Ukuba ngumama nowesifazane akufani nokuyeka amaphupho akho. Amaphupho ethu nemicabango yethu, eyingcweti neyomuntu siqu, yinto esenza sijabule, nokuba ngumama nakho kungezinye zazo. Kungani kufanele sikhethe?
Ngosuku lwabesifazane ayikho enye indlela ngaphandle kokuhlonipha zonke izinketho, ukuba ngowesifazane ophumelelayo futhi ungabi ngumama, nokuba ngumama futhi uqhubeke nokuba ngowesifazane osebenzayo ophumelelayo. Akukhethi kuphela, awudingi ukukhetha. Esinakho ukuhlonipha isinqumo somuntu ngamunye entweni eqondene nomuntu uqobo futhi silwele amalungelo ethu okuzikhethela ngaphandle kokudela eyodwa yazo.
Ukufeza lokhu, umphakathi kumele ube sohlangothini lwethu ungaphikisani nakho. I- March 8 i Usuku Lomhlaba Wonke Lwabesifazane Abasebenza, lapho engazi khona kuqinisekisa ukungalingani okuyinhloko abesifazane abakufanise nabesilisa. Ukungalingani okwenza kube nzima namanje ukuthi abesifazane bavumelanise umsebenzi nempilo yomuntu siqu.
Khumula i-super woman Cape yakho
Kukhona ingcindezi yezenhlalo kubantu besifazane okufanele sikwenze kahle kukho konke: omama abahle, amakhosikazi, abasebenzi abaphumelelayo ... Lokhu, ngaphezu kokungenzeki, kudala ukukhathazeka ngokufuna ukufinyelela kukho konke. Yazi imikhawulo yakho futhi uyamukele, kuzofanele ukhethe ukuthi yini ephuthumayo nokuthi yini ongayilindela.
Hlola uhlelo lwakho lokukholelwa
I-Durante imfundo yethu sifakiwe a uhlelo lokukholelwa ukuthi sicabange ngokungazi. Isikhathi sokubabuza, ukuhlaziya ukuthi yiziphi okungezakho nokuthi iziphi ezingezona, yiziphi ozizwa ukhululekile ngazo nokuthi iziphi ezikuphatha kabi.
Thola eyakho indlela yokuba ngumama nowesifazane, sesha uthole indawo yakho ungavumeli noma ngubani akutshele okufanele ukwenze noma ongakwenzi.
Ungazizwa unecala
Ukufuna ukufinyelela kukho konke kusenza sizizwe ngathi asenzi lutho ngokulunga okungu-100%. Asiwenzi kahle umsebenzi wethu futhi asifanele njengoba kufanele sinakekele izingane zethu. Into ebalulekile akusona isikhathi osinikeza izingane zakho, kepha ukuthi isikhathi singekhwalithi.
Awuphelele futhi akufanele uzame ukuba. Asibona omama abakhulu, singabantu abanemikhawulo nezidingo, hhayi imishini. Ukuba necala kuzokukwenza uzizwe ukhungathekile futhi unganelisekile, kungumthombo ohleliwe wokuzithokozisa okuzimele.
Thola ibhalansi
Awudingi ukufakazela lutho kunoma ngubani. Uma ungenawo umsebenzi oguquguqukayo noma kungenzeka ukuthi usebenza nge-teleworking, hlonipha amahora akho okusebenza bese ubheka izindlela zokukhiqiza kakhulu. Ukwenza amahora amaningi akusho ukuthi usebenza ngokwengeziwe. Zama ukungahambi nomsebenzi wakho uye nawo ekhaya.
Isikhathi sakho
Sonke siyasidinga isikhathi sethu, futhi kubonakala sengathi ukuba ngumama kuhlanganisa izindawo eziningi kwesinye isikhathi kwesinye isikhathi siyazikhohlwa. Ungazikhohlwa ezintweni eziza kuqala, Isikhathi sokuzinikela emisebenzini oyithandayo futhi ekucindezele. Ungazizwa unecala ngakho.
Kuzokwenza ujabule ngokwengeziwe, uzophula inqubo yakho futhi uqede ukucindezeleka. Awugcini ngokukufanele kepha uyakudinga.
Ukuba ngumama nowesifazane akufani nokuyeka amaphupho akho
Nina eningomama niyayazi. Kuziphonsela inselelo ekukhawuleni obungazi nokuthi unakho. Kukwenza uzenze ngcono wena, futhi kukwenza ufunde ukufunda ukubeka phambili. Ukuba nezingane kudinga ukuzibophezela nokuzibophezela nokuba nomsebenzi wobuchwepheshe nakho. Yize indlela eya emaphusheni iseyisikhathi eside ukuba ngumama, akufanele uyidele.
Kunezinguquko eziningi ezingeni lomphakathi okufanele zilwelwe, ukwenza lokhu kube lula.
Izinselelo eziyinhloko
- Ukubambisana: kusho "isibopho esabiwe sesimo noma isenzo esithile phakathi kwabantu ababili noma ngaphezulu." Asisasele sodwa ekuhlukaniseni imisebenzi yasendlini, kepha ku uthathe umthwalo wokunakekela izingane. Ngalokhu, umphakathi nezinkampani kufanele zishintshe futhi zivumelane nezidingo zamanje. Hhayi abesifazane kuphela okufanele babuyisane, i umndeni akuyona nje into yomuntu wesifazane.
- Susa igebe lokukhokha: ngokubheka ukuqeqeshwa akufanele kube negebe lokukhokha. Lokhu kubandlululwa kudala ukuthi abesifazane bakhokhelwe kancane benza umsebenzi ofanayo nowesilisa. Phambilini indoda bekunguyena obeletha okondliwe ekhaya kanti umholo wowesifazane wawungezelela. Lokhu kufanele kuvuselelwe manje.
- Izinqubomgomo zokulingana: ukugqugquzela usizo lokunakekelwa kwezingane, ikhefu lokubeletha nelokubeletha, amahora okusebenza aguquguqukayo ... konke okudingekayo kwabesilisa nabesifazane ukuba babe umthwalo usatshalaliswe kahle.
Izinguquko eziningi zisadingeka ukuze iqiniso elikhona emphakathini lidlulele kwezamabhizinisi nezepolitiki. Kungakho kubaluleke kangaka ezinsukwini ezinjenganamuhla yenza izicelo zethu zizwakale bamane nje bazijwayeza impilo yangempela.
Ngoba khumbula ... asisoze sakwazi ukundiza phezulu kangako ngaphandle kokuthi sisekelana (u-Emma Watson)