Ingane yakho ithuthukisa ubuntu bayo. Yini okudingeka uyazi ukuthi ungubaba omkhulu noma umama omkhulu? Imisebenzi yokukhula kwengane yakho ekhulayo, izinto eziza kuqala, nohlelo lomdlalo olula lokuba ngumzali, konke kulungele ukwenza impilo yakho ibe lula lapho inemizuzu emithathu kuphela yokufunda ngaphambi kokuba ivuke… Ngisho nalokhu! Kubalulekile ukuthi uqale ubuzali obuhle nengane yakho kusukela lapho ingena emhlabeni.
Ingane yakho emasontweni azayo izokhula ngokushesha ngokomzimba nangobuchopho okuzophendula kwisikhuthazo semvelo, izoqala ukuthuthukisa ulimi lwayo olulalelayo noluzwakalayo, izoqala ukwazi ukuthi ingazola kanjani futhi izoqala nokukhulisa amandla ayo okuzethemba futhi ukusondelana., Futhi konke lokhu ezinyangeni zabo zokuqala zokuphila!
Kubalulekile ukuthi noma ngabe ukhathele futhi unengcindezi, ubheke ingane yakho bese ukhumbula ukuthi iyoba yingane kanye kuphela. Lezo zikhathi azisoze zabuya, ngoba zikhula ngokushesha okukhulu, kangangokuthi ngeke wazi nokuthi ziyenzeka ... Ziyizikhathi zomlingo futhi ezimangalisayo ongeke uziphuthe! Okufanelekile, ukuqala ukuba ngumzali oqondile nomntanakho, cabanga ngokuthi ungazihlela kanjani ekhaya ukuze ube nakho konke okulawulwayo (njengokwakha imizila).
Ukukhulisa kahle nomntwana wakho
Mnakekele ngangokunokwenzeka
Mnakekele ngangokunokwenzeka, okungenani unyaka. Lokhu kuzoba nemiphumela emihle empilweni yakho nasekuhlakanipheni kwakho. Uma esekhulile lokhu kuzokwenza umehluko. Uma ukwazi ukuncelisa, kwenze, uma ungakwazi, ungazizwa unecala ngoba nawe uyakwazi ukubopha ingane yakho ngendlela efanayo. Chitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka unakekele ingane yakho, ngoba idinga wena nobaba wayo, idinga abazali bayo eceleni kwayo.
Lala kancane
Uma ufuna ngempela ukuba nobuzali obuhle nengane yakho, kuzofanele ufunde ukuzinakekela. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuzodingeka ulale ngokwengeziwe futhi ucabange ngomzimba wakho. Odokotela abaningi bezingane bancoma ukuthi ukuncelisa ibele ebusuku kuqedwe ngemuva konyaka ukuze kugwenywe izimbotshana zengane kanye nokwenza ngcono ukulala nokuphumula kwakho.
Ukuze ukwazi ukunika lonke uthando lwakho nengane yakho, kubalulekile ukuthi uqale ngokuzinakekela nokuzinika uthando. Thola izikhathi zosuku, noma imizuzu eyi-10 ongazinikela kuwe. Zithokozise ngochungechunge lwethelevishini, incwadi oyithandayo, indawo yokugezela ephumuzayo ... cela umlingani wakho ukuthi anakekele ingane yakho lapho ufuna ukwenza lokhu. Uma ungashadile, buza ilungu lomndeni elithembekile.
Vumela ingane yakho ihlole
Uma uvimbela ingane yakho ekuhloleni ngenxa yokwesaba ukuzilimaza, ngeke uvumele i-IQ yakhe ukuba ikhule kahle. Ingane yakho idinga ukuthi uyiqondise kabusha lapho isengozini, kodwa hhayi ukuyinqabela ukuthi ihlole indawo ezungezile. Okufanelekile, kufanele ube 'nobufakazi bengane' bendlu nokuthi ngale ndlela ingahlolwa ngokukhululeka.
Khetha igumbi ekhaya lakho bese ulibeka ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukukhasa ngokukhululeka futhi ihlole. Ungasusi amehlo akho kuye noma ungamshiyi yedwa egumbini. Udinga ukuthi umkhangele kepha ngasikhathi sinye ungavimbeli isifiso sakhe sokuhlola ... ukuze umqondise lapho kudingeka.
Cabanga ngokudla kwabo
Izingane ziyakuthanda ukuhlola njengoba sishilo ephuzwini eledlule, kodwa futhi ziyathanda ukuhlola ukunambitheka okusha ... Yize ekuqaleni zingakhulumi kangako. Ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo, izingane zisabela kabi ekunambithekeni okusha uma kungenzeka 'zinoshevu', ngenxa yalesi sizathu kufanele ubekezele futhi unikeze ukudla amahlandla amaningi kuze kube yilapho ekugcineni zikwamukela ngokuzithandela. Konke lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngokubekezela, ngendlela yokudlala futhi ungalokothi uphoqe isimo. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho ungakha khona ubudlelwano obuhle phakathi kwengane yakho nokudla okusha, uma uyiphoqa, uzofinyelela okuphambene.
Uma ungazi ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zokudla okufanele ukwethule noma ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani, khuluma nodokotela wezingane ukuze uthole isiqondiso kuye ngeminyaka yengane yakho. Khumbula ukuthi izingane aziqali ukudla ukudla okuqinile (pureed) kuze kube izinyanga eziyisithupha, njengoba kunconywe odokotela bezingane abaningi ukugwema ukungezwani komzimba. Kule minyaka, izingane eziningi ziyathanda ukuthatha ukudla okuthambile kakhulu njengophizi ophekiwe, izaqathe ... Kepha kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ungakufaki emilonyeni yazo ngoba ziyakwazi ukuminyana. Kunamanye amanetha emakethe akhonza ukufaka ukudla ngaphakathi ukuze izingane zikwazi ukumunca ngaphandle kwengozi yokuncishwa umoya.
Lapho ingane yakho iqala ukuthatha isipuni, mvumele adle iphalishi lakhe ngokuzimela, ekuqaleni kuzoba yinhlekelele enkulu futhi ukudla okuningi okuzodingeka umnikeze kona, kepha uzobe ukhulisa ukuzimela kwakhe nokulawula isimo, kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni kwabo.
Ungalahlekelwa ukuxhumana nengane yakho
Noma kufanele ubuyele emsebenzini, usengaba nesibopho esikhulu nengane yakho. Isibopho phakathi kwabazali nezingane kufanele singeqeki. Izingane ezingabantu aziphumeleli ngaphandle kokuthi zizizwe zixhumene nomama nobaba.
Ukukhula kwakho kobuchopho kuncike kukho. Lokho kuxhumana akuyona into ongayenza ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula. Uma kufanele usebenze, zama ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka nengane yakho. Ngenkathi evukile, zama ukuba eceleni kwakhe isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Beka imisebenzi phambili futhi ungenzi noma yini ethatha noma ethatha isikhathi nengane yakho.
Jabulela ingane yakho nomndeni wakho
Umntanakho uzobe eya esikoleni ngaphambi kokuba wazi, futhi uzobe wenze izinkumbulo ezinhle. Kubalulekile ukuthi uthokozele ingane yakho nomndeni wakho omuhle ngangokunokwenzeka. Izinkumbulo zakhiwa nguwe. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukwakha umndeni omuhle, ogcwele uthando nothando. Yize kuzoba nezikhathi ezinhle nezimbi, imfihlo yenjabulo futhi ilele ekufundeni ukuphatha izikhathi ezingezinhle kangako.
Ukukhulisa okuhle nenjabulo enganeni yakho kusezandleni zakho! Hlonipha izidingo zabo kanye nokuziphendukela kwemvelo nakho konke kuzohamba kahle.