Ukulwa phakathi kwezelamani kungenye yezinto ezikhathaza kakhulu omama nobaba.
Labo abanezelamani bazokwazi ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi bayezwana kakhulu, kepha futhi kunezikhathi eziningi zokuxabana.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, umfowethu noma udadewethu imbangi ekutholeni ukunakwa, uthando nokunakekelwa ngomama nobaba. Kukhona umuzwa wokuzwana, uyamthanda umfowenu noma udadewenu, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, uzizwa unomona.
Umona phakathi kwezelamani ucishe ungenakugwenywa kepha ukuqina kwawo nezinkinga ezibandakanya kuzo kuzoncika kakhulu ekutheni abazali bakulawula kanjani.
Akumele sikukhohlwe lokho omama nobaba bathatha isinqumo uma kukhulunywa ngokusingatha nokubhekana nomona nezingxabano phakathi kwezelamani.
Indima yabazali ekulweni kwezelamani
Sizokunciphisa lokhu uma sigwema ukukhuthaza ukuncintisana phakathi kwabafowethu yebo siyazi ukuthi singanikeza kanjani ngamunye wabo indawo yakhe. Ukunikezela ingane ngayinye ukunakekelwa abakudingayo, ukuhlonipha ubuntu bayo, nokugwema ukuqhathanisa kuzosiza ekwenzeni umona ungabi namandla kakhulu.
Indaba yomona nengxabano phakathi kwezelamani nayo izothonywa yi umehluko weminyaka phakathi kwazo. Lapho lo mehluko ungaphansi kweminyaka emithathu, umona ungaphezu kokuvela, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sobuntwana. Enganeni engaphansi kweminyaka engu-3, kunzima kakhulu ukuthi yabelane ngomama nobaba. Banamandla amancane okuhlanganyela ukunakwa kwabazali, ukunakekelwa nothando nengane entsha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, labo abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-3 ubudala bangavele bakwamukele lokhu ngobunzima obuncane uma nje bezwe benelisekile ngobuhlobo nabazali babo. Uma kunokushoda kulobu budlelwano, kuzoba nzima kakhulu kubo ukwamukela ukufika komfowethu noma udadewabo omncane.
Isimo sezulu somhlaba wonke somndeni sinomthelela Njengendlela thina bantu abadala esixazulula ngayo izingxabano zethu kanye nezingane zethu. Akufanele neze sikhohlwe ukuthi siyisibonelo sabo. Uma sixazulula izingxabano ngokuzwakalayo, izingane zethu zizofunda ukuthi le yindlela efaneleke kakhulu yokukwenza. Uma, ngokuphambene nalokho, sizama ukuxoxisana futhi sixoxisane, bazokhula bazi ukuthi le yindlela evumayo yokukwenza.
Ukulwa kwabazalwane bejwayelekile. Ukwenza sengathi izingane zethu azilwi kuyinto engekho emqondweni. Kufanele ulahle isithombe esihle somndeni ophelele lapho kungabikho zingxabano khona. Izingxabano ziyimvelo empilweniOkwamanje kunabantu abangaphezu koyedwa, kungahle kube nokungqubuzana ngoba akusithina sonke esicabanga ngokufana. Into ebalulekile ukuthi indlela yokuzixazulula.