Omama bamabhodlela bayazi ukuthi ukuncelisa ibele kuhle, izinzuzo ze ukuncelisa futhi lapha uzothola amathiphu amaningi wokukwenza ngempumelelo. Ngisho ne-WHO (World Health Organisation) iyincoma kuphela nangokufunwa kwayo, ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala zempilo yengane.
Kodwa ukuncelisa ibele akulula, zithonywa yizici ngezinye izikhathi ezingaphezu kwamandla omama. Njengoba kungaba yizici zabo zomzimba, ukuthi ubisi aluvuki, ukuthi kunezici emipayipi edala ukuvinjelwa, ukuthi ukuqala kokutheleleka ngamagciwane, ukwelashwa okungahambelani nokuncelisa, ukuthi ingane ayinalo ikhono lokuncela, ukuthi ubisi lunqunywa ngqo kwilulwane, njll.
Kwesinye isikhathi yonke into iyazama kodwa namanje ayenele.
Lokhu kungakho Kuyadingeka ukugwema ukuphawula okuthile noma izimo zengqondo maqondana nokuncelisa okufakelwayo. Eziningi zazo ziyizinganekwane, ukuthi ngaphezu kokudida umama omusha, zimenza azizwe kabi ngento mhlawumbe angazange akhethe ukuyenza.
Kuyinsumansumane ukuthi izingane zizohlala ziphilile futhi zondliwa kangcono ngobisi lwebele. Ngokwesayensi sekufakazelwe ukuthi ukuncelisa lokho akwenzayo kudlulisa amasosha omzimba nezakhi ezisuka kumama ziye enganeni ngobisi. Uma umama engenayo imikhuba yokuphila enempilo, unenkinga ethile ngokuzivikela kwakhe, noma ichayeka ezintweni ezinobuthi, kungenzeka ukuthi ubisi lwefomula oluhle belulekwe kangcono. Futhi kunezinye izindlela zokuqinisa amasosha akho omzimba, njengokuxhumana nesilwane.
Kuzoba khona omama abacindezela futhi babuze omama abanikeza ukuncelisa okungelona eleqiniso, ngoba sihlaselwa yizinzuzo zokuncelisa. Inhloso yami akukhona ukubabuza, kepha ingcindezi yezenhlalo evame ukwenziwa kulabo abakhetha ibhodlela nayo ayidingekile.
Ukuncelisa ibele kunzima
Akekho okhuluma nawe ngokuqhekeka ezingxoxweni. Akekho okutshela ukuthi uma ingane yakho ingumuntu odla kahle, wonke amandla akho uwasebenzisela ukumondla. Akekho okuxwayisa ngokuthi uzozizwa womile njalo, ngenkathi amabele akho evuza noma yinini. Kukhona omama abangakwazi ukukuthwala konke lokho futhi abangomama abangcono kakhulu lapho beqala ngokuncelisa ibhodlela, beqinisa izibopho nengane yabo ngezinye izindlela, ezifana ukuthunyelwa.
Kodwa-ke, uma konke kuhamba kahle, ukuncelisa ibele kuyamangalisa futhi kuyazuzisa.
Ungayikhetha nini ibhodlela
Into enempilo kakhulu ukukhetha ibhodlela lapho umzwelo kamama wakho ukutshela ukuthi ingane yakho iyojabula futhi ikhule ibe nempilo ngokuncelisa okufakelwayo. Yilapho ukuncelisa kunganxephezeli, isibonelo: akubuyiseli lapho uzizwa ukhungathekile ngoba ingane yakho ikhuluphele noma ngabe ukudla kwayo kudingekile, imini nobusuku. Akukhokhi lapho udokotela wakho ekutshela ukuthi uyeke, ngenxa yempilo yakho noma eyengane yakho.
Akulungile ukuthi akekho umuntu owenza uzizwe kabi ngakho.
Okwalokho, kwenzelwa lokho nje:
- Ungalokothi utshele umama webhodlela ukuthi kufanele alandele lokhu noma lokho kudla ukuze akhiqize ubisi, ngoba kufakazelwa ukuthi kuyinganekwane. Ukukhulisa ukukhiqizwa, kungcono ukunikeza isifuba izikhathi eziningi futhi usivuselele ngokubhucungwa nokushisa, kepha akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kunezinto eziningi ezingalawuleki ekukhiqizeni ubisi ukuthi nje ushintsho ekudleni cishe alunakuguqula izinto. Ngokuphambene nalokho, sengeza ingcindezi eyingozi ekunceliseni ibele.
- Ungalokothi utshele umama webhodlela ukuthi angamnaki udokotela wakhe, ukuthi ayisasebenzi, noma bekufanele ubone omunye uchwepheshe. Cishe awukwazanga, futhi akufanele uzizwe kabi ngokukhawulelwa yizimo zakho.
- Ungalokothi utshele umama webhodlela ukuthi sikulungele ukuncelisa ibeleNgoba njengayo yonke impilo kube nabahlengikazi abamanzi abakwazi ukuncelisa izingane ezifika ku-3, kube nomama abomile abathembele kowokuqala ukukhulisa izingane zabo. Njengoba sesishilo, zonke izinto ezithinta ukukhiqizwa kobisi azaziwa, futhi kunezikhathi lapho ngenxa yezinto ezingaziwa, kumane kungavuki.
- Ungatsheli umama webhodlela ukuthi kufanele ngabe uye kumxhumanisi we-lactation, ngoba uma inkinga yakhe ingeyona eyemuva futhi iyinkinga engokomzimba yolunye uhlobo, bekungeke kumsize nayo. Noma mhlawumbe waqhamuka futhi unamahloni okuvuma ukuthi akakakwazanga.
- Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungalokothi utshele umama webhodlela ukuthi akazange azame kanzima ngokwanele, ngoba kunamaqhawe esifazane ancelisa izingane zawo ngesifuba esivulekile nangomsele. Omama abethukile obekufanele bayeke, ngoba bangahle balahlekelwe amabele, noma okunye okubaluleke kakhulu.
Labo mama abangamabhodlela abanikeze owokuqala ekhala. Futhi naphezu kwezinzuzo i-SCI engaba nazo, bafanelwe ukuzwa ukuthi benza okuhle kakhulu ezinganeni zabo.