Iningi lemindeni liyazi noma selike lezwa ukuthi ukuzethemba kwezingane kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwezingane. Kepha akubona bonke abazali abazi ukuthi bangayikhuthaza kanjani futhi abanye babo bavame ukungayinaki futhi bangayiniki ukubaluleka okukhulu. Ukuzethemba okunempilo kusiza izingane ukuthi zikhule zizethemba, zikwazi ukuzimela, zizimele futhi zingesabi ukwenza amaphutha noma ukwehluleka ngenkathi zifunda futhi zithola ulwazi olusha.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuzethemba okuphansi kungaholela ekungavikelekeni okuningi, ukwesaba ngisho nokwaliwa ezinganeni. Bangase bangazijabuleli izinsuku zabo esikoleni ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi bazobe benza iphutha, ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi ofunda nabo bazobahleka, futhi lezi zimo zingadala ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukukhungatheka, ukuzicabangela okubi ngisho nokucindezeleka kwengane. Ngalesi sizathu, njengoba ngishilo phambilini, ukuzethemba kuyisici esibalulekile ekukhuleni okuhlangene kwezingane nabantu abasha.
Namuhla sizogxila ekutheni singayikhangisa kanjani ekhaya, kodwa kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi emakilasini kubalulekile futhi ukuthi abafundi bazizwe bethandwa, bezwakala futhi beqondwa ngothisha babo. Ngale ndlela, sizoqinisekisa ukuthi banokuzethemba okunempilo, okulinganiselayo nokwenele. Ngaphandle kokulibala, nansi imishwana emihlanu engasiza izingane zakho ukuthi zibe nesimo sengqondo esihle ngokwazo nangabanye nsuku zonke.
"Ngiyakuthanda"
Yebo, kuyinto elula kabi ukusho, kepha hhayi bonke abazali batshela izingane zabo nsuku zonke. Ngokuthi "Ngiyakuthanda" nokugona, izingane zizozizwa ziphephile, zithandwa, futhi zisekelwa yimindeni yazo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi baye esikoleni bejabule, bekhuthazekile futhi benelisekile.
«Akukho okwenzekayo ngoba uyiphutha. Uyafunda "
Njengoba ngishilo phambilini, izingane eziningi zivame ukwesaba ukwehluleka, ukwenza amaphutha nokwenza amaphutha, ikakhulukazi ezikhungweni zemfundo. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bakhulume nezingane zabo, baziqinisekise futhi bazitshele ukuthi akukho lutho olwenzekayo ngoba abakwenzi konke kahle okokuqala ngoba bayafunda. Ezikhathini eziningi, kunezingane ezizizwa ziphansi kunezinye ngoba zibona ukuthi azisheshi njengabanye. Ngalokhu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umndeni nesikole basebenzisane njengeqembu ukuze bakwazi ukuchazela izingane ukuthi ngamunye unezinga lakhe lokufunda. Futhi lowo akahlakaniphi ngokwengeziwe noma kancane ngokuthi izinto zenziwa ngokushesha noma kancane kanjani.
"Ngiyakukholwa. Ungakwena lokhu"
Ukukhuthaza ukuzimela nokuzimela kwezingane kuyinto okufanele abazali bayicabangele. Kubalulekile ukuthi imindeni iphakamise imisebenzi engenziwa yizingane zayo yodwa (ukuzivumelanisa neminyaka ngayinye, kunjalo). Ngale ndlela, izingane zizozizwa ziwusizo futhi zingawuthanda umqondo wokufuna ukusiza abazali bazo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi imindeni icace bha ukuthi izingane zingenza amaphutha kulokhu futhi zingakwenzi kahle kungaba okokuqala noma okwesibili. Ngakho-ke, Amagama okweseka abalulekile ukuze uhlale uzama ungapheli amandla.
«Akekho ongcono kunawe futhi awungcono kunanoma ubani»
Le nkulumo ibonakala ibalulekile kimina futhi ukukhuthaza uzwela nemfundo ngamanani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali bazobe bethatha izingane kude nazo ukuzethemba okuphezulu ngokweqile. Lo mqondo ubucayi njengalowo wokungazethembi, ngoba kungaba nezimo lapho izingane zingakhona balahla ontanga yabo, bazizwe bebakhulu kunabo futhi baze bababandlulule. Ngale ndlela, imindeni ibizobe ivimbela nezingane zayo ekubeni zithuthukise ukuncintisana okuphezulu, okunganele nokungenampilo ekilasini nasempilweni okungalimaza abanye.
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Sifika ezivivinyweni nasemabangeni asabekayo. Izingane eziningi ziyadumala lapho zingaphumeleli esivivinyweni futhi zithambekele ekuthatheni isimo sengqondo esingesihle nesizihlulayo esingadala ukukhathazeka, ingcindezi kanye nokudangala kwengane. Futhi, kulesi sigaba kubalulekile ukuthi imindeni nezikole zisebenzisane ukwenza izingane zibone ukuthi akukho okwenzekayo ukwehluleka ukuhlolwa futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke kuchaze okufanele kufundwe, ezimweni eziningi akusho ukuvuma. Ngale ndlela, esikhundleni sokuthethisa izingane ngebanga elibi, kungaba ngcono ukuthi abazali bakhombise ukweseka kwabo izingane futhi badlulise ukuthula nokuzola.
Impela, kunemishwana eminingi yokukhuthaza ukuzethemba kwezingane nentsha. Ngingathanda ukwazi ukuthi iziphi ozisebenzisayo ukuze izingane zakho zibe nesimo esihle ngokwazo, nabanye kanye nemvelo yazo! Sizokhuluma kumazwana abekiwe?