'Ukwehluka akusho ukuba nephutha' Kungumqondo wokuthi izingane zakho kufanele zifunde ukwazi ukubaluleka kwazo. Kulula ukubiza izingane ngokuthi "zimbi" kuyilapho kungukuphela kwabo eqenjini lokudlala abagibela esitendeni sasekhishini kanti abanye bahlala ngesizotha bezungeze itafula bethatha amasemishi abo.
Kulula ukuphetha ngalokho wenza okuthile okungalungile lapho kuthiwa ingane yakho ukuphela komuntu eqenjini ongalali ubusuku bonke. Abazali abasha bathola "izinkambiso" zabo kusuka kuzitayela zokukhulisa ezijwayelekile nokuziphatha kwengane kweqembu lomphakathi abazithola bekulo.
Siphila emphakathini lapho 'ukwehluka' kufana nokuba nephutha, futhi lokhu akufanele kube njalo ... Lokhu akukhona nje ukucabanga okuyiphutha, futhi kwehlisa ukwethembana ezinganeni futhi kuzolulaza umbono wabo wobungqayizivele nokubaluleka komuntu uqobo. Ukuqhathanisa indlela owakhuliswa ngayo nabanye kuzokukwenza uzongabaze ngisho nokuzazi. Uzoqinisa lowo muzwa ongemuhle: ukuthi ukuziphatha kabi kwengane yakho kuyiphutha lakho ngandlela thile. Futhi indodana yakho ayinakho ukuziphatha okubi, futhi akufanele usolwe nganoma yini.
Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye bese ubheka ingane yakho ngamehlo omama / kababa, ngokufanele. Uzoba ongagxeki kakhulu futhi ngokuzumayo ubhekane namaqiniso. Inkanyezi ngayinye ikhanya ngokukhanya okwehlukile futhi lowo mehluko yilokho okusenza sihluke futhi singaphindaphindeki.
Ingane yakho ingahle ingaziphathi kahle futhi nawe awuphelele, kepha ukuphelela akukho. Okukhona isifiso sokwenza ngcono, ukuhlala ngokuzwana nokufuna amasu okufeza impilo yomndeni egcwele uthando nothando. Lapho kunemithetho nemikhawulo, kepha lapho kukhona khona uthando, uthando, inhlonipho nokuguquguquka. Futhi manje ucabangani ngokuhluka '?