Lo mbuzo ubuzwa ngabazali abaningi, ikakhulukazi lapho kusondela izinsuku ezibalulekile ezifana ne-Halloween, ngoba konke okusesabisayo kubantu kujwayelekile noma ngabe kungobusuku obubodwa kuphela. Ubusuku be-Halloween kufanele bube yisikhathi esimnandi sezingane nabantu abadala, ngamanye amagama, kunoma ngubani ngokungakhathaleli iminyaka yakhe ... yisikhathi sokuzijabulisa.
Kubantu abaningi, i-Halloween isho ukugqoka, ukuzihlalela nabangani noma nomndeni, ukuqoqa uswidi, njll. Yini ekhona kukho konke lokhu okungaba yiphutha? Abazali abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi ukwesaba kungaba mnandi ngempela yini noma kungadala izinkinga ezinganeni zabo.
Kunemibuzo eminingi izingane ezingayibuza ngisho ecabanga ukuthi i-Halloween ayijabulisi ngayo. Kufanele kube iphathi yokujabulela zonke izinto ezethusayo njengezipoki, ama-movie asabisayo, izindaba zasendlini ezihanjiswayo, njll. Kepha ezinganeni eziningi ezisencane, ezingakazi ukuthi zingahlukanisa kanjani okungokoqobo nokungokoqobo, bangazizwa besaba nokuthi leli qembu lonke liyabethusa kakhulu kunesidingo. Imicabango yezingane ivame ukubalekela iqiniso futhi ibanikeze amaphupho amabi amasonto ngemuva kokuchitha ubusuku be-Halloween.
Ukwesaba okukhulu
Kunezingane eziningi okuthi, yize ziphila impilo enenjabulo, zingakwazi ukuphatha kahle ukushuba kwezinto ezibukekayo kulawa maholide ngoba zingabafana namantombazane asabekayo. Kukhona nezingane ezingakusho ngoba zinamahloni okukuvuma kodwa iqiniso ukuthi kamuva zihlangabezana nemiphumela ngamaphupho amabi, ngokwesibonelo. Imizwa abayizwayo ayinakuphatheka kahle, bangazizwa bengakhululekile emizweni yabo futhi baziphathe ngendlela ecasulayo. Kwesinye isikhathi isimilo sengane asikakulungeli ukujabulela ukwesaba.
Kepha yini okufanele uyenze lapho iphathi le-Halloween lifika futhi ukwesaba nokwesaba kukuyo yonke indawo? Singazisiza kanjani izingane zethu ukuthi zenze amathuluzi adingekayo ukuze zikwazi ukujabulela leli phathi eselisungule abantu?
Imicabango yezingane
Ukuze lokhu kwesaba kuphephe ezinganeni, kuyadingeka ukuthi kubhekwe amandla emicabango yezingane. Ingcindezi nokukhathazeka okungenziwa ezinye izithombe ngalezi zinsuku kufanele kuguqulwe kube injabulo nobumnandi. Ungaguquguqula ulimi ucabangele iminyaka yezingane zakho nezinga lokukhula kwazo. uma nje ingane yakho seyiwajwayele lawo mazwi ephathini -ungakhuluma izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambili ngabathakathi noma izingebhezi-, ingane yakho izoqala ukuyikhumbula futhi uyijwayele ukuze ingabi nokwesaba lapho kufika isikhathi.
Ukuzindla okuqondisiwe ukwehlisa ukwesaba futhi kukwenze kube mnandi
Ukuzizwa Uphephile: Ukuzindla Okuqondiswayo Kokuvikela
Uma ingane yakho izizwa inovalo ngomfanekiso ewubonile noma ngoba kukhona okumethuse, kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenza ngokuzindla nokuphefumula ukwenza izingane zizizwe ziphephile futhi zivikelekile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukuze wehlise umoya ngesikhathi sokwesaba, ungamqondisa ekuzindleni ukuze uthole ukuthula nokuzola futhi. Ungaqondisa ukuzindla ngokulandela okulandelayo:
'Lokho okubonile nje akulona iqiniso, ake siphefumule ukuze sehlise umoya kancane. Phefumula umoya uwuvumele ungene ngamakhala akho, qaphela ukuthi ufinyelela kanjani esiswini sakho futhi usemakhaleni akho futhi. Thola isigqi sokuphefumula ozizwa ukhululekile kakhulu ukuphefumulela ngaphakathi nangaphandle kancane 'Okukodwa ... okubili… okuthathu… Manje, qaphela isifuba sakho nenhliziyo yakho. Cabanga ukuthi inhliziyo yakho iphakathi kwesifuba sakho nokuthi njengoba uhogela futhi ukhipha umoya, kukhona inhlansi yokukhanya ngaphakathi kuwo engaba ncane njengephuzu nombala owuthanda kakhulu. Cabanga nje ukuthi leli phuzu lokukhanya linwebeka ngokuphefumula ngakunye okwephuza oyithatha njengenhlanyelo ekhula nethemba nothando, uthando oluningi. Vumela ukwesaba okuzwayo kuphele futhi konke ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwakho kuqale ukunyamalala, kugcwalise inhliziyo yakho ne-echo yakho ngemibala egqamile, kube sengathi uthingo lwenjabulo.
Qhubeka uphefumule kancane njengoba ukukhanya kusabalele emzimbeni wakho futhi kukugcwalise ngokuthula. Unesikhathi sonke lapho udinga ukuthola ukuzola. Lapho lelo lambu lokuphepha ligcwele umzimba wakho wonke, cabanga ukuthi ukuvikelwa kufinyelela kumamitha ayishumi ngaphezu kwesikhumba sakho. Njengoba ikhula, ukukhanya kungashintsha umbala ukuzungeze wonke umzimba wakho nakho konke okuzungezile.
Lapho unwetshwa ngokugcwele, khetha umbala okwenza uzizwe ufudumele, njengethusi noma igolide. Akukho lutho olungalungile olungangena kuleyo ndawo yokukhanya ngoba uvikelwe yibhola lakho lokuphepha. Konke okukuzwisa ubuhlungu kuzokubuyisa futhi uhlale ngaphandle, ubuyele emuva ngendlela efanayo evela ngayo.
Njalo lapho uzizwa wesaba, ekuvikelweni kwakho kwangaphakathi kufanele wazi ukuthi abazali bakho, abantu abadala abathembekile noma abangane nabo bazobakhona ukukusiza ugcine leyo ndawo yokukhanya iqinile futhi iqinile. Ungabashayela uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakwazi ukuzinakekela kepha udinga ukucela usizo.
Njalo lapho uzwa ukwesaba kuthatha imizuzu emibili nje ukwenza lo mkhuba ofanayo futhi uphumule, xhuma ngenhliziyo yakho futhi uvumele ukukhanya okukuvikelayo kukusize kukuvikele. Uma wenza lokhu njalo ekuseni, njalo ntambama nasebusuku ... lokhu kwesaba okukukhathazayo kuzoba yisikhumbuzo ngoba kuzonyamalala, kanjalo nezinkathazo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uzozizwa uvikeleke ngokwengeziwe futhi ngokuprakthiza, kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zezinto zikwenze wesabe noma ukhathazeke. Uzokwazi ukuthi uphephile. '