Sisephuzwini gubha i-Halloween, iphathi yokuthi indodakazi yami encane 'yiyona ehamba phambili onyakeni' (babekuphi labo bantwana bejabula ngoKhisimusi? 😉); Y kwabaningi abancane kuyisizathu sokuzijabulisa. Asidingi ukukhumbula umsuka wamaCelt wokugubha, noma ukuthi ngobuhlakani obuncane kanye namahlaya amahle, ngeke sidinge ukuthenga izesekeli zepulasitiki, amaswidi amaningi ukunikela, azikho izingubo ezigqashuka ngosuku lwesibili.
Kepha engifuna ukukutshela namuhla uchungechunge lwezeluleko zezingane ezingezona-ezincane ukuthi ziphile i-Halloween yazo ngokuphepha. Uma unamadodakazi namadodana angaphezu kweminyaka eyi-10, mhlawumbe bakhetha ukuzihambela., futhi kuzofanele unakekele izinkumbulo zalezo zikhathi lapho waqoqa abangane bakho ekhaya ukuze ufunde izindaba ezethusayo noma wenze obhasikidi abazenzele bona ukuze bakwazi ukuqoqa kamnandi amaswidi. Kuyiqiniso: kuya ngemvelo ohlala kuyo, kuleyo minyaka bangakwazi ukuhlangana nozakwabo nabangane, akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho, yebo: njalo ucabange ngokuphepha.
IHalloween, nezingane esezivele ziphume zodwa emgwaqweni.
Njengoba ngishilo, iminyaka eyi-10 kungenzeka ibe 'yiminyaka esinqunyiwe', futhi ungahle ucabange, “ini? Kodwa uma indawo yangakithi inkulu kakhulu futhi kungekho muntu owaziyo noma ubani! ”Kulungile, kunezimo lapho ungalinda khona kancane, kodwa okungenakugwemeka ukuthi kungekudala. Ku-Halloween noma emicimbini yendawo, lowo obeyingane yakho ngeke esafuna ukukubamba ngesandla, kunjalo. Kepha ngifika ephuzwini: into yokuqala ukuhlola imvelo ohlala kuyo, okusho ukuthi:
- Yazi imikhawulo ngenxa yethrafikhi ekhona: ithrafikhi eningi, izinto ezimbalwa zomthethonqubo, njll.
- Qaphela izakhi zasemadolobheni ukuthi i-priori ingahle ingaphephi: imigwaqo engakhanyi kahle, izinkambu ezivulekile.
- Indawo lapho wonke umuntu azana khona ayifani nendawo esanda kwakhiwa lapho kungekho muntu ohlala khona, ngaphandle kokubuyela esidlweni sokulala nokulala.
- Inethiwekhi yezohwebo nezindawo zokudla nezindawo zokudlela: noma ngubani uzizwa ekhululeka ngokwedlulele avumele izingane zakhe zizulazule emigwaqweni lapho kunenethiwekhi yezentengiselwano yendawo eqinile, futhi - ngenxa yalokho - abantu abathembele kubo abangabuza noma imiphi imibuzo.
- Ngabe indodana yakho ifuna ukuhlangana kwenye indawo ngoba kulapho kuhlala khona abangane bayo?
- Uyazi uma izingane ziqondiswe kahle?
- Njll
Azilutho nje imibuzo yokwenza ukuhlolwa kokuqala.
Ake silungiselele umhlabathi
Eminyakeni eyi-13 noma eyi-14 ubudala, bazokholwa ukuthi uhlasela ubumfihlo babo uma wenza sengathi ukhuluma nomama noma obaba babangane babo (bazocabanga kanjalo uma ubiza umfundisi ukuba abambe umhlangano 🙂). Kepha uma bebancane, kufanele babe nokuncane ukuxhumana neminye imindeni ukuze wonke umuntu adlulise imilayezo efanayo maqondana ne-: isikhathi sokufika, izindawo lapho bangahamba khona, imithetho okufanele ilandelwe (hlonipha abanye abantu, ungashiyi muntu eqenjini yedwa, njll.).
Qiniseka ukuthi wonke umuntu uzoxhumana nezingane zakhe ngaphambi kokuba aphume.
Amanye amathiphu.
- Uma omunye weqembu eneselula, kungcono; Bhala phansi encwadini yokuxhumana izinombolo zocingo zamaPhoyisa Wasekhaya Nezimo Eziphuthumayo Zezempilo, nezinombolo zabazali abaningana.
- Kuyinto elula ukuthi ifakwe amathoshi. Akekho umuntu ofuna bangene kokuningi ngaphandle kwamalambu omgwaqo, kepha ekujuleni kwenhliziyo bayazi ukuthi uma bengazithathi lezo zingcuphe eziphakathi kuka-10 no-15, abasoze bazithatha.
- Ukuthi abangeni endlini yomuntu: bangqongqoza emnyango, bacoshe amajeli beans, nokunye.
- Ukuthi bayakwenqaba ukucasulwa ngamanye amaqembu, noma (lapho kufanele khona) kwama- “clown” adumile aseduma ngokusabisa abanye. Ezimweni ezishubile ikakhulukazi, bangaxwayisa umuntu omdala, ngisho nokushayela amaphoyisa ucingo.
- Ukuphepha kwesakhamuzi noma insizakalo yezimo eziphuthumayo akubizwa, uma kungenasizathu.
- Bafundise ukuthola amaswidi asonakele: banuka kabi, banombala ongajwayelekile, banamathela emaphaketheni ...?
- Ungakhuthazi "ukwesaba okungenalutho" kwabanye: ngaphandle kwekhaya lakho akuzona zonke izilo. Kungcono ukuthi bafunde ukuthi ngubani okufanele bamethembe, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthi benqabe noma yisiphi isicelo esingabenzi bazizwe kabi.
Nayi i-infographic yefayela le- Inhlangano Kazwelonke Yezokuphepha Kwezingane, engicabanga ukuthi izoba wusizo kuwe.
Futhi ukukhuluma ngokuphepha: kuyiqiniso ukuthi uzwa izindaba zentsha ephonsa amaqanda ezingubeni zezindlu lapho kungamukelwa khona 'ukukhohlisa noma ukwelashwa', noma ngezigelekeqe ezahlukahlukene zobunzima obuhlukahlukene. Ngiyethemba ukuthi la macala mancane kakhulu, angithandi ukucabanga ukuthi iminyaka ixhumene nokuziphatha okuthile okungafanele. Kunoma ikuphi, ungakhuluma nabafana bakho hhayi amantombazane (namantombazane) ukuze bakhumbule imithetho eyisisekelo yenhlalo nenhlonipho ngempahla yabanyeFuthi ukuze ungahambi uhlupha abanye, ngoba ekujuleni kwenhliziyo, akumnandi.
Siyethemba ukuthi la macebiso azokusiza.
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