Ushintsho olusuka ePrayimari luya eSekondari lunzima kakhulu ezinganeni eziningi, futhi 'luba' olubalulekile kwabaningi. Nanamuhla kusadingidwa ukuthi ngabe iminyaka yokungena kulesi Sikhungo bekufanele yehliswe yini, phakathi kokunye ngoba (ngaphandle kwezikole ezixhaswe ngezimali) abafundi besilisa nabesifazane bashintsha izikole ukuze baqhubeke nezifundo zabo ngemuva konyaka wesithupha. Inqubo yokulungisa ayipheli njalo ngemiphumela emihle; futhi angikhulumi nje ngomkhakha wezifundo, kepha futhi nasemhlabeni wezemizwa walabo abasebancane kakhulu ukuthi benze izinguquko emikhubeni noma ezinkingeni ezingaba khona ebudlelwaneni nontanga yabo.
Futhi cha, akubona bonke abantu abenza kabi, kepha yebo, ngandlela thile kufanele bazijwayeze isimo esisha ... Kunamantombazane noma abafana engifunda kakhulu futhi ngimane ngiqhubeke nenqubo yabo, kukhona labo abangenisiwe futhi abafanelekile ukujoyina abahlukumezi, ohoxa, oyeka ukuzama ngoba akazitholi ... Ifomula yomlingo yokubasiza? Yiba eceleni kwakho, uma kwenzeka usidinga; futhi ngibe nentshisekelo ngentuthuko yakho. Ungacabangi ukuthi ukuzimela kwabo ngokomzimba kanye nokuzimela okukhulu kwezenhlalo kusho ukuthi bangenza ngaphandle kwethu, ingasaphathwa ke leyo!
Umqondisi wesikole samantombazane (indodana yami isivele isesekondari) wake wangitshela ukuthi omama nobaba 'bayabuyela emuva' lapho izingane ziqala amabanga aphansi, futhi baziqhelelanisa kakhulu nezingane zabo lapho ziya esikoleni. . Futhi kufanele senze ngenye indlela ezungeze, awu, ngenye indlela nxazonke; kodwa singabazali futhi leso simo sinemithelela eminingi. Ukuthomba nokuthomba kuza nezinguquko eziningi; futhi yingakho ukuzimela okusolwayo kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala ngesifiso sokuholwa noma ukuvikelwa; Imayelana nokubanika ngokwalokho abakucelayo (isikhathi, uthando, ukusiza ukuhlela, njll).
Ukusuka ku-Primary kuya ku-Secondary: ngubani ongeke aluthole lolu shintsho?
Isikhungo esikhudlwana, ozakwethu abasha, uthisha wesifundo ngasinye, izindlela ezahlukahlukene, amahora ayisithupha ekilasi elandelanayo, ukuvuka ngaphambi kwesikhathi (sincoma ukuthi kufundwe kabusha lokhu okuthunyelwe mayelana nesigqi sokulala ebusheni), ukuguqulwa kwemikhuba yokudla (bafika ekhaya ngo-2: 3 noma XNUMX); izingcindezi zokulingana nabanye, usongo lokuxhashazwa ku-inthanethi, izingxabano, ...
Baqhamuka ekubeni nomfundisi obafundisa iningi lezifundo futhi abe neminyaka emi-2 ilandelana ukubazi, bafika endaweni lapho umfundisi izibalo, noma ulimi, ukuthi iyalamula phakathi kwabazali nabanye othisha, kepha ukuthi kuzothatha cishe i-trimester ukuthola umfundi ngamunye wayo.
Thembela endodaneni yakho, themba othisha.
Futhi zethembe ... Uhlale usesikhathini sokungenelela: ukucela ukukhishwa kuleso sigaba abaxhashazwa kuso, ukutshela i-psychopedagogue ukuthi ingane yakho inezidingo ezihlukile zokufunda, hlela izikhathi zokufunda uma ubona ukuthi inkambo ayisebenzi kahle. Gcina izinga eliphezulu lokufunwa nengane (kepha ucabangela amakhono abo), futhi futhi nesikhungo, ungesabi ukufona ngocingo noma ucele okokufundisa; hamba futhi uma bekubuza, futhi-ke ziyazihlupha ukuhlangana nemindeni yabangane abasha.
Ukwesekwa kwakho kuzoqala ngosuku lokuqala lwekilasi, kuzophela ngokuphela kwesifundo; Ekuqaleni ungazifunela okwengeziwe, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzofunda ukwabela izingane zakho, futhi kungakusebenzela. Lapho ukulungiswa kudingekile, xoxa ngakho bese uqala ukusebenza.
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- Ingane yakho izodinga ukudla ukudla okunomsoco futhi ilale ngokwanele.
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- Ubuchwepheshe kufanele kube nomkhawulo.
- Yazi abangane bakhe, ube nentshisekelo; ngaphandle kwengcindezi, ngaphandle kwengcindezi.
- Kungcono ukusetha isikhathi sokufunda nsuku zonke, noma okungenani ihora lokusika ukuqala ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole nokutadisha.
- Ingabe indodakazi yakho isishintshile? Ingabe lezi zinguquko ezihlala isikhathi eside nezikhathazayo? Ngemuva kwalokho phinda imizamo yakho: zama ukuthola imbangela bese uthola isisombululo.
- Hlala unolwazi: ukuya emihlanganweni, ukucela okokufundisa, ukubamba iqhaza eSikoleni Sabazali; kuzoba lula uma wabelana ngokukhathazeka kwakho futhi uyakuqonda ukuthi 'kungani' kwezinto.
- Ungahluleli izingane zakho: zizokwakha abangane abasha, zizoba nezinto zokuzilibazisa obungakaze uzizwe nangazo, zizoba yingcweti ku-YouTube,… Wena unguye, yizo lezo.
- Uma befuna inkululeko kumele babe nesibopho, bakhumbule futhi babatshele ngayo.
Sithemba ukuthi izincomo zethu zizokusebenzela.
Indodana yakho iqala isikole esiphakeme, akunjalo? Angimangazi ukuthi unovalo futhi ngasikhathi sinye ujabule ... Uzothola indlela yokuthi konke kuhambe kahle, impela uyazi ngezingane eziningi eziphindaphinde i-ESO kuqala, kungenzeka kanjani lokho? uzozibuza; Yebo kunjalo, futhi akumangazi, kepha noma kunjalo ungacabangi ngokuphela kwezifundo okwamanje ngoba manje udinga ukugxila futhi uthole indlela yokungena futhi ukhuthazwe ngasikhathi sinye. Uzositshela.
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Sawubona, indodakazi yami ikunyaka wokuqala, leso Sikhungo esisha sithathe zonke izifundo ngokuhle kakhulu kuleli hlobo ube nesikhathi esihle ebhishi nabangane bakhe futhi uyazi ukuthi ngiyesaba ukuba isilawuli enze okusha okusha abangani ngeviki futhi sebevele bafuna ukuphuma baye kubo Bonke bahambahamba emgwaqweni yilokho engikutshelwa yindodakazi yami, ngiyamshiya futhi ngiyaphaphama beza ekhaya bezodlala nomakhalekhukhwini ukucula bamenze wabhala indatshana ngemizuzu engama-20 uthi akajwayele futhi bayinike u-6 futhi angikholwanga ukuthi ufundile Uthisha umtshele okuningi ukuthi wenze ukubhala kabi kabi ngimkhuzile-ke ngazisola ukuthi ngicabange okufanayo kungokokuqala futhi kumele azi futhi abone ukuthi othisha banjani manje ngimenze wethuka lokhu kunzima kakhulu ushiya igobolondo futhi angazi ukuthi ngenze njani ngiyamvumela alethe up abangane ukuze babe lapha kangcono kunasemgwaqweni abaneminyaka engu-12
Sawubona Laia, badinga ukuzivumelanisa nezinguquko, futhi nathi senza njalo ... ushintsho lukhulu kakhulu futhi luyakhombisa. Ukubekezela okuningi nokwazi izinguquko ezinqala, yilokho engingakweluleka ngakho. Futhi ngiyavumelana nawe: uma ekucela ukuthi uthathe abangane bakhe uye nabo ekhaya, kungcono uma ukuvumela, basencane ukuzulazula emgwaqweni, kepha kancane kancane bazofuna ukuthola izinhloso ezincane kwinkululeko yabo. Ukwanga.