Okudingwa yizingane ukuze zizethembe kahle

ukuzihlonipha kwengane

Ukwakha ukuzethemba kwesikole sakho sasenkulisa kungahle kubonakale kuwumthwalo omkhulu, ngemuva kwakho konke. Ukuzethemba kubeka isisekelo nekusasa lezingane zakho. Ukuzethemba kungukuzibona esinakho ngathi, kokwazi ukuthi sinekhono, ukwazi ukukhubazeka kanye nobuhle, futhi kuhlobene nenani abanye abanalo ngathi.

Njengoba bonke abantu abadala bazi, ukuzethemba kungaba nesisekelo esihle kepha kwesinye isikhathi kungathinteka ngoba kwesinye isikhathi sizizwa kahle ngathi futhi kwesinye isikhathi asazi. Esizama ukukufundisa izingane zethu ngamakhono empilo, njengokukhuthazela noma ukufunda ngemuva kokwenza amaphutha.

Inhloso yanoma yimuphi umzali ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane ithuthuka futhi izihloniphe yona kanye nemvelo yayo esondelene nayo. Yini enye, uzodinga futhi ukwazi ngokwanele ukubhekana nezinselelo zempilo -Ngokwengane encane lokhu kungasho ukudweba ilanga kahle. Kuyadingeka ukuthi njengobaba noma umama wazi amasu athile okusiza izingane zakho zikwazi ukuzethemba ngokwazi lokho ezikudingayo.

Uthando olungenamibandela

Ukuzethemba kwengane yakho kuzokhula ngenxa yothando lwakho olungenamibandela. Ingane yakho izoba nokuzethemba okukhulu lapho umamukela njengalokhu eyikho, kungakhathalekile ukuthi unamandla, ubunzima, isimo sengqondo noma amakhono. Izingane zakho zidinga ukuthi uzikhuthele ngothando nsuku zonke ngokugona okuningi, ukuqabula kanye namazwi okukhuthaza. -Futhi-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi ubatshele nsuku zonke ukuthi umthanda kangakanani.

Lapho kufanele ukhuze ingane yakho, udinga ukuthi njalo ugxile ekuziphatheni kwakhe nokuthi yini engamukeleki, kepha hhayi kumuntu wakhe. Gwema ukufaka ilebula noma ukwenza izahlulelo zenani. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi: 'Ungumfana omubi, kungani ungeke ube muhle ngokwengeziwe', ungasho okuthile okufana nokuthi: 'Ukushaya umfowenu akulungile, ungamlimaza'.

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Isikhathi nokunakwa kwakho

Izingane zakho zidinga isikhathi sakho nokunakekelwa kwakho. Lokhu kuzokwenza izimangaliso zokuzethemba kwezingane njengoba kuthumela umyalezo wokuthi ucabanga futhi uzizwe ukuthi bayinto ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Kulula njengokuyeka ukuphenya ngeposi uma ingane yakho izama ukukhuluma nawe noma icisha ithelevishini isikhathi esanele ukuphendula umbuzo ingane yakho ekubuze wona.

Kubalulekile ukubheka iso ukuze ingane yakho yazi - izobona nganoma yisiphi isikhathi - ukuthi ulalela ngempela lokho ekushoyo. Uma ungenasikhathi esiningi, ungabeka futhi phambili ingane yakho lapho ikhuluma nawe bese usho okuthile okufana nokuthi: 'Uma uqeda ukungichazela ngomdwebo, sizokwenza isidlo sakusihlwa.'

Imikhawulo

Udinga ukubekela izingane zakho imithetho enengqondo ekhaya. Kudingeka imithetho nemikhawulo ukuze izingane zizizwe ziphephile futhi ukuze bazi nokuthi yini elindeleke kubo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Isibonelo, uma utshela ingane yakho ukuthi kufanele idle isinongo sayo ekhishini, ungayivumeli izungeze igumbi elinamakhukhi.

ukuzihlonipha kwengane

Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi kunemithetho ethile emndenini 'ebhalwe ngamatshe' futhi okumele ilandelwe, kepha kungahle kube neminye enezimo ezithile eziguquguqukayo ngokuya ngesimo ozithola ukuso. Ukuze ingane encane iqale ukuqonda ukuthi kufanele ilalele imithetho nemikhawulo yasekhaya, kuzodinga ukuphindaphinda okungaguquki ohlangothini lwakho, kepha kungekudala uzobona ukuthi ngenxa yokucaca, ukungaguquguquki nokubekezela, imiphumela emihle etholakalayo.


Bayeke benze amaphutha

Amaphutha angabafundisi abangcono kakhulu bezingane njengoba ziyizifundo ezibalulekile zokukusiza unqobe ukukhungatheka futhi wakhe ukuzethemba kwakho. Ngakho-ke uma ingane yakho ibeka ipuleti eduze kakhulu emaphethelweni bese iwela phansi, esikhundleni sokucasuka, mkhuthaze ukuba acabange ngalokho angenza ngokuhlukile ngokuzayo. Ngale ndlela, ukuzihlonipha kwengane yakho ngeke kulimale futhi uzofunda ukwenza kangcono ngokuzayo ngenxa yephutha elenziwe - futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzofunda ukuthi ukwenza amaphutha kuyinto ejwayelekile kunazo zonke emhlabeni.

Ukubona nokwelulama emaphutheni kunomyalezo onamandla ezinganeni, futhi lokhu kuzokwenza kube lula ukuthi zamukele ukulinganiselwa kwazo.

Thatha izingozi ezinempilo

Njengabazali, sinesibopho sokukhuthaza izingane ukuthi zihlole izinto ezintsha njengokuzama ukudla okwehlukile, ukufuna abangane, noma ukugibela amabhayisikili. Yize kuhlale kukhona ithuba lokwehluleka, ngaphandle kwengozi alikho ithuba lokuphumelela. Ngalesi sizathu, vumela ingane yakho ihlole ngokuphepha futhi imelane nesifiso sokungenela ukwenza izinto zibe lula kuye.

Isibonelo, zama ukuthi 'ungatakuli' ingane yakho lapho izwa ukukhungatheka okuncane lapho ithola ukuthi ithoyizi elisha lisebenza kanjani, uma umenzela izinto esikhundleni sokuqondisa ukuthi lizitholele lona, ​​uzobe ukhuthaza ukuncika futhi wehlisa ukuzethemba kuye. Ukwakha ukuzethemba kwakhe kudinga ukulinganisa isidingo sakho sokuvikela ingane yakho nesidingo sayo sokubhekana nemisebenzi emisha.

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Ezinye izinto ezibalulekile izingane ezidinga ukuzethemba kahle

  • Ukuxhumana okuvulelekile futhi okuhle
  • Ukucabanga okuhle
  • Isiyalo esikahle
  • Uzwela nokuqina
  • Umuzwa wokuba ngowakho
  • Yiba nethuba lokwenza izinqumo -ngokuya ngeminyaka-

Konke osanda kukufunda kule ndatshana yizinto ezifunwa yibo bonke abantwana ukuze bahlakulele ukuzethemba okuhle okuzosebenza njengesisekelo sokuthola impumelelo empilweni yabantu abadala, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuze bakwazi ukuzizwa kahle ngabo futhi bajabule. Ukuzethemba kubalulekile kubo bonke abantu futhi yingakho abazali kumele bathole indlela yokukuthuthukisa ezinganeni zabo. Ukuzethemba okuhle kuyadingeka ukuze ujabule.


Shiya umbono wakho

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.