Benginenhliziyo esindayo kusukela kule ntambama: izindaba zentombazane eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala ebulawe ikhoma elidakayo kungishukumisile. Ukuphuza ngokweqile ngesikhathi sebhodlela ngesikhathi somkhosi we-Halloween kwamenza waquleka futhi waboshwa yi-cardiorespiratory. Lo mcimbi ungifikele, nginezindodana ezineminyaka engu-13, enye kwezili-10, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi zineminyaka yobudala lapho kwenzeka khona, kusukela ekuzameni ukuhlukumeza kuhamba ibanga elide, futhi akufanele ukubamba amahlombe ami, ngoba izingane kanye nabanye izingane ezibhekene nengcindezi yazo zonke izinhlobo zokuthuthuka izigaba ngakho konke lokho okubandakanya.
Ukuthi noma imuphi umuthi osemthethweni noma ongekho emthethweni uthinta ubuchopho bomuntu osemncane ukwedlula umuntu omdala, akulona iqiniso elisha. Bangabantu abakhule ngokugcwele futhi abasengozini enkulu, hhayi nje ngenxa yalaba bakamuva, kepha futhi ngoba bakhulela endaweni yokuncintisana "okungenampilo" lapho kukhona abaningi abanomzimba ongcono kakhulu, noma owenza imikhuba yobungozi engalawulwa. Uma uqhubeka nokufunda, uzongiqonda lapho ngikuqinisekisa ukuthi akufani ukuphuza utshwala ngo-12 kunaku-40, futhi vele ukuhlukunyezwa akuphephile kunoma yisiphi isigaba sempilo, kodwa kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba ubuchopho buqede ukukhula (ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-21).
Ikhoma le-ethyl ukulahlekelwa ukwazi ngemuva kokuphuza ngokweqile ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Akunakwenzeka ukulindela ukuthi ubani ozohlupheka, ngoba izidakamizwa "zihlobene" nabantu abahlukahlukene futhi zidala imiphumela, hhayi kuphela ngokususelwa esenzweni sento enobuthi, kodwa futhi nakwezici ezithile zalowo nalowo (inani lamafutha, ukudla, njll.). Izimpawu zisobala kakhulu: ukulahleka kwethoni yemisipha, ukuncipha kwengcindezi namazinga okushisa omzimba (isikhumba esibandayo), ukuphefumula okungajwayelekile, njll.
Intombazane edlala kulo mcimbi odabukisayo ichithe amahora amaningi ku-coma ebangelwe, kanti i-Civil Guard isivule uphenyo lwesikhundla (yayisencane) ukuzama ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekeni. Sikhuluma ngakho intombazane esencane kakhulu, endaweni enabanye mhlawumbe abalinganayo ngeminyaka. Kunezingozi eziningana: isidakamizwa, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukungavuthwa okungavimba "isicelo sosizo, indlela esidakwa ngayo (ukuhlukumeza, nemidlalo yokuncintisana phakathi).
Izingozi zokuphuza utshwala ezinganeni.
Iqiniso ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sinombono ongaqondakali wokuthi iyini iminyaka yobusha: sifuna izingane zizenzele izinqumo, kepha inqobo nje uma zingathathi isinqumo sokuya ocansini noma ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa kuze kube yilapho sezikhulile, noma ngale. Kodwa izinto azifani nalokho, futhi ukuhlolwa kuvamile kakhulu kulesi sigaba, kodwa-ke lokho esikubonayo akukhona ukuthi izingane ziyazama, kodwa lokho baphuze ngaphezu kwamandla omzimba wabo ukwenza umzimba ngokushesha.
Enye ingxenye yombuzo ngukuthi kuleyo minyaka inhloso enkulu ukuthi umuntu abe nonyaka owodwa ubudala, abe mdala, enze lokho okwenziwa abanolwazi oluningi, akhululeke, kepha ingabe umuntu ukhululekile ngaphansi kwethonya lanoma imuphi umuthi? Yebo akunjalo, ngoba ngokuphelele konke kuthinta ukusebenza kobuchopho. Imiphumela yokusetshenziswa kotshwala okuhlukumezayo enganeni isukela ekuguqulweni kokuhlangana noma ukubona, izinkinga zesisu, ukulimala kwenhliziyo, ukuzihlanganisa neminye imikhuba eyingozi (ucansi ngaphandle kokuvimbela inzalo, ukushayela budedengu, njll.).
Indima yomndeni, isikole kanye nomphakathi.
Sidinga ukunqoba ukwesaba ukukhuluma nabancane ngalezi zinkinga, ukulinda bona babe yintsha kuyiphuthaYilapho beqala khona ukuthola imininingwane evela kweminye imithombo, futhi bekubukela phansi ukubaluleka kwabazali. Kuyadingeka ukuqinisa ukuxhumana komndeni, ukutholakala lapho befuna ukubuza, balalele ngaphandle kokwahlulela, njll. futhi-ke sidalula amanani ethu maqondana nalezi zindaba ezithakazelisayo.
Izikole zingaphakamisa izinhlelo zokuvimbela, zimeme imindeni ukuthi ibambisane. Inkinga ukuthi le mizamo ivame ukuncishiswa ngokukhangisa ngotshwala lapho abalingisi bayo bebukeka bekhazimula futhi bebonakala bejabule, noma ngabantu abadala abamomotheka ngozungu lapho bebona ingane i-oda isangria emaphathini asedolobheni. Ngifuna ukukhumbula lapha lokho nika izingane ukunambitha utshwala (ngakho-ke bayakujwayela) kuyiphutha, futhi okunye kokukhulu.
Izici zobungozi nokuvikelwa.
Le ndlela ithakazelisa kakhulu, ngoba ikuvumela ukuthi ube nombono womhlaba wonke wazo zonke izinto ezikuthonyayo lapho wenza izinqumo, ngale ndlela kuzoba lula ithonya elivela kwimodeli yokuvimbela. Umndeni ungavikela kepha futhi ubeke phambili (unikeze isibonelo esibi), abangani bangabeka phambili, kepha futhi bavikele (uma ingane ibona imiphumela kwabanye), njalonjalo ...
Manje sesivele siyazi ukuthi ubuchopho bentsha buthinteka kakhulu kunobo bomuntu omdala ngaphambi kokusetshenziswa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezidakamizwa, lokhu akusasuki ekusebenzeni kahle kwesikole (nakho) noma izinkinga zobudlelwano bomndeni. Kuyinkinga eneminye imiphumela eminingi.
Izithombe - ULeonid Mamchenkov, a4gpa, UMarek otolski