Ukuncelisa ibele Kungumkhuba wokukhuthaza, unikezwe izinzuzo zawo ezingeni lomuntu ngamunye (enganeni nakumama) njengeqembu; futhi kungaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha zokuncelisa ibele okukhethekile okunconywayo emhlabeni jikelele. Kodwa-ke, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule iSpanish Association of Pediatrics ishicilele imininingwane ngokusho kwayo, eyaqhubeka nokuncelisa kuphela ingane ngemuva kwezinyanga ezintathu zokuphila, amaphesenti angama-3 abesifazane. Esinye sezici ezinquma lokhu kushiywa (uma kungeyona eyinhloko) yi- ukufakwa emsebenzini; ngakho-ke ngokwengxenye kungumthetho wezwe lethu mayelana nokuvikelwa kokubeletha (amasonto ayi-16 ngokusobala akwanele) unesibopho.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele sishiye phansi umsebenzi wethu, ngoba ngaphezu kokufuna ikhefu lokubeletha elikhokhelwe okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha, singenza ukuthi ukuncelisa kwethu ibele kuqhubeke, yize sisebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya. Futhi lesi ngesinye sezici ezibalulekile ze- Isonto Lomhlaba Lokubeletha, ukuthi ngesiqubulo esithi 'Ukuncelisa ingane ibele nokusebenza', iphakamisa izincomo ezigxile ezikhaleni, isikhathi kanye nezisekelo.
Ingabe ukuncelisa ibele kuyahambisana nokusebenza?
Kwesinye isikhathi akulula futhi kudinga inhlangano enhle; kwesinye isikhathi kubekwa ukwesaba komama abasebenzayo okususelwa ezinganekwaneni njengoba 'uzoyeka ukuba nobisi', 'kuwumthwalo omkhulu kuwe', njll. Ukuthi ngaphandle kokubheka iseluleko esiza lapho ungasicelanga: 'ingane ingakhuliswa inempilo ngobisi oluyimpuphu', 'nawe unelungelo lokushiya indlu, ungakhathazeki ngengane'. Iqiniso ukuthi hhayi kuphela ezingeni lezenhlalo, kepha futhi nasemibonweni yomuntu siqu, kwesinye isikhathi umuntu akakuqondi kahle ukungabi nentshisekelo kwamalungelo ezingane.
Mhlawumbe into enzima kakhulu ukufinyelela ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, ngoba uma seyethuliwe ukudla okuhambisanayo, qiniseka ukuthi konke kulula; okwamanje, usuvele uyazi ukuthi kukhona imvume yokuncelisa, ithuba lokuveza ubisi endaweni yokusebenza...
Ikhefu lokuncelisa ibele
Ekupheleni kwamasonto ayi-16, ungasebenzisa imvume yokuncelisa. Unelungelo lokungabikho ihora elilodwa emsebenzini, futhi le ngxenyana yesikhathi ingahlukaniswa kabili; ekuzalweni kaningi umama kungenzeka angabikho amahora amabili (amawele / amawele) noma amathathu (amawele amathathu). Isikhathi semvume siyizinyanga eziyi-9, futhi kuyilungelo lomuntu ngamunye, ngakho-ke futhi kungajatshulelwa ngubaba; futhi futhi azimele ekutheni ngabe ukondla kwengane yakho kungokwemvelo noma kungokwenziwe. Kepha namhlanje sigxile ekunceliseni ibele.
Izivumelwano ezihlanganisiwe yilezo ezilawula imibandela engafakwanga kumthetho ojwayelekile. Isibonelo kwesinye isikhathi Kungenzeka ukuthi unqwabelane wonke amahora wekhefu (okukodwa ngosuku izinyanga eziyi-9) bese ubangezela ekhefini lokubeletha. Kuyisinqumo okufanele kuxoxiswane ngaso futhi senziwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Izinyathelo ezihambisanayo
- Nweba amasonto ayi-16 ekhefu: engeza izinsuku zeholide ezihambelana nonyaka wamanje, nalezo ezingathathwanga kulowo odlule.
- Ukucela ukuncishiswa kwamahora okusebenza (ukujatshulelwa kuze kube yiminyaka eyi-12 yengane), ngokuncishiswa okulinganayo komholo, nakho kuzokwenza kube lula ukuncelisa ibele.
- Nikeza ngezinsizakalo nolwazi; ngoba lapho omama bekwazi ukwenza ukuthi 'ukuncelisa ibele nokusebenza' kuhambisane kuba khona abashiya isikole abambalwa.
Gcina ukuncelisa
Kubaluleke kakhulu bhekisisa zonke izinto ezinomthelela, ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sizokugcina kanjani ukuncelisa ibele, futhi lezi zinto zehlukile esimweni ngasinye. Imvamisa iminyaka yobudala yengane iyahlolwa (izinyanga ezi-3 nohhafu azifani nezingu-8); amahora okusebenza nebanga ukusuka endaweni yokusebenza kuya ekhaya; lokho umama afuna ukukwenza; Isixazululo esikhethwe ukunakekela ingane (ubaba, umkhulu, umnakekeli, noma inkulisa).
Uzoqhubeka kanjani ukuncelisa ingane yakho ibele?
Vele lapho uhlangana futhi nsuku zonke: KUFUNEKA, ngaphandle kwengcindezi noma amashejuli, futhi:
Okuphakelayo okuqondile noma okubambezelekile
Okokuqala ukuthi umuntu athathe okuncane lapho usebenzela khona ukuncelisa. Ukubambezela ukuncelisa ibele lapho ukhipha ubisi lwakho ukuze othile alunikeze ingane esikhundleni salokho. Izici ezibalulekile:
- Sebenzisa ipompo elifanele lesifuba, nelikagesi elingcono elincane.
- Lungisa ngobuningi obanele bese ugcina ezitsheni ezingama-50 kuya ku-100 cc.
- Ubisi oluvela kokuphakelayo kokubili lungaxubeka, inqobo nje uma lungancibilikisiwe.
- Yigcine yintsha izinsuku ezimbili. Izikhathi ezinde zidinga ukubanda.
- Nikeza imiyalo kumuntu okhathalelayo: maqondana nokufudumala, ukunikela ngokudingwa yingane, njll.
- Akulungile, kepha ukondla okuhambisanayo kungathuthukiswa kancane: ukudla okuningi okuqinile kunika izinkinga ezimbalwa zokungezwani komzimba nobisi lokuzenzela (kuvela enkomeni, ungakhohlwa); futhi uvumele ingane yaneliseke.
- Kuvamile ukuthi kudingeke ukuthi uveze okuthile emsebenzini ngoba ukukhiqizwa ubisi kulawulwa ngokwezidingo zengane. Ukuze wenze lokhu, thatha okupholile ngama-accumulators afriziwe neziqukathi. Phinda ucele isikhala esihlangabezana nezindinganiso zenhlanzeko futhi esiyimfihlo (futhi esinendawo yokupompa ibele)
Konke lokhu kuzimele kwimvume yokuncelisa, kwesinye isikhathi amafomula ahlanganisiwe kufanele atholakale, ngoba ukuncelisa ngokufunwa ngaphambi kokufakwa kwezinto eziqinile kudinga ubukhona obuningi
Khumbula ukuthi uzokwazi, noma ngabe umkhiqizo uncipha, ingane iyakwenqaba ukunikezwa ngumnakekeli wayo, noma ngenxa yezinye izizathu. Kulokhu kokugcina, cishe uzokwamukela ngokuxhuma i-tit futhi angayishiyi uze uhambe futhi., akukho lutho olungalungile ngakho, yize konke kuzoya ngeminyaka yabo, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi kwenzeke ngezingane ezisencane kakhulu.
Okokugcina, ubusuvele ukwazi lokho ungajabulela ikhefu elingakhokhelwa, iqiniso? Konke okungenhla kuhambisana ne ukugwema ingozi yokuncelisa, uma kukhona (okususelwa emsebenzini)
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