Cabanga umlingani wakho ehluleka ukuzibamba futhi akumemeze. Manje ake ucabange ukuthi umlingani wakho mkhulu kane kunawe nokuthi ukumemeza kwabo kuzwakala kakhulu kunokwakho. Futhi cabanga ukuthi uncike ngokuphelele kulowo muntu ukuze uphile: ukudla, indawo yokuhlala, ukuphepha nokuvikelwa. Futhi, ake ucabange ukuthi lo muntu ungumthombo wakho oyinhloko wothando nokwethembela futhi okukunikeza lonke ulwazi ngomhlaba. Manje, Cabanga ngemizwa osanda kuba nayo bese uyiphindaphinda ngo-1000. Le yindlela ingane yakho ezizwa ngayo lapho uyithethisa.
Vele, sonke siyabathukuthelela abantwana bethu, futhi kwesinye isikhathi singaze sithukuthele. Inselelo ukunxenxa ukuvuthwa kwethu ukulawula ukubonakaliswa kwalolo laka, ngakho-ke sinciphise umthelela walo omubi ezinganeni.
Intukuthelo iyesabisa kakhulu izingane. Ukuthukwa noma ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi, ukukhuluma ngokungazihloniphi izingane, kwenza izingane zizizwe zesaba futhi kushiya uphawu olubi ebuntwini bazo. Izingane ezihlangabezana nodlame lwasemzimbeni, kufaka phakathi ukushaywa ngempama, zikhonjisiwe ukuthi zihlushwa imiphumela emibi ehlala isikhathi eside efinyelela kuwo wonke amagumbi empilo yabantu abadala.
Uma ingane yakho encane ingabonakali iyasaba intukuthelo yakho, kuyinkomba yokuthi ibone intukuthelo yakho kakhulu futhi isisungule indlela yokuzivikela kuyo, nakuwe. Umphumela omubi ngengane engeke iziphathe ngokujabulisa wena futhi izosondela ekuthonyweni kabi ngabafana namantombazane angontanga yayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuningi okufanele ukwenze, isibonelo, uyeke ukumemeza izingane zakho futhi ungasebenzisi noma yiluphi uhlobo lodlame olubhekiswe kubo, futhi. Intukuthelo iyethusa ezinganeni futhi zizobheka izindlela zokuzivikela kuyo ngokomzwelo kuyo, noma ngabe lokho kusho ukuhoxa ngokomoya kuwe.