Sonke siyayazi i- Imiphumela eyingozi kagwayi emzimbeniKodwa kwenzekani ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? Abesifazane abaningi abakwazi ukuyeka ukubhema ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngenxa yengcindezi ehambisana noshintsho olubalulekile oluzokwenzeka futhi luqhubeke nayo yonke imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Kepha kubalulekile ukuthi sazi ukuthi kwenzekani enganeni yethu lapho ukubhema ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Ukubhema kukuthinta kanjani ukukhulelwa?
Namuhla a U-13% wabesifazane kusuka emazweni asathuthuka ukubhema ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ukwazi imiphumela yokubhema ekukhulelweni kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze uzicabange ngokomqondo ukuyeka lo mkhuba omubi.
Lo mkhuba ubeka ingane ezingxenyeni ezinobuthi ezingaba ngu-7000 eziyithinta ngezindlela eziningi ezingezinhle. Ukubhema ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuhlotshaniswa ukukhula okungakhuli wesibumbu futhi isisindo sokuzala esiphansi ngokulingana, okusho ukuthi, ukusetshenziswa kakhulu kukagwayi, kwehlisa isisindo sengane lapho izalwa. Kukhona futhi ingozi yokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, okwandisa izingozi empilweni yakho.
Ingane ithola umoya-mpilo omncane, ngakho-ke inhliziyo yayo ishaya ngokushesha futhi kuguqula indlela amaphaphu akho asebenza ngayo. Kungakubangela izifo zokuphefumula ukuthi zihlala kuze kube yizingane zazo. Izakhamzimba zawo nazo ziyathinteka, ngoba nogwayi uthinta nokujikeleza kwegazi nge-placenta, okudala ukuthi ingane ithola ukudla okuncane. Lapho nje bezelwe bangalandela nemiphumela nge izifo zokuphefumula njengesifuba somoya, isifo sokuhoxa, noma ingozi eyengeziwe yokufa okungazelelwe.
Kuyingozi futhi kumama obhemayo, ngoba kwandisa ingozi yokukhulelwa kwe-ectopic nokukhulelwa kwesisu, izinkinga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, amathuba amancane okuncelisa noma isikhathi esincane, kanye nokuhlushwa yisifo senhliziyo kanye nezinkinga zeplacenta.
Ingabe ukhona umthamo ophephile womama nengane?
Impela Cha. Njengesiphuzo, awukho umkhawulo ophephile ukuthi ngeke kuthinte ingane ngakho-ke ngaso sonke isikhathi kungcono kakhulu ukungabhemi nhlobo. Uma ubhema, kungcono ukuthola uyeke lo mkhuba ngaphambi kokufuna ingane. Ngale ndlela ngeke uhlupheke ngokukhathazeka ngesikhathi ukhulelwe.
Ukucabangela konke esikubonile nokuthi ugwayi uzoyithinta kanjani ingane yakho ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nasebuntwaneni noma mhlawumbe impilo yakhe yonke, yenzelwe cabanga ngezinto eziza kuqala futhi ubeke impilo yabo bobabili kuqala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuyeka ukubhema kuzokwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa kanye nokwenza ngcono impilo yakho. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngokuyeka ukubhema, ingane yethu izothola umoya-mpilo omningi, ikhule kakhulu futhi ibe ngcono, ithole izakhamzimba eziningi, iphefumule kangcono, ibe namandla amaningi futhi ibe nempilo enhle.
Cela usizo
Ukuyeka akulula. Uma ungeke ukwazi wedwa cela usizo, kunezinketho eziningi namuhla zokuyeka ukubhema. Kuzofanele uthole indlela esebenza kangcono kuwe. Hhayi impilo yakho kuphela esengozini, kodwa neyomntwana wakho. Kwesinye isikhathi isicanucanu kanye nokwenyanya ukuhogela kungakusiza ukuthi wenqabe ugwayi kepha awukwazi ukuqala kulesi sisekelo ngoba awazi ukuthi sizokuthinta kanjani. Ngokushesha ukwenza kangcono.
Ukuvivinya umzimba kusiza ekuthuthukiseni amazinga okucindezeleka futhi kunciphise nesifiso sokubhema, ngaphezu kwezinzuzo eziningi abanazo emzimbeni nasengqondweni yakho. Uma ukhulelwe, buza udokotela wakho ukuthi yiziphi izivivinyo ongazenza nokuthi yiziphi ongakwazi ukuzenza.
Abesifazane abaningi abakwazile ukuyeka ukubhema ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa babuyele emuva emuva kokubeletha. Khumbula lokho ukubhema ngenkathi uncelisa nakho kuyingozi enganeni yakhoNgaphezu kokunuka intuthu kagwayi. Ngeke uzilimaze wena kuphela, kodwa nengane yakho izothinteka.
Ngoba khumbula ... awukho umthamo omncane ophephile enganeni yakho, futhi ukufaka izinkinga engozini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma kokugula enganeni yakho akufanele kuthathwe njengehlaya.