Uma ufuna ukuba yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni zakho, kuzodingeka zibe nokulinganisela okunempilo kokuzijabulisa nokuziphendulela. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma wenza okuthile okwaziyo (ngoba ekujuleni kwenhliziyo uyazi) akusona isibonelo esihle sengane encane, vele uyeke ukukwenza. Ukwenza izinto ezingenampilo njengokuphuza utshwala noma ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuyingozi kubeka isibonelo esibi ezinganeni.
Uma uzizwa sengathi unomkhuba omubi okudingeka uwukhahlele noma ukuthi wenza izinto ezingafanele, into engcono ongayenza ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe bese uphuma kuwo. Ungayithola, uyakwazi ukuba yisibonelo esihle kunazo zonke ezinganeni zakho uma ubeka ingqondo yakho kuso futhi uma ufuna ukukwenza ngempela. Khuluma nomlingani wakho, nabantu abathembekile, hlaziya leyo mikhuba ocabanga ukuthi ayisona isibonelo esihle.
Mhlawumbe, isibonelo, uma uphuza utshwala futhi udakwa, noma ngabe izingane zakho zingakuboni, zizobona ngoba indlela oziphatha ngayo iyashintsha ngotshwala, ngisho nobuntu bakho. Mhlawumbe udinga indlela yokunqamula, ukuthola isikhathi sakho, sokuba nomlingani wakho, ukujabulela isikhathi esezingeni eliphakeme nomndeni wakho. Kufanele unqume ukuthi yini ekulungele kakhulu ngokulingana okunempilo nokuziphendulela, izingane zakho zikufanele lokho kuwe. Kufanele uthembeke kuwe uqobo futhi wazi ukuthi udinga ini ukuze uphile kahle emoyeni, ubeke imikhuba ebhubhisayo eceleni.
Ubudlelwano nezingane zakho yinto ebaluleke kakhulu onayo empilweni yakho, futhi udinga ukusebenzela kuyo ukuze ube yisibonelo esihle kubo. Izingane zakho zikudinga ujabule futhi uphilile emzimbeni nangokomzwelo. Uma kukhona okuthile empilweni yakho okuvimbela ukuxhumana kwakho okungokomzwelo nokusondelene nezingane zakho, sekuyisikhathi sokukuhlola futhi ukuguqule.