufanele uqiniseke imikhawulo. Impilo yakho engokwenyama nengokwengqondo izoyithokozela futhi uzozizwa ungcono.
- Shumayela naye isibonelo, ithuluzi elisebenza kahle kakhulu.
- Nethiphu elilodwa lokugcina, thokozela zonke izigaba zempilo yengane yakho. Ihlukile futhi ayiphindeki. Isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha futhi lapho usubona ukuthi usuvele ususa lezo zingubo ozithenge ngothando olukhulu ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Bese…
Omama abangaphelele ngokuphelele
Uma unentshisekelo kulesi sihloko, ngincoma ukufundwa okuthakazelisa kakhulu.: "Omama abaphelele ngokuphelele" kusuka ku-Planeta Yokuhlela. Kubhalwe ngongoti ababili bokusebenza kwengqondo yabakhulelwe, u-Andrea Jáuregui noDiana Guelar. Inhloso yalo ukusiza abesifazane ukuthi bangaziqapheli ngokuba ngomama abaphelele. Iresiphi yakhe; ukuqonda okuningi nokuhlekisa.
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