Imindeni eminingi ayinamagumbi anele futhi izingane kufanele zilale ndawonye. Kwesinye isikhathi indawo okwabelwana ngayo iyinketho, futhi kwezinye izikhathi, iyisidingo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, akuyona yonke imizi enegumbi elilodwa lokulala ngengane ngayinye.
Kodwa Kungaba ngokuzikhethela noma ngesidingo, ezinye izinkinga zingavela okufanele uzixazulule ukuze kube nokuhlalisana okuhle phakathi kwezingane. Izingane kufanele zibe nendawo yazo kanye nezikhathi zokuba zodwa. Kuthiwani uma banezikhathi ezahlukahlukene zokulala? Kuthiwani uma belwa ngezinto ezabiwe noma isikhala uqobo?
Ukwabelana ngekamelo nengane yakini akudingeki kube yingozi nakancane, kungaba lusizo olukhulu nasezinganeni. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ezinye izinkinobho zokukhulisa izingane zaziwe ukuze izingane zikwazi ukuhlanganyela igumbi lokulala ngokuzwana. Thola ezinye izinkinga ngezixazululo zazo lapho izingane zihlanganyela igumbi elilodwa ... Ngoba kungenzeka futhi zizokuthanda ukukwenza.
Izinkinga nezixazululo lapho izingane zihlanganyela ikamelo elilodwa
Isikhathi sokulala
Uma izingane zakho zingafani ngeminyaka, akufanele uziphoqe ukuba zilale ngasikhathi sinye. Izingane ezincane kuzofanele zilale ngaphambi kwezingane zakubo ezindala. Izingane kufanele zikwazi ukulala lapho kufaneleka ngokwentuthuko, ngaphandle kwalokho, izingane zakubo ezindala zingase zicasuke futhi ziqale nokwakha ubudlelwano obubi nengane yakini encane, ezosolwa ngokuba yicala lokuthi kufanele isheshe ilale.
Kepha futhi, kungcono ukuthi bayolala ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene ukugwema ukukhuluma noma ukudlala isikhathi eside. Isibonelo, lapho izingane sezivele zilele, ezindala zingaqala ukuzilungiselela ukulala. Indaba angafundelwa yona ngaphandle kwekamelo lokulala nangemva kokungena embhedeni.
Uma izingane zilingana ngeminyaka, kunconywa ukuthi wakhe izindlela ezithile zokulala lapho bobabili bazi ukuthi benzeni ngasosonke isikhathi ngaphambi kokulala. Isibonelo, ungafaka umsindo omncane omhlophe ukunciphisa iziphazamiso futhi ulale ngokuzola nangokuthula.
Isikhala somuntu siqu
Ngenkathi izingane eziningi zithanda ukwaba isikhala nezingane zakwabo, azifuni njalo ukwabelana ngezinto zazo. Uma ingekho iminyango yokuchaza isikhala sakho noma izinto onazo, izinto zingaba nzima futhi ngaphandle kwesikhala esinqunyelwe kungaba nezingxoxo. Yize lokhu kungagwemeka ngezincomo ezithile.
Ingane ngayinye kufanele ibe nesikhala sayo ekamelweni lokulala. Lokhu kungaba kuncane njengethalafu noma idilowa noma kukhulu njengama-nightstand ahlukene noma abagqoki. Izingane zidinga ukuba nezindawo zazo ezizimele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukucela imvume yokuhlala emibhedeni yezingane ukuze bezwe ukuthi banokulawula isikhala sabo. Kuzofana nokungqongqoza emnyango ubuze ngaphambi kokungena.
Uma izingane zigugile kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali benze ingxenye yabo futhi bakhe amashalofu lapho izingane noma izingane ezincane zingafinyeleli noma zinikeze isikhala kwengane kwelinye igumbi ukugcina ezinye zezinto zazo. Uma isikhala siyinkinga ngempela, ungagcina izinto zomfowenu omdala kuze kube yilapho omncane esemdala ngokwanele ukuqonda imingcele. Ukuhlonipha izinto zabanye kubalulekile ekuhlalisaneni okuhle endaweni efanayo.
Ubumfihlo
Ikakhulu lapho ingane ihlala ekamelweni elilodwa nengane yobulili obuhlukile, ubumfihlo bungaba yinkinga njengoba ikhula. Ngokufanelekile, kusukela eminyakeni eyisithupha, izingane zingaba namakamelo azo okuzimela, kepha hhayi yonke imindeni enale nketho.
Isixazululo kuleli cala ukusetha imingcele ecacile yobumfihlo. Isibonelo, ukushintsha izingubo endlini yokugezela, ukuguquguquka kweminye imithetho, ukubeka isikrini noma amakhethini ukuze ukwazi ukushintsha ngaphakathi kwekamelo lokulala, njll.
Lapho kuvela izingxabano
Ngenkathi izingxabano zamathoyizi noma ukushintshaniswa kwezingubo kungaba yinto ejwayelekile kakhulu phakathi kwezelamani, ukusondela kokuba segumbini usuku ngalunye kungadala nezinye izinhlobo zezingxabano. Izingxabano eziningi zidalwa ukungqubuzana nsuku zonke njengokuthinta noma ukucosha izinto okungezomfowethu. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ingane yakini isola enye ngokungezwani noma ezinye izingxabano.
Ukuxazulula lezi zingxabano kungenzeka ukuthi kumiswe imithetho nemiphumela lapho izinkambiso zingalandelwa. Imithetho esegumbini lokulala ibaluleke kakhulu ukuyibeka ngokushesha okukhulu ukuze bazi ukuthi yini okufanele bayenze ngaso sonke isikhathi. Imiphumela izoncika emndenini ngamunye, kepha kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukugcina engqondweni ukuze izingane zithobele imithetho. Isibonelo, umthetho kungaba ukuthi uhlale ucela imvume ngaphambi kokuthatha into okungeyona eyakho.
Ukushintshela ekamelweni lokulala
Uma izingane zakho zingakahlanganyeli igumbi kusukela zisencane, ukuzibeka ekamelweni elifanayo kungaba yinselele. Ukuze kwenziwe ushintsho, umhlobiso kuzodingeka ushintshwe kancane, ngopende omncane, ezinye izambatho ezintsha zokulala kanye nefenisha entsha uma kunesidingo (ukuze bobabili babe nesikhala sabo).
Lapho izingane sezikhulile, mhlawumbe zineminyaka eyi-9 noma eyi-10 zifuna ukuba nezindlu zazo zokulala, kepha uma lokhu kungenzeki, kufanele zithembeke ezinganeni futhi zizitshele ukuthi akwenzeki ngenxa yokushoda kwendawo kepha ukuthi lokhu akudingeki kuthinte ubumfihlo bakho noma ubunikazi bakho. Kuzohlala kunezindlela zokuthola izixazululo zezingxabano ezingaba khona, ukuhlonipha izingane nokucabanga ngobumfihlo babo. Ukuhlonipha izintshisekelo zabo, abakuthandayo nezidingo zabo. Ukwabelana ngekamelo lokulala nezingane zakwabo kungasiza kakhulu, bazofunda ukwabelana ngempilo yabo, izinto zabo futhi bahloniphe abanye abasemakhaya abo.
Okuthunyelwe okuhle kakhulu, izingane zami bezihlanganyela ikamelo elilodwa kuze kube yilapho intombazanyana ineminyaka engu-9 nohhafu ubudala, lapho ikhetha ukuba negumbi layo lokulala. Basalele ndawonye embhedeni osegumbini owababona bekhula lapho kufika izihlobo ekhaya. Ngicabanga ukuthi kube yinto enhle. Ngumfana nentombazane, ngasekhaya, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi babe nenhlanhla yokuthi banikwe lelo thuba… Ngiyayazi imindeni engavumeli izingane (ngisho nabobulili obufanayo) ukuba zilale egumbini elilodwa; Akusona isilingo, kepha kungaphikisana nenkululeko yabancane yokuzikhethela. Kuyangimangaza kakhulu ngoba angikhumbuli ngilala ngedwa ngaphandle kwasefulethini labafundi ngenkathi ngifunda eNyuvesi (futhi kwesinye isikhathi bengilala nombhede lapho), bengihlala ngihamba nomama noma abafowethu, abangani , umlingani, izingane ... Umuntu ngamunye ngumhlaba, kepha ukuchitha ubusuku enkampanini (ngaphandle uma kushisa kakhulu 😀) kuhle.
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