Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukuxhumana phakathi kwabazali nezingane

Awudingi ukwenza noma yini ekhethekile ukwakha ubudlelwano nengane yakho. Izindaba ezinhle nezimbi ukuthi konke ukuxhumana kwakha ubudlelwano. Yiya ezitolo, isikhathi sokugeza, lapho ufundela izingane zakho indaba ... Konke kubalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokuxhumana. Wonke amathuba amahle, isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ingafuni ukuhlanganyela ithoyizi, ingafuni ukulala noma ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole.  Kuya ngokuthi usisingatha kanjani leso simo, kuzoba yisisekelo sobuhlobo obuhlala njalo nezingane zakho.

Lesi esinye sezizathu zokuthi kungani kufanele ucabange nganoma yikuphi ukuxhumana okuqhubekayo lapho izinzwa zikuhlasela, kufanele ucabange ukuthi ungasisingatha kanjani leso simo ngendlela ehlukile. Ukusebenzisana okwenzeka izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa kuvame ukuqala iphethini. Ukuphika nokugxeka akusona isisekelo esihle sobudlelwano nomuntu omthandayo. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, impilo yakho imfushane kakhulu ukuthi ingasetshenziswa esimweni sokucasuka okuqhubekayo.

Imikhuba yokuxhumana iqala kusenesikhathi. Uyalalela lapho izingane zakho zikhuluma ngokungapheli ngabangane bazo basesikoleni, noma ngabe unezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu okufanele ucabange ngazo? Lapho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi lapho esemusha azokutshela ukuthi wenzani nabangane bakhe (futhi lokho nakanjani uzoba nentshisekelo yokwazi).

Kunzima ukunaka lapho ushesha ukwenza ukudla kwesidlo sakusihlwa, lapho usebenza, noma lapho uzama ukwenza izinto ezimbili ngasikhathi sinye. Kepha uma ungakwenzi, uzolahlekelwa yithuba lokufunda nokufundisa ingane yakho. Ingane yakho izofunda ukuthi awumlaleli nokuthi lokho akushoyo akukuthandi.

Kukho konke lokhu kuyadingeka ukuthi usebenze ukuxhumana nezingane zakho ngoba zincane kakhulu, ngakho-ke ukuxhumana kwakho kuzoba ngcono kakhulu njengoba bekhula.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.