Izingane ezinesibopho, izingane ezivuthiwe ngokwengeziwe: Ungakufinyelela kanjani lokho?

intombazane ephethe kahle ehleli ocingweni

Izingane ezinokwethenjelwa zisencane zithola amakhono asheshayo lokho kubasiza ukuba bavuthwe ngokulinganisela nenjabulo. Kodwa-ke, kusobala kithi sonke ukuthi ingane ngayinye inezinga layo lokuvuthwa, nokuthi akuzona zonke ezilandela izikhathi ezifanayo.

Manje, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele siyibukele phansi inkinga yokuzibophezela, ngoba siyakholelwa noma qha, imfundo iqala ezinyangeni zokuqala zempilo. Inqubo elula yokubanikeza imihlahlandlela, ukuphumula, ukudla nemikhuba yokuzilibazisa, isivele ibeka imikhuba ecacile yalokho okulindeleke kubo, nokuthi bangayifinyelela kanjani inhlalakahle yabo kanye nalezo zimpumelelo ezincane zansuku zonke. Ukufundisa kuyinto ejabulisayo, futhi ku- "Omama Namuhla" sifuna ukukukhombisa ukuthi singakuthuthukisa kanjani umthwalo wemfanelo ezinganeni.

Izingane ezinesibopho kufanele zikwazi ukunquma

intombazane ebukeka kahle

Kukhona obaba nomama abacabanga ngokungeyikho, lokho Umthwalo wemfanelo ufakwa ngokulalela okuqinile kakhulu. Akulona iqiniso, ngakho-ke kufanele sibheke lezi zinto ezilandelayo:

Ukufundisa akusho ukulawula. Ukufundisa kukwazi ukuthi ungabeka kanjani isibonelo, ukuba ngumqondisi onomthwalo okwazi ukukhuthaza ukufunda ngothando nokwethembana

  • Uma silandela uhlobo lwemfundo olususelwa ekulaleleni nasemithethweni engaguquguquki elawula zonke izici zengane, sizobe sivotela ikhono labo lokuzibophezela. Ngokuphambene nalokho esizenza ngathi.
  • Lapho sivikela ngokweqile, izingane ziba ezingavikelekile, nokungazethembi kwenza izingane zizibone zingakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi zodwa.
  • Kumele sibavumele ukuthi bakwazi ukunikeza umbono wabo, bakwazi ukuzimela usuku nosuku ukuze baqonde ukubaluleka komzamo. Okwakho, udinga ukubanikeza ukuzethemba nokukhuluma okuhle njengoba "Ungakwenza", "umdala ngokwanele ukuthi uzokwazi ukubhekelela izinto zakho."
  • Lapho izingane zethu zikwazi ukukhetha into eyodwa kunenye, kuzobenza babone ukuthi ngabe baqinisile noma ngabe benze iphutha. Kubalulekile ukuthi ngezikhathi ezithile sibavumele ukuthi "benze amaphutha" ukuze bathole okungcono kakhulu kokufunda ngale ndlela.
  • Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lapho ubeka amazinga, isibonelo nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kunamandla amaningi kunokukhuluma okulula. Kuya ngokuthi baneminyaka emingaki, kuzohlala kulula ukubanikeza amalayisense athile, izimvume ezithile nazo ezithwala umthwalo ophelele.

Bakhombise ukuzethemba

ingane ebhekele ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole

Imiphumela yamanothi okugcina kungenzeka ukuthi ayizange ibe mihle. Abazali abangakavuthwa kakhulu abanamakhono amabi okufundisa bazokhawulela ekujeziseni ingane nokuthi kuye kuye "uyaxaka noma uyivila". Akufanele senze ngale ndlela.

  • Uma ingane ingazizwa ivikelekile noma yaziwa emkhayeni, iyoba nokuzethemba okungekuhle. Ukungazethembi kuvame ukudala imizwa yokwehluleka, ngalo, kungaba yimbangela yezinkinga.
  • Izingane zethu zinelungelo lokwenza izinto ezingalungile, zingenza amaphutha futhi zize zisihlule. Manje, uma impendulo yethu ukusebenzisa ukujeziswa, ukuphoqelelwa noma ukwedelelwa, sizokhiqiza imizwa emibi kakhulu.
  • Banikeze amasu okuzethemba nokwenza ngcono. Khuluma nabo, ubabuze ukuthi kwenzekani kodwa ngaphandle kokujeziswa. Ingane ezizwa iphephile futhi inakekelwe ivulekile ngokwengeziwe, inozwela ngokwengeziwe.
  • Lapho othile ebona ukuthi abanye bathemba ikhono labo lokwenza ngcono, ukuthuthukisa nokufeza izinto, ukuzibona kwabo kuyathuthuka. Ukuphepha komuntu siqu okukhulu, umthwalo omkhulu. Lokhu yinto okufanele siyisebenze usuku nosuku.

Amathuba amasha nsuku zonke

intombazane ephethe kahle igeza ipuleti

Ukukhula, ukuba nosuku lokuzalwa, kubandakanya hhayi nje ukuthenga izingubo ezintsha. Ukuguga kunenani elengeziwe lokuba nesibopho nsuku zonke, futhi lokhu yinto esizokwazi ukuthi siyiqaphele selokhu bafika emhlabeni. Udinga ukubona ukuthi ingane yakho ikhula kanjani nokuthi yiziphi izidingo ezihlotshaniswa nokuvuthwa kwayo. Akuzona zonke izingane ezifanayo, futhi ngeke basebenzise iseluleko esifanayo ukuze babe nomthwalo wemfanelo.


  • Kuzoba nezingane ezingenakho ukuthula, ezikhohlwayo nezithembele kakhulu kithi. Njengoba bekhula, kuzodingeka ukuthi bancike kancane komama babo futhi bathole ukuzimela: bakwazi ukugcina ukuhleleka ekamelweni, ukuzigqoka, ukukhumbula ukufaka konke esikhwameni sesikole ...
  • Ezinye izingane, ngakolunye uhlangothi, bezilokhu zigxile kakhulu futhi zinomthwalo wemfanelo kusukela zisencane kakhulu. Kulokhu, abazokudinga yizikhuthazi namathuba amasha okukhula ngaphakathi. Kungaba kuhle kakhulu kubo ukubabhalisela izifundo zomculo, ukupenda, noma ezemidlalo. Imayelana nokuwavulela umhlaba ukuze bathole amakhono amasha.

Ngakho-ke, kufanele sicabangele izidingo zengane ngayinye. Akuwona wonke umuntu okhula ngendlela efanayo, akubona bonke abanobuntu obufanayo noma ababona izinto ngokufana nezingane zakwabo. Kumele sazi ukuthi kufanele sisebenzise kanjani i-intuit, sibazi kahle futhi sibanikeze abakufunayo.

Hlonipha ubuntu babo, izingane azifani nabazali

umfana onomthwalo wemfanelo ogibele ibhayisikili ekuphumeni kwelanga

Izingane zethu aziwona ama-clones ethu futhi akudingeki ukuthi zihlanganyele izindinganiso zethu ezifanayo noma okuncamelayo. Udaba lobuntu bezingane udaba oluhlala lukhiqiza ukukhathazeka okukhulu kubazali.

Kungani ezoba nolaka futhi angacabangi uma mina noyise sizolile futhi sigxile kakhulu? Lesi ngesinye sezisho ezijwayeleke kakhulu abazali abazenza zona, bemangazwe ukwehluka kokuziphatha kwezingane zabo.

Okuthile njengabazali okufanele sazi ngezingane zethu yilokhu okulandelayo:

  • Izingane zethu zingabantu abahlukile nabamangalisayo. Umsebenzi wethu ukwenza indlela yabo nsuku zonke ukuze babe ngabantu abadala abanokwethenjelwa abakwazi ukujabula kukhetho ngalunye abalwenzayo.
  • Umsebenzi wethu akukhona ukuhlukanisa indlela yabo noma ukunamathisela amaphiko abo. Uma ingane yakho ingumphuphi futhi ingenalwazi ngandlela thile, ungaphoqeleli ukuthatha amaphupho akhe noma ukujezisa noma ukudelela ukungabi khona kwakhe. Msize ukuthi avuthwe, abe yilokho akufunayo ngenkathi ehlonipha izici zakhe.

Uma siphikelela ekushintsheni ubuntu bengane sizodala ingcindezi, umcabango ophansi nentando encane yokuzibophezela. Yizingane ezingazizwa zihlonishwa, futhi lokhu kungazenza ziguqule lokhu kunganeliseki kube yintukuthelo noma ukuhlubuka, noma zingazihoxisa.

Ukuze sifundise izingane ezinesibopho, kuyadingeka ukuthi senze «uhambo lwangaphakathi» lokuzibonakalisa ukucabanga ngalezi zici:

  • Kufanele uhlale uyisibonelo esihle kubo.
  • Uma abazali bakho benza amaphutha nawe, ungaphoqeleli ukuthi wenze okuhlukile. Beka eceleni ukwesaba kwakho, futhi uzethembe wena, imizwa yakho futhi ikakhulukazi othandweni lwakho ezinganeni zakho. Kwesinye isikhathi "izipoki zakudala" zisibangela ukuba sakhe uvalo olungadingekile.
  • Lapho ubeka imithetho, unikezela ngemithwalo yemfanelo, uyavuza, uqinisa noma ujezisa, Kuyadingeka ukuthi nobabili nivumelane ngakho konke.

Ukukhulisa izingane ezinesibopho kudinga ukubekezela, ubuhlakani obuningi bemizwa kanye nesifiso sokufunda nsuku zonke nengane yakho. Akekho oza emhlabeni okwaziyo ukuba ngumama, kuyinto ephilwa nsuku zonke futhi lokho kuyinto enhle efanelekile ukuthi iphile.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.