Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukufunda ezinganeni nasempilweni, kepha kwesinye isikhathi thina bantu abadala sikhohlwa ukukhumbula ukuthi ukufunda kufanele kube yingxenye enkulu yosuku lwethu nosuku ukuze kungondli ubuchopho bethu kuphela futhi kuthuthukise wonke amakhono abo, kepha futhi nokuhlakulela umphefumulo wethu. Kusuka ezinganeni kufanele sifunde njengokuyisikhashana senjabulo nokungcebeleka esithuthukisa ukujabula nenjabulo yezincwadi ezibhaliwe.
Kepha ngeshwa lokhu akuhlali kunjalo. Ezikhathini eziningi, izingane (nabantu abadala) banomuzwa wokuthi ukufunda ukuhlukumeza, banomuzwa wokuthi kuyisibopho futhi uma bengakugwema bazokwenza kanjalo ngaphandle kokungabaza umzuzwana. Cisikhukhukazi lokhu kwenzeka ngoba ngoba izingane zisencane zizamile ukugxilisa ukufunda njengokuyimpoqo, ukuncintisana futhi ezikhathini eziningi, ngaphandle kokuhlonipha isigqi semvelo sengane nokuziphendukela kwemvelo kwayo ukwethula umzuzu ofanele wokuthi iqale ukufunda.
Ukufunda kuyinqubo engokwemvelo yengane eqala ngokulangazelela ukwazi okwengeziwe ngezinhlamvu. Uma leli lukuluku lithuthukiswa, singaba nezingane ezithanda ukufunda futhi ezifuna ukwazi kabanzi futhi zondle umphefumulo wazo ngezindaba nangolwazi. Ngalesi sizathu, njengoba izingane zisencane, kuyadingeka ukukhuthaza ukufunda kusuka kulukuluku nasentshisakalweni, ngoba kuphela ngogqozi lapho bezokwazi ukuthola izinzuzo zokufunda futhi bakwazi ukuzijabulela kuyo yonke iminyaka yokuphila kwabo.
Thuthukisa izintshisekelo zengane
Ukuze ingane ifise ukwazi futhi ikuthande ukufunda, kufanele ivunyelwe ukuthi ikhethe incwadi emthakazelisa ngempela, emgqugquzelayo futhi emnikeza ukwaneliseka lapho eqeda ukuyifunda. Kusukela zisencane, izingane kufanele zibe nazo ezincwadini zazo zomtapo wolwazi ezifanele izinga lazo lokuvuthwa kanye nalokho ezikuthandayoNgale ndlela bazokwazi ukuzwa isidingo sokusondela, bathathe incwadi futhi bajabulele amagama abhaliwe.
Ngalokhu, kufanele kube nenhlonipho ngezintshisekelo zengane, noma ngabe ziyini. (Uma nje zilingana nezinga lakhe lokuvuthwa, isibonelo ingane eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala ngeke iqonde incwadi yesayensi yamazinga ochwepheshe, kepha uma ithanda isayensi ingaba nezincwadi zesayensi ezifanele iminyaka yayo ukuze ikwazi ukuqonda kangcono imiqondo ehlanganiswe encwadini).
Akukhathalekile ukuthi ingane iyazithanda yini izincwadi zamakhosazana noma ukuthi indodakazi yakho inentshisekelo ezincwadini zemoto ... Kuyadingeka ukuthi abazali bahloniphe okuthandwa ngabantwana babo ukuze kube yibo abalawula izintshisekelo zabo. Izingane zidinga ukuhlonishwa kuzo zonke izici futhi okuyisisekelo ukuze zikwazi ukukhuthaza ukufunda kwabancane endlini ngokungangabazeki zihlonipha izintshisekelo zazo ezincwadini ezizikhethayo.
Uma ungenanhlonipho ngezintshisekelo zezingane, lapho-ke kuzoba lapho ziqala ukuzizwa zikhungathekile ngokufunda nakho konke okubandakanya. Kuyingozi evikeleka kangcono ukuze izingane ziqhubeke nokukhuthazeka futhi zibe nelukuluku lokufunda.
Qaphela ukwehlisa amandla
Ukulandela iphuzu langaphambilini, Ngithanda ukugcizelela ukuthi ngike ngabona kwesinye isikhathi ngenkathi ngisebenza njengomsebenzi wobungcweti ukuthi abazali ngokwabo bayiyekise kanjani intshisekelo yezingane zabo ekufundeni.
Yize kusobala ukuthi le nhloso yinhle ngoba abazali benza lokho abacabanga ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ezinganeni zabo, akuyona indlela elungile. Akulungile ngoba ubuntu nezintshisakalo zezingane azinakwa ezikhathini eziningi.
Isibonelo, uma ingane ifuna ukufunda ikhomikhi ngoba iyayithanda noma incwadi ethusayo eseqophelweni lobudala bayo futhi abazali bengayithandi futhi bayenqabela, kufana nokumnqabela ukuthi afunde okuthile okumthandayo, wena ukuvotela ithuba lokuthi ingane yakho ibe umfundi omuhle. Futhi impela ngemuva kokuvinjelwa ezinye izindlela ngeke zamukelwe kahle ngabancane.
Hlakulela ukufunda ekhaya
Ukuhlakulela ukufunda kuyadingeka ukuthi abazali bazibophezele ekutholeni ukuthuthuka kokufunda hhayi ezinganeni zabo kuphela kodwa nasemndenini wonke, kuqala ngabo kuqala. Njengabazali ukuhlakulela ukufunda kuyadingeka ukuthi bakwazi ukubheka ezinye izinkinobho ezibalulekile:
- Yiba yisibonelo esihle kakhulu sokufundela izingane zakho, ukuthi zibabone zifundwa nsuku zonke futhi zinikeze ukubaluleka kokufunda.
- Fundela izingane zisencane kakhulu ukuze zikwazi ukuxhumanisa ukufunda nesikhathi esimnandi nesijabulisayo… hhayi ngesibopho.
- Hlonipha izintshisekelo zezingane ekufundeni.
- Ukuze ikwazi ukuqondisa izingane ukuthi zikhethe ukufundwa okufanelekile, kepha hhayi ngokwezihloko kepha kubanga leminyaka.
- Chitha umzuzu wokufunda usuku ngalunye nezingane ukuqinisa isibopho phakathi kwabazali nezingane kanye nokufunda kwezingane.
- Yenza izingane zibone futhi zizwe ukubaluleka kokufunda kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yempilo namuhla.
- Nikeza indawo yokufunda ekhaya efinyeleleka kalula futhi ekhangayo ezinganeni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kwesineke sikayise maqondana nokufunda kwezingane nokuthi kubaluleke kanjani ukumisa indlela yokuphila esheshayo nengaphelelwa isikhathi esinayo ukuze sinike izingane zethu amandla okufunda.
Kwesinye isikhathi abazali bangathanda ukufunda kepha abazi ukuthi bazihlele kanjani ngesikhathi ngenxa yengcindezi yansuku zonke futhi abakwazi ukwenza isikhathi sokufunda nezingane zabo nsuku zonke, ngisho nokuzifundela. Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, uma izingane kufanele zifundele isikole, ziyaphoqwa futhi zicindezelwe, zibangele ukuba bazizwe bekhungathekile futhi bengafuni nokufunda. Kuyadingeka ukuqonda nokuhlonipha isigqi sabo sokufunda nokuziphendukela kwemvelo ekufundeni.
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