Umphakathi wethu usimema ukuthi sithambekele ekuziphatheni komuntu ngamunye, kodwa akuyona imvelo ukukhulisa umntwana wedwa. Kusukela lapho ubona le migqa emibili, ucabanga ukuthi iyavela emehlweni akho, ukuthi isisu sakho sesivele siyabonakala lapho siqhuma nje, ukuthi umakhelwane wakho kumele akubonile ... kahle, ukuthi uyafa ukumemeza ngoba udinga ukwabelana. Yabelana ngenjabulo, ukwesaba, imibuzo, izinzwa, ukungabaza, ulwazi olumayelana nendawo yonke yakho ... Umzimba wakho ukuxwayisa ngaleyo mizwa yesifiso esiyinhloko: ukuba ngumama njengesizwe.
Isizwe siyafunda
Akuyona into engokwemvelo ukukhulisa umntwana wedwa. Hhayi ngoba sidinga ithimba lezokwelapha elilandela ukukhula okufanele kokukhulelwa nokusiza ukulethwa, kepha futhi ngoba kunemininingwane engabhaliwe ndawo, isesizweni. Kunemidwebo emayelana nezikhundla zokuncelisa, kepha yeka ukuthi kuhle futhi kulula kanjani ukuthi omunye wesifazane akuncome ngenkathi uncelisa ukuthi ukwenze kanjani. Futhi ngikhuluma ngomunye wesifazane futhi yimina ovumayo ukuthi nginaye Isipho sempilo yonke Etafuleni lombhede elisesibhedlela namakhasi amakiwe. Kepha uyazi ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthini, omama banezinsizakusebenza futhi lokhu kuyisibonelo sakho kepha, ngaphezu kwakho konke, sinemizwa.
Ukuba ngumama yimizwa
Ukuba ngumama yimizwa. Impela ufunde ukuthi uma ungumama, inhliziyo yakho ayisashayi endaweni efanayo, ishaya ngaphandle komzimba. Ngicabanga ukuthi asikho isithombe esicacile sokuba ngumama. Futhi kuthiwani ngayo yonke leyo mizwa? Ukuwaveza futhi ukuwabelana nabanye omama kungokuhlangenwe nakho okucebisayo nokududuzayo ngempela. Omama abavela enkambisweni yakho yokulungiselela ukubeletha, labo abavela eqenjini lokukhulisa izingane, labo abavela eqenjini lokuncelisa, labo abahamba epaki ... khuluma nabo, yabelana ngalokho ozwayo, ohlangabezana nakho ... uzwela luzokwenza khula.
Umama nengane
Uzwela nokuba ngumama
Ngoba injabulo yokuba ngumama inkulu kakhulu. Kepha kunjalo nokukhathala kwaleyo nkinga ye-lactation, noma lapho eqala ukuhamba futhi engayeki, ekubeni nezinyanga eziyishumi nesithupha ngaphandle kokulala ngaphezu kwamahora amane elandelana (ngobusuku bakho benhlanhla) ... colic, oh, nalabo amabala amancane Azoba yini? Ngimyise kudokotela wezingane? Ngabe nengane yakho iyakwenza lokhu? Yebo, kuyefana. Ukububula kozwela kukhulu, kuyadambisa, kwehlisa umoya. Kukusiza ukuthi uziqonde wena, uqonde ingane yakho, futhi uqonde indawo yonke yokuba ngumama. Futhi kunika amandla, kukuqinisekisa ukuthi unesibindi.
Ngokwami, bengibazi abesifazane abangajwayelekile kusukela ngikhulelwe; futhi ngizizwa ngisekelwa futhi ngivikelwe yibo, kuyinto enhle. Futhi yingakho bengifuna ukukhala. Ake sikhulise esizweni ngoba Umama muhle kodwa futhi awuhlaza, futhi sonke sidinga usizo nokuxhaswa futhi singakuthola eqenjini. Futhi uyazi ukuthi kuhle kanjani ukubona lezo zingane ezikhule ndawonye zidlala, zabelana?