Kunezingane eziningi ezikhulela emadolobheni amakhulu nokuthi kubazali bazo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu ngaphandle kokungabaza, kodwa kwabanye mhlawumbe abahlala emadolobheni, balangazelela ukuhlala kuthule emadolobheni noma emaphandleni. Kepha njengakho konke, ukuhlala edolobheni kunezinzuzo, kepha futhi kungaba nezithiyo ezithile. Kuzoncika endleleni yokuphila onayo nemfundo ofuna ukuyidlulisela ezinganeni zakho noma uhlala edolobheni ukukhulisa abancane bakho noma cha.
Ukuhlakanipha okuvamile kusitshela ukuthi ukuze ukhulise izingane ezijabulayo udinga indlu enkulu, utshani, igceke, igumbi lomdlalo, nokunye okuningi… Indawo ethule, imoto ekahle, nesikhathi sokuhamba. Ngamanye amagama, udinga ikhwalithi yempilo amadolobha amakhulu angakwazi ukuyinikeza, phakathi kokunye ngoba ukuhlala emadolobheni kubiza kakhulu kunasemadolobheni.
Kepha iqiniso ukuthi ukuze izingane zijabule azidingi izinto eziningi kangaka ezibonakalayo, abakudingayo ukuthi abazali nezihlobo zabo babe eceleni kwabo, bazithande futhi bachithe isikhathi esezingeni elifanele nabo. Imindeni eminingi ikhetha ukukhulisa izingane zayo emadolobheni, ezindaweni ezinabantu abaningi emadolobheni. Abantu abakhulele emadolobheni bathuthela emadolobheni ukukhulisa izingane zabo ngoba bayabona ukuthi buncane ubugebengu, kunezikole ezingcono nempilo esezingeni eliphezulu, kodwa emadolobheni konke akukubi kangako ngoba nakho lokhu sekuqala ukushintsha emadolobheni.
Kancane kancane, amadolobha nawo aba yizindawo eziphephile, ezinezikole ezinhle, amapaki nezindawo eziluhlaza lapho ungajabulela khona nezingane zakho nenani elikhulu lezinketho amadolobha angenazo futhi angenakukunikeza.
Izinzuzo zokukhulisa izingane edolobheni
Amasiko amaningi angafinyelelwa
Uma uhlala edolobheni elikhulu, kungenzeka ukuthi kutholakale kalula ezandleni zakho ngendlela elula kakhulu yokufinyelela ezinsizakalweni zamasiko, ungaya enkundleni yemidlalo yaseshashalazini, uye eminyuziyamu, kumidlalo yaseshashalazini, ufunde ngomlando wedolobha. .. imisebenzi yamasiko emadolobheni ibiza kancane noma ayikhokhelwa nhlobo. Lapho izingane zisencane lokhu akubongwa, kepha njengoba bekhula kubalulekile ukuthi bakwazi ukufinyelela kuzo zonke izinketho zedolobha lamasiko. Kuthatha kuphela ukugibela ibhasi elifushane ukufika noma kuphi.
Kuthatha isikhathi esincane ukufika noma kuphi
Uma uhlala kude nedolobha futhi kufanele uye esibhedlela noma kunoma iyiphi insizakalo engekho edolobheni, kuzothatha isikhathi eside ukufika, ikakhulukazi uma ungenayo imoto yakho futhi inhlanganisela yezokuthutha ayinayo kakhulu okuhle (okuhlala kubi kakhulu kude kakhulu nomuzi). Kepha Uma uhlala edolobheni, konke lokhu kuzokhohlwa ngoba ungasondela kunoma iyiphi indawo ngokuhamba ngebhasi noma imizuzu eyi-10 ngetekisi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho izingane sezikhulile futhi zingaphezu kweminyaka eyi-12, njengoba inhlanganisela yezithuthi zomphakathi emadolobheni ivame ukusebenza kahle, zingavumela izingane zakho ukuthi zihambe ngokuzimela.
Bazoba nomqondo ovulekile ngokwengeziwe emhlabeni
Ukuhlala esigodini kwenza izingane zibe nombono ovaliwe wokuphila, ngoba aziboni noma aziphili ngokwanele. Abantu emadolobheni bahlala futhi basebenze kuyo, izingane zazi abantu abanokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi ezimpilweni zabo, futhi kungakhulisa ububele babo nokubekezelela abanye. Izingane ezikhulela emadolobheni zichayeke kubantu abaningi abehlukene nasezindaweni ezahlukahlukene, okuthile okungangabazeki ukuthi kuzobenza bakhule ngaphakathi.
Izifundo zokuphila
Kubi kakhulu ukuchazela ingane ukuthi kungani kunabantu abangenamakhaya abalele emigwaqweni, kepha kukhona namathuba okufunda nokukhula, kanye namathuba amaningi okuzinikela nokunikela ngosizo lwangempela kubantu abangazani. Ungavolontiya emabhange okudla noma ezindaweni zokukhosela.
Kunabantu abahlala emadolobheni amancane noma emaphandleni, lapho bekhula khona bazi impilo yabantu ababazungezile, ngaphandle kokubheka ngale. Kukhona ngisho nabantu abakhula bengazi ukuthi kunabantu abahluphekayo noma izingane eziswele. Emadolobheni ungabona izinhlobo eziningi zabantu futhi lokhu kwenza izingane zibe nokuqonda okukhulu ngomhlaba nendawo ezihlala kuyo noma ezifuna ukuhlala kuyo.
Isikhathi esengeziwe somndeni
Usacabanga ukuthi ngokuhlala edolobheni unesikhathi esithe xaxa sokuphila njengomndeni njengoba kunempilo engcono. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi uma usebenza ngaphandle kwedolobha kuzothatha isikhathi eside ukuya emsebenzini ubuyele ekhaya, ngakho-ke unesikhathi esincane sangempela osichitha nomndeni wakho futhi ujabulele izingane zakho.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, imindeni ehlala futhi esebenza edolobheni ichitha isikhathi esincane emgwaqweni oya noma obuya emsebenzini. Lokhu kusho ukuthi bazoba nesikhathi esengeziwe sokudlala, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole nezingane zabo, noma ukuchitha nezingane. MinaBangaba nezinsizakalo eziseduze nasekhaya kangangokuthi akudingeki bachithe isikhathi esiningi beya endaweni ethile noma kwenye.
Ububi bokuhlala edolobheni
Yize njengakuyo yonke into, kungahle kube nokubi kokuhlala edolobheni futhi kungumqondo omuhle ukubakhomba ukuze uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ukuhlala edolobheni kuyindlela engcono kakhulu noma cha yokukhulisa izingane zakho.
- Ukungcola okuningi emvelweni
- Kubiza kakhulu ukuphila kanti kuzodingeka imali eningi ekupheleni kwenyanga
- Kunezingozi eziningi ezungeze, njengobugebengu noma izingozi
- Lezi zindlu zincane ngoba kufanele zithwale abantu abaningi
- Izintela zibiza kakhulu
- Baningi kakhulu abantu abaseduze futhi abenyusa amathuba okuthi bangaboni ngaso linye nabanye abantu
- Izingane zinenkululeko encane lapho zisencane zokuchitha isikhathi zidlala nabangani bazo emgwaqweni