Njengabazali, nifuna izingane zenu zikhule zikwazi ukuzimela futhi ziphumelele lapho sezikhulile. Ukuzalanisa i-Helicopter kungenza kube nzima ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke. Ngamanye amazwi, Umzali ozivikela ngokweqile oxazulula izinkinga zazo zonke izingane zakhe futhi enze izinqumo ngeke azenzele nto.
Yize abazali benezinhloso ezinhle zokuvikela nokusiza izingane zabo, cishe cishe yonke into empilweni, ukungazisizi izingane ukuthi zizimele kakhudlwana kungalimaza kakhulu futhi kuzithinte ngqo empilweni yabantu abadala. Ukuba ngumzali ngezindiza ezinophephela emhlane kuphazamisa ikhono lengane lokukhulisa ukuzimela, ukuzethemba, nekhono lokuxazulula izinkinga.
Siza ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe
Vumela ingane yakho ikwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe ngamathiphu alula wokuyisebenzisa nsuku zonke, ngaphandle kokuyivikela ngokweqile futhi uyivumele ibe yibo uqobo, ngaphansi kokuholwa nguwe nokusekelwa okungenamibandela:
- Vumela ingane yakho izondle yona futhi idle iyogathi ngesipuni. Abazali abaningi besaba ukungcola okungakubangela ekudleni baze babenqabele ithuba lokuzifundela nokuzifundela ngokwenza amaphutha.
- Uma ingane yakho inenkinga esikoleni noma isabelo, buza uthisha ukuthi yini okungahambi kahle. Khuluma nengane yakho ukuthola ukuthi kwenzakalani, ukuze yazi ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi izokuthola ukwesekwa kwakho futhi uyisize ekutholeni izixazululo ekhululeke ngazo.
- Vumela izingane zithole imiphumela yezenzo zazo. Ukukhohlwa imisebenzi yeqembu lakho lezemidlalo noma okokwembatha kuzosiza ukwakha umthwalo wakho ngezenzo.
- Lapho kuvela inkinga ekhathazayo, nikeza ingane yakho izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuthi isebenze ngezixazululo ezingazisebenzisa ukwenza ngcono isimo. Buza kuye uma kunenkinga enjalo bese unikeza iseluleko uma ubadinga ukwenza ngcono isimo.
Mnike amathuluzi anele ukuze ingane yakho ifunde ukusingatha izidingo ezijwayelekile zokuphila, kepha ungaxazululi konke okwenzeka kuye ngoba lapho, uzobe umvimbela ukuthi akhule futhi avuthwe. Ukwenza okuhle kakhulu ezinganeni kwesinye isikhathi ukuthi bazitholele ngokwabo. Imayelana nokuthola ibhalansi yokwazi ukuthi ungene nini nokuthi ungabavumela nini ukuthi bazinakekele.