Sezadlula izinsuku lapho omama babehlala emakhaya benakekela imindeni yabo. Esikhathini samanje omama, ngaphezu kokuba sekhaya nokunakekela izingane zabo nokuhola ikhaya phambili, nabo basebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya futhi baze bazizwe ukuthi kumele bavele ukuze bakwazi ukufinyelela kukho konke. Izwe lanamuhla liyashintsha futhi isimo somnotho siyinkimbinkimbi impela.
Bobabili abazali kanye madres hoy Namuhla bamatasa kakhulu ngoba kufanele baxabane phakathi komsebenzi nempilo yomndeni. Manje kunanoma yisiphi esinye isikhathi, izinto ziba nzima kakhulu ngenxa yempilo ephilwa umphakathi nazo zonke izinkokhelo okumelwe zenziwe inyanga ngayinye. Kufanele usebenze ukuze uthole imali ekupheleni kwenyanga, kepha futhi kufanele ube usekhaya ukuze ufundise izingane zakho ngendlela elinganiselayo futhi ukuze bangasweli konke ukusekelwa okungokomzwelo abakudingayo nsuku zonke.
Omama abasebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya bazizwa becindezeleke kakhulu yiyo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo abayithwele ngemuva kwabo, kepha kusenhlanganweni nokuthi bathatha kanjani izinto empilweni ukuthi bangahola impilo ngokweneliseka noma bakhungatheke kakhulu. Omama bayakujabulela ukukwazi ukusebenza futhi yingakho kubalulekile ukuthola ukulingana phakathi komsebenzi nempilo yomndeni, ngoba leyo intuthuko eqhubekayo.
Nazi ezinye izimfihlo zomama abamatasa KAKHULU ukuze bakwazi ukuphila impilo egculisayo futhi bazizwe benelisekile ngezimpilo zabo. Umama namuhla angaphatha okungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho obekucatshangwa ukuthi uyakwazi ... Ngoba yize singesiwona amaSUV noma imishini, siyakwazi ukuzihlela kahle kakhulu!
Izimfihlo zomama abamatasa
Ukuhlela nokulungiselela kungukhiye
Uma ushiya izinto okufanele uzenze ebusuku bangaphambilini ongazenza ngakusasa, lapho kuphuma ilanga uzoqala ukugijima usuku lonke. Ngakho-ke, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlela izinsuku ngaphambi kokuba zifike futhi, lungisa izinto lapho unesikhathi sokukwazi ukuqhubekisela phambili umsebenzi. Isibonelo, usuku lwangaphambi kokulungiselela ukudla kosuku olulandelayo, lungisa izingubo zezingane zakho ebusuku ukuze zikwazi ukuzigqoka ekuseni, zilungise izingubo zakho, njll. Zibukeka njengezinto ezincane kepha zizokusiza ugweme ukucindezelwa nokwethuka kokuchitha isikhathi kusuka entweni yokuqala ekuseni.
Khulisa isikhathi sekhwalithi yomndeni wakho
Uma ukhulisa isikhathi sakho, kuzoba isikhathi sekhwalithi. Ungasebenza amahora amaningi phakathi nesonto, kepha kubaluleke kakhulu lokho hlela amahora ambalwa phakathi nesonto ukwenza izinto nomndeni wakho nje. Bayakudinga nawe. Bheka izikhala namahora amahhala ukuhlela imisebenzi yomndeni njengokuya kohambo, ukuyophuza nomndeni, ukudlala imidlalo ekhaya, njll. Lesi sikhathi yilokho okubaluleke kakhulu.
Beka isikhathi sokuqala nomlingani wakho
Kuyadingeka ukuqinisa ubudlelwano phakathi kwezithandani ukuze umndeni usebenze kahle. Abazali abathandanayo, abathandanayo nabahloniphanayo bazohola impilo yomndeni kangcono kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi anibona abazali kuphela, futhi niyizithandani. Ngalo mqondo, kuyadingeka ukuthi kubhekwe izinketho ukuze zikwazi ukuchitha isikhashana sisodwa futhi zijabulelane.
Yabelana ngemisebenzi nomlingani wakho
Ukuba ngumama akukwenzi ukuthi ubhekane nezingane zakho noma umndeni wakho kuphela. Uma ushadile noma unomlingani, kungumsebenzi wabo bobabili ukuthi konke kuyasebenza. Kufanele uhlukanise imisebenzi yasendlini kanye nezibopho zezingane ukuze konke kusebenze kahle. Ukuba ngubaba nomama kungumsebenzi ka-50/50… Ningokaputeni ababili besikebhe esifanayo.
Vumelanisa nezindlela ezishintshayo
Ukuba ngumzali kusho ukuthi impilo ngeke ihlale ilandelana ngaso sonke isikhathi. Njengoba izingane zizalwa ziyakhula futhi izinto ezenziwayo zizoshintsha kancane kancane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, impilo yakho nayo izoshintsha kusukela lapho ungumama noma ubaba kufanele ucabange ngokuphuma noma wenze izinto ngokuya ngezingane zakho. Yiya ezindaweni zokudlela lapho izingane zamukelwa kahle khona, thola indawo yokuzivocavoca lapho izingane nazo zijabule khona noma okungenani zinakekelwa kahle ... Uzoba nezidingo zakho, kodwa kuzofanele uzivumelanise nemikhuba eguqukayo kwazise izingane zakho zizoza kuqala njalo.
Yiba nezimo ngangokunokwenzeka
Kuyadingeka ukuguquguquka nsuku zonke futhi ukhohlwe ngokuqina kwengqondo. Kunezinsuku lapho ungeke ufinyelele kukho konke kungenzeki lutho. Ukuthi izingane zakho ziyagula nokuthi awukwazi ukusebenza yonke into ehleliwe ngoba kufanele uzinakekele, kufanele ukhansele umhlangano ngoba kufanele uhambise ingane yakho kudokotela wezingane. Mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku ngeke ube nesikhathi sokuhlala kusofa imizuzu emihlanu ... Kuyadingeka ukuguquguquka futhi wamukele izinsuku njengoba ziza.
Unganaki icala likamama
Kunecala elijwayelekile omama abaningi abangabavumeli nokuthi balale. Bangazizwa benecala ngokungasebenzisi isikhathi esiningi nomndeni, ngokuba nendlu enezinkinga, ukungabi nesikhathi sokupheka ukudla okunempilo, nokwenza imali encane ezothinta ukuphela kwenyanga ngoba kumele banakekele izingane zabo ekhaya lapho begula… Ukuzizwa nginecala ngayo yonke into! Futhi lokho, Ayilungele impilo yomama engokomzwelo futhi ayilungele lutho.
Akuzuzisi futhi kuwukuchitha isikhathi namandla akho ayigugu. Ungavumeli lelo cala elingenangqondo lifike engqondweni. Esikhundleni salokho cabanga ukuthi izingane zakho zizohlala zinakekelwa kahle zombili lapho ukhona nalapho ungekho eceleni kwakho. Ukuthi ulwa nsuku zonke ukuze ubanikeze isikhathi esisezingeni, ukuthi uma usebenza kusenzelwa bona nokuthi uma ubathokozela, bayazi ukuthi bayinto yokuqala kuwe.
Funa usizo nokusekelwa
Uma kwenzeka kufanele uqashe izinsizakalo zomuntu ogcina ingane, kungani ungakwenzi? Mhlawumbe udinga usizo olwengeziwe ukuze ufinyelele kukho konke futhi lokhu akudingeki ukuthi kube yinto embi kuwe. Cishe akunakwenzeka ukuphatha yonke into unilaterally nokuningi uma ungumama ongayedwa. Kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukuthi 'cha', ukubeka phambili, futhi ube nesikhathi sakho ... Thola inhlangano elingana nempilo yakho, futhi ujabulele impilo yakho ngokwanelisayo!