Isazi sezenhlalo uGenís Roca, esimaziyo ngokuhlanganyela kwakhe encwadini yamanothi engu-9 ye-FAROS ("New Technologies ezinganeni nasebusheni") usitshela 'ngoshintsho lweNkathi Yezwe' oluqhutshwa ukuthuthukiswa kwe-ICT. Kukhona umusho wakhe engiwuthandayo futhi engithemba ukuthi ungawukhulumi kabi, uthi "umuntu ubonakala ngolimi nangokusebenzisa / ukuthuthukisa ubuchwepheshe." Kokunye kokushicilelwa oke waxoxwa noma wakhulunywa ngakho, ngithole umfanekiso engiwuthandile ...
Kubuzwe umbuzo engicabanga ukuthi nathi omama nobaba kumele sizibuze wona. Izikhathi eziningi sinomuzwa wokuphila izimo ezingqubuzanayo nezingane zethu ngenxa yokusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe; futhi uma ngiqhubekela phambili, sijwayele futhi 'ukukhipha idemoni' konke okubazungezile. Kepha kude nokucabanga “ngendlela izingane ezazimi kahle ngayo ngaphambi kwe-smart tv, amaphilisi, iziduduzi…; Kufanele sikuqonde ukuthi mhlawumbe thina (umphakathi wonke) kube yithi ebesidinga ukuqhubekela phambili futhi siguqule indlela yethu yokuxhumana, yingakho namuhla sifunda imishini yokushicilela yedijithali nezinhlamvu zamaphepha zinyamalale emabhokisini eposi. Sizokutshela konke esikwaziyo ngezingane namaphilisi, ngethemba ukuthi uyayithanda.
"Izingane zingabomdabu bedijithali”(Kuyinkulumo ebhalwe ngobugebengu, ngiyazi) futhi bayakwazi ukusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe ngamakhono engingazifunela wona; Lokhu, kanye nezimpawu ezikhona ekukhuleni kwayo (ukuphuthuma, ubunzima bokuqonda imiphumela, njll.), Kwesinye isikhathi kusibangela ukuthi sesabe kancane imiphumela engaba khona etholakala ekusebenziseni kabi. Ngubani omunye, ongagcinanga kangako "ukudonsana kwempi" nezingane zabo ngalomqondo. Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, i-Intanethi iveza okuhle kithi, yize ingakhipha futhi 'okubi kakhulu', futhi lokho kungenye yokwesaba ukuthi njengoba sikhula sivame ukuba nakho: ukuthi abazi kanjani zivikele abantu abanezinhloso ezimbikanye ne imikhuba eyingozi.
Uma njengabazali sivimbela ukuxhumana kwezingane namadivayisi wezobuchwepheshe, sifulathela iqiniso; uma sivumela ngokweqile futhi singanaki, singabalimaza ngenxa yokuntuleka kokugadwa (kunomqondo oyisibonelo salokhu: “izintandane zedijithali”). Ngakho-ke ingabe umbuzo nje wokulinganisela? Yebo: ukulinganisela, ukuqonda, ukuqonda indima esinayo njengabazali, yokuzivumelanisa nalokho izingane ezikucelayo, kepha nezidingo zabo njengezidalwa ezikhulayo. Ngomkhuba omncane, futhi thina bazali sinokuningi kwalokho, akunzima njengoba kubonakala, akunjalo?
Ngabe siyawadinga amaphilisi?
Ngokulalela izincazelo ezimbili zegama "isidingo" sithola ukuthi yilokho 'okungenakwenzeka ukumelana nakho' kanye 'nokuswela izinto ezidingekayo ekulondolozweni kwempilo'. Ngakho-ke impendulo yombuzo obuziwe inguyebo futhi ithi CHA. Kunoma ikuphi, thintana namadivayisi we-ICT isiza izingane ukuthuthukisa amakhono azoba wusizo olukhulu esikhathini esizayo. Uma kukhulunywa ngokubheka ukuthi ukuzisebenzisa nini kube lula ezinganeni, ngingasho ukuthi konke kuncike ebudaleni, kepha nasekuvuthweni, nakanjani kubhajethi yomndeni (ukuthi ukungalingani kwezenhlalo sekuvele kuyenzeka kule ndawo).
Yikuphi ukungalungi ukusetshenziswa kwamathebulethi ezinganeni?
Uma senza isinqumo ngemuva kokucabangisisa futhi siyakwazi ukubakhombisa futhi sibaphathe (ngokuncanyana noma ngokuncike kakhulu ngokuya ngokuthi baneminyaka emi-4 noma eyi-14 ubudala): akekho. Futhi yebo: sonke sifunde izincomo nezifundo ezihlobene (ngokwesibonelo) ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kulokhu noma kuleyo ngozi noma inkinga. Angizithandi izinkolelo-ze, futhi ngiyaqhubeka: I-American Academy of Pediatrics eminyakeni eyedlule eyeluleka ngokusetshenziswa kwethelevishini yizingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwemibili ubudala, manje seyibuyekeza izeluleko zayo futhi igxile kakhulu kokuqukethwe kunasebangeni lobudala.
Ngazi kangakanani (futhi angazi konke) izexwayiso esizizwile kuyo yonke le minyaka: eJapan, odokotela bezingane baxwayisa ukuthi ama-Smartphones kanye namathebulethi awakwazanga ukusetshenziswa njengezigcina izinganeE-United Kingdom, othisha babebonile ukuthi izingane zilahlekelwe ngamakhono ezandla, eSouth Korea kunamakamu asehlobo okuncishiswa ubuthi kwezobuchwepheshe…; Yebo, konke kungenxa yokusetshenziswa ngokweqile noma ukusetshenziswa kabi, ekugcineni ukungabandakanyeki kwabantu abadala.
Si silawula izikhathi zokusetshenziswa, siyavumelana ngemithetho yomndeni, sixhumana kakhulu nezingane ngalolu daba, futhi siyaqhubeka sizinikeza ezinye izindlela zokuzilibazisa, kungenzeka ukuthi izingane ngokwazo zivame ukwenza umthetho, noma ngabe zidinga ukungenelela kwabazali ukwenza njalo.
Ngoba uma bedlala kakhulu kuthebhulethi noma kwi-console akubaniki umoya nelanga, uma bethumela izithombe ezonakalisiwe ngeWhatsApp bangaba nezinkinga ezithile; Kepha ngemuva kwalokho kunabantu abadala abavuma ngaphandle kokubuza, bathenge i-PS enganeni eneminyaka emihlanu, ithebhulethi enganeni enezinyanga eziyi-5, kanti ingane enezinyanga eziyi-8 ayikaze itshelwe lutho ngobuzwe be-cyber . Futhi, uma ukhumbula, sibalile lapha ukuthi izikhathi eziningi izingane zinengqondo evamile kunathi.
Kunconywa ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki?
Sengivele ngikukhombisile, ukuncoma ukuthi kunesibindi kwesinye isikhathi: ngabazali okufanele bathathe izinqumo, ngakho-ke isincomo esikhulu kungukuqonda okujwayelekile. Owesibili uthi: yiba umzali! futhi uqonde ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kuyodingeka ukuthi "cha" ngokufisela intombazane noma umfana. Vele, ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala eyi-6 ngingeluleka ngomuntu omncane ukuba nethebulethi okwabo, kepha kuze kube kuleyo minyaka bangasebenzisa omama noma obaba. Eqinisweni, i-Organisation for Internet User Safety iveza ukuthi phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-5 yiminyaka yokuxhumana okokuqala nobuchwepheshe. Kulula ukusebenzisa ukugada okugcwele nokuqhubekayo uma besebenzisa amadivayisi akho.
¿Ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-3? Ngokubona kwami ukusetshenziswa kuzogcina isikhathi kakhulu futhi kube yingcosana, ngoba lapho bekhulisa amakhono amaningi ayisisekelo futhi adingekayo, singakwazi (ngokwengxenye) ukukhipha ukusetshenziswa kwabo okuqhubekayo kwamathebulethi. Ngiyaphinda ngithi: ngaso sonke isikhathi kusuka ekuhlakanipheni nasekulinganiseni, ngoba ebuntwaneni besencane bafunda ukuzihlanganisa, nabanye, nemvelo ... ubudala, ubenza okubi kakhulu kunokulunga.
Ngikuqinisekisa kanjani ukuphepha.
Amagciwane, amaTrojans, umlutha, ukufinyelela kokuqukethwe okungafanelekile, ukuxhumana nabantu abangafanelekile ... phew! Uma izingane zakho zingaphansi kweminyaka engu-6/7 ubudala, lokhu kusekude kakhulu kuwe, kepha impela ukuphepha kuyisisekelo. Yingakho ngihlanganyela nawe le decalogue elungiselelwe Izingane nentsha online, engikubhalayo, "uma uhlela ukubanika ithebhulethi (noma amanye amadivayisi) khumbula":
- Faka i-antivirus ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
- Yenza kusebenze iphasiwedi ku-terminal ukuze ulawule ukulanda kwezinhlelo zokusebenza nokuthengiwe.
- Sungula isikhathi sokusetshenziswa: ukuthi izingane zakho zazi umthetho kusengaphambili, nokuthi isikhathi silungele iminyaka yazo (imizuzu engama-30 miningi enganeni eneminyaka emibili, futhi imbalwa enganeni eneminyaka engu-2 wenza iphrojekthi yesikole). Usuku lokusebenza alufani nempelasonto!
- Kwenze kucace ukuthi izikhala nezikhathi ukusetshenziswa akuvumelekile, nokuthi izikrini zivaliwe ngasiphi isikhathi.
- Setha izilawuli zabazali.
- Jwayela ukubonisana ngaphambi kokulayisha izithombe.
- Batshele ukuthi kuyingozi ukuxhuma kumanethiwekhi wamahhala we-Wi-Fi.
- Chaza ukuthi isikrini sikhiyiwe kanjani ukuze kungangeni muntu kokuqukethwe.
- Uma bazi ngamanethiwekhi okuxhumana nabantu, hlola izilungiselelo zabo zobumfihlo.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi baqonde kancane kancane ubulula bokufunda imibandela yokusetshenziswa kwezicelo.
Yiliphi ithebhulethi elihle kakhulu lezingane?
Iminyaka engama-2 ngibe 'yisipho senkanyezi' UKhisimusi, ngakho-ke angimangali ngenxa yekhanda elivezwa ukuthenga kwakho. Empeleni, noma iyiphi ithebhulethi izokwanela, ngoba kungenzeka ukubuka noma ukulanda okuqukethwe okulungele iminyaka yezingane zethu, kodwa-ke kunezici ezahlukanisayo lapho amanye amamodeli enzelwe izingane ngokukhethekile asekelwe (iVtech, Paquito, Clan, njll. .), nokuthi isiqinisekiso siphumelele.
Ngakho-ke, lapho uzokhetha ithebhulethi yezingane, qiniseka ukuthi inomklamo ofanele, isikhombimsebenzisi esishintshile, isikrini esingu-7-intshi, esingazweli (umangelengele) noma awunawo ama-hardware akhawulelwe Okuvame kakhulu ukuthi sithenga idivayisi ye-Android, futhi ayilimazi (ikakhulukazi kumamodeli abiza kancane) ukubheka ukuthi uyakwazi ukufinyelela ku-Google Play.
Ukuphetha nokufingqa: siphila nobuchwepheshe, uma uhlukanisa izingane zakho zingafunda ngokwamadijithi, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uthenge ithebhulethi yabo entsha sha yokuqala ezinyangeni eziyi-12. Engikubonayo ukwesaba abazali, izexwayiso eziningi ezivela kochwepheshe, futhi lokho kungadala ukudideka, khumbula ukuthi akekho umuntu ongakwenzela isinqumo, futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukutholakala kobuchwepheshe ezimpilweni zethu akukubi ngamunye. Eqinisweni, ukube izinhlobo zethu bezingabonakali ngokuthuthuka kwezobuchwepheshe, kungenzeka ukuthi besingazange sifinyelele kuNeolithic.
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