Kunabazali abakhonondayo ngoba izingane zabo azibandakanyeki emisebenzini yasendlini futhi bacabanga ukuthi uma bengakwenzi kungenxa yokuthi bayavilapha kanti futhi nangenxa yokuthi abanankinga. Kepha akukho okungaba kude neqiniso, uma izingane zingabandakanyeki emsebenzini wasekhaya akulona iphutha labo ... Kungenxa yemfundo abayitholile, ngakho-ke ngabazali okufanele bashintshe umbono wabo.
Lapho izingane zifunda ukuthi abanye bangazenzela izinto, zimane ziphelelwe yintshisekelo yokuzenzela izinto futhi bafuna izaba zokungakwenzi. Ucwaningo oluthile lwathola ukuthi abazali abangama-74% babika ukuthi izingane zabo kaningi azinikeli ngomsebenzi wesikole ngaphandle uma zibuzwe ngqo. Futhi abazali abangama-50% bathi bachitha isikhathi esiningi bephikisana nezingane zabo ngomsebenzi wesikole baze bakhathale baze bagcine sebewenza ngokwabo.
Kubazali abaningi, kungabonakala kulula ukwenza imisebenzi yabo bodwa kunokuchitha isikhathi namandla okwenza izingane zabo ukuba zenze. Uma ungomunye walabo baba noma omama, funda-ke ngoba izingane kumele zisebenzisane emisebenzini yasendlini, hhayi nje ngenxa yesibopho, kepha futhi ngoba ziyazisiza zikhule kahle.
Sebenzisa umsebenzi wesikole ukufundisa amakhono empilo
Lapho izingane zenza umsebenzi wesikole, zifunda umthwalo wokuzenzela izinto, futhi zizokwazi nokuzwa ukwaneliseka ngokuzenzela izinto. Bazofunda ukuthi impilo idinga umsebenzi nomzamo nokuthi izinto azitholwa zodwa.
Ezinganeni, umsebenzi wesikole kufanele ube ngaphezu kokusiza abazali bazo ukwenza izinto ekhaya. Kuyizifundo namakhono empilo ayisisekelo. Lapho ulayisha umshini wokuwasha izitsha noma ugeza izitsha, lapho ufaka umshini wokuwasha noma ucosha izingubo… Izingane zizofunda ukuthi umhlaba usebenza kanjani. Ungasusi lelo thuba lokufunda ukuze uzisindise imizuzu embalwa.
Yenza umsebenzi wasendlini ubikezelwe, ube yinto ejwayelekile
Ukuze izingane zamukele umsebenzi wasendlini ngokuzithandela, kufanele zihlanganiswe nezimpilo zazo, okusho ukuthi, kuzofanele zibekhona ngezindlela ezithile. Isibonelo, setha isikhathi isonto ngalinye ukuze wonke umndeni wenze imisebenzi yasendlini, isibonelo, ngoMgqibelo ekuseni kusuka ku-9 kuye ku-11.
Ngale ndlela, uzozigwema izimpi zokuthi imisebenzi isenziwa nini noma ngubani okwenzayo. Ukuba nawo wonke umndeni wenze imisebenzi yasendlini nakho kusiza ekuthuthukiseni ugqozi, izingane zakho zizokwazi ukuthi ekuseni ngoMgqibelo zinikelwe emsebenzini wasendlini. Yize uma ungenasikhathi salokhu, ungakha futhi ishadi okufanele ukwenze bese ulibeka efrijini lasekhishini, ukuze wonke umuntu azokwazi okufanele akwenze nokuthi akwenze nini.
Nikeza izingane zakho umsebenzi wesikole ngokweminyaka yazo
Ungalindeli ukuthi izingane zakho zenze imisebenzi yasendlini ezingeke zikwazi ukuyenza, ngoba lapho zizokhungatheka futhi ngeke zisafuna ukuzenza futhi zicabanga ukuthi azikwazi. Kubalulekile ukuthi ucabangele iminyaka yengane yakho ukuze wazi ukuthi yini engayenza nokuthi yini okumele ilinde kuze kudlule isikhathi esithe xaxa.
Nayi eminye imibono yokuthi ungaqala ukwabela izingane zakho umsebenzi wesikole ngokweminyaka yazo. Kepha khumbula, ukuqala kuzodingeka njalo umsize futhi umqondise ukuze akwazi ukufunda ukuthi enzeni nokuthi kanjani. Kamuva futhi ngokuqhubekayo, ubona eceleni usizo aze akwazi ukwenza lowo msebenzi ngokwakhe.
Iziphakamiso Zomsebenzi Wasendlini
- Iminyaka ye-4 ne-5: Hlunga amasokisi, beka amathoyizi, usize ukusetha itafula, hlunga omagazini.
- Iminyaka ye-6 ne-7: Ukuthatha inja uhambe nomama nobaba, uchithe umshini wokuwasha izitsha, wenze isidlo sasemini, wendlale umbhede.
- Iminyaka ye-8 ne-9: Setha itafula, layisha umshini wokuwasha izitsha, hlanza indlu yangasese, usize ekhishini, ushanele uphinde ugeze isilwane.
- Iminyaka ye-10 ne-11: Ukufaka ukudla ephentini, ulayishe futhi wehlise umshini wokuwasha izitsha, ushanele futhi ushaye phansi, uthule, wenze igumbi lakho lokulala, ukhiphe udoti.
- Iminyaka ye-12 ne-13: Hlanza izingubo zonke, wenze ukudla okulula, hlanza ishawa kanye nendlu yangasese, wenze igumbi lakho lokulala, ushanele uphinde ukorobele phansi, uhlanze uthuli.
Umsebenzi wasendlini nasekamelweni lakho lokulala
Ukuhlanza igumbi lokulala kufanele kube yinto edingekayo ngoba basebancane kakhulu. Uzothola ukuqonda okuningi ukuthi kufanele ahlanze isikhala sakho sangasese. Kuyindlela yokufundisa izingane ukwaneliseka nokuzinakekela, lokhu kuzozinikeza umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nokuzazi, ukuzethemba nokwenza ngcono ukuzethemba. Imivuzo yalokhu isobala: ingane yakho ingachitha isikhathi egumbini lokulala elihlanzekile lapho konke kugcinwa khona futhi kulula kakhulu ukukuthola.
Ukushintshanisa imisebenzi yasekhaya
Ngaphandle kokuhlanzwa kwekamelo lokulala lapho umuntu ngamunye kufanele azinakekele okwakhe, kungumbono omuhle ukusungula uhlelo lokujikeleza emisebenzini yasekhaya ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene. Ungakwenza kukhalenda yomsebenzi wesikole ozoyishintsha isonto ngalinye noma ubhale izincwadi zomsebenzi wasendlini bese izingane zikhethe ezinye isonto ngalinye.
Noma kunjalo, Kungumqondo omuhle ukushintshanisa imisebenzi yasekhaya ukuze kungadingeki benze okufanayo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi babe nolwazi olubanzi lokufunda. Izingane zizofunda ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi yasendlini, futhi ungagwema nezinsolo zokukhetha. Kufanele baqonde ukuthi kuzoba nezikhathi lapho kuyodingeka benze imisebenzi abayithanda kakhulu futhi ngezinye izikhathi, eminye imisebenzi abangayithanda kangako. Kepha ngenye indlela, bayohlala bekufanele bakwenze.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi umsebenzi wasendlini uyisibopho okufanele sigcwaliswe ekhaya kubo bonke abahlala ndawonye futhi ngaleyo ndlela bathole ukuzwana. Akufanele nangayiphi indlela izingane zikhuthazwe ukuthi zenze lokho ngokushintshana ngemali noma imivuzo yezinto ezibonakalayo, ngoba lapho-ke wonke amanani axoxiwe azonyamalala ngokuzuma.
Yeka iseluleko esihle nesikahle uMaría José! Ngiyavuma futhi ukuthi abazali kufanele basebenzise isikhathi ekufundiseni izingane zabo ukuzibandakanya, futhi baphikelele ... Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke ngicabanga ukuthi njengawe ukuthi ngokubenzela izinto, siyabavimbela.