Lolu udaba oluyimpikiswano ngoba kunemibono ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene. Kukhona labo abacabanga ukuthi amacici emantombazaneni ayadingeka noma ngabe kungokwesiko kuphela kanti abanye bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kungukucwiywa okungenasidingo nokuthi akufanele bakwenze kanjani lokhu kumantombazane amancane kangaka.
Kunezibhedlela ezishiya izingane zamantombazane sezivele zifakwe amacici, abanye ochwepheshe bathi kungcono ukulinda izinyanga eziyisithupha ukuze babe nokhakhayi olwakhiwe kahle nokuthi uma izindlebe zabo zikhula abalubeki icici endaweni embi.
Kepha, ingabe kufanelekile noma cha ukufaka amacici enganeni yentombazane? Lolu wudaba okufanele lunqunywe yimindeni kuphela. Akuyona into okufanele umphakathi uyiphoqe kuwe. Uma ufuna ukufaka amacici ukuze awafake futhi anqume ukuthi uyafuna ukuwafaka noma cha, akekho ongakutshela ukuthi wenzani okungalungile, kuyisinqumo sakho ngaphakathi kokuba ngumama / ukuba ngubaba.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma uthatha isinqumo sokuthi awufuni ukulandela leli siko ngoba ngaleyo ndlela ugwema ukuthi ingane yakho kufanele idlule ebuhlungwini obungadingekile noma icabange ukuthi yizindlebe zayo nokuthi awudingi ukunquma ukuthi uyavuma noma cha ukwenza amacici, nokuthi nguyena onquma ukukwenza noma cha lapho ekhula ... Uzobuye ube sesimweni esihle.
Akekho okufanele akutshele ukuthi kufanele uwafake amacici enganeni yakho noma cha, futhi isinqumo osithathayo kuzofanele sihlonishwe abantu abaseduze kwakho. Ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi kuyisinqumo esihle yini noma ucabanga ukuthi yisiko elidlulelwe yisikhathi okufanele linyamalale ngoba kunezinye izindlela eziningi izingane ezingahlukanisa ngazo abafana namantombazane, kuzoba umbono olungile.
Ingabe uzofaka amacici enganeni yakho yentombazane?