Isikhathi lapho uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe kuvame ukuba njalo enye yezinto ezikhetheke kakhulu empilweni yanoma yimuphi umbhangqwana. Imibhangqwana eminingi iyahambisana lapho yenza isivivinyo se- sokukhulelwaAbanye, ngakolunye uhlangothi, bakhetha ukukwenza bodwa ukuze bamangaze ubaba wesikhathi esizayo. Uma lokhu kuyicala lakho futhi ufuna ukumangaza isoka lakho ngalezi zindaba ezijabulisayo, ungaphuthelwa uhla lwethu lwemibono yasekuqaleni futhi ekhethekile.
Ungaziphula kanjani izindaba zokuthi ukhulelwe
Kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke izinto ezifana nobuntu bomlingani wakho, ukuthanda kwabo nendlela yabo yokwamukela isimanga. Cabanga ukuthi, uma indlela okhetha ngayo ingahambi nendlela yokuba yisoka lakho, lokhu ingabeka indlela yakho yokwamukela izindaba. Ukugwema ukungezwani futhi ungabangeli isimo esingesihle, cabanga ngokucophelela ngezinto ezithandwa omunye umuntu bese uzama ukuzivumelanisa nazo, lezi yizindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuzonakalisa ngokhetho olubi.
Uma ukukhulelwa kuhlelwe, uzobe usunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi izindaba zokuthi ukhulelwe zizobingelelwa ngemizwa. Ngakho-ke akufanele ukhathazeke ngokusabela kwesoka lakho, noma kusabalulekile ukuthi ukhethe isikhathi nendlela efanele.
Uma kwenzeka ukhulelwe isimanga, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha kahle ukuthi ungazihambisa kanjani izindaba ezimnandi. Ungaba nomlingani ozinzile futhi uthole lokhu sokukhulelwa ngomzwelo, yize kungahlelwanga. Kepha kukhona amacala amaningi lapho ubuhlobo buqala khona Futhi ukuthi ukhulelwe, kungaba ngandlela thile ukuyekethisa kini nobabili.
Kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu ukunikeza izindaba ukuthi ukhulelwe njengobuntu, ukuthandana, ukuhlekisa, ukusangana, imizwa noma umndeni, isibonelo. Lena eminye imibono yakho konke ukuthanda.
Umlayezo ovela enganeni yesikhathi esizayo
Khetha isithombe esisodwa sezintandokazi zakhoNgokuqinisekile kuselula yakho unezithombe eziningi ezikhethekile kini nobabili ngesikhathi esikhethekile.
Phrinta isithombe bese bhala umyalezo ovela kwengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo kuyo, umyalezo omangazayo obhekiswe kubaba. Okuthile "Ngiyathemba ngifana nobaba wami" "Maduze sizohamba sonke baba" "Ubaba wami unemomotheka elihle kunawo wonke emhlabeni" noma umyalezo owukhethayo.
I-gymkhana emangele
Hlela i-gymkhana ekhaya, kuzofanele ulungiselele izivivinyo futhi izindawo zokucasha ezinemiyalezo eholela ubaba wesikhathi esizayo kumklomelo wokumangala, ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa.
Akudingeki kube izivivinyo eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, ngisho nakokukodwa ngakunye ongakwenza faka imikhondo ngomlayezo ubaba azowuthola. Sebenzisa owodilophu abasekamelweni, izicathulo zesoka lakho, amakhabethe asekhishini noma iphuzu elisendlini yakho elingasetshenziswa ukufihla amanothi ngezinkomba.
Fihla into ekhabetheni lakhe lesikibha
Ungasebenzisa noma iyiphi into ejwayelekile yengane njenge-pacifier noma amabhuzu. Yize ungasebenzisa okuthile okukhethekile njengeDoud-dou ngenothi. I-doud-dou yinto yokunamathiselwa, uhlobo lwengubo efaka unodoli omncane wendwangu othambile futhi onambithekayo, Isetshenziselwa ukwenza ingane ikhululeke futhi ikhululeke. Okunye kokucacile kwale nto elula ukuthi ukwenziwa kwendwangu kukuvumela ukuthi ungeze iphunga olifunayo.
Okuvame ukwenziwa ukubeka i-doud-dou ekhabetheni lezingubo likamama. Futhi ungalala nayo ukuze indwangu ikhulelwe ngephunga lakho, okuzoba intandokazi yengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Ukuze umangaze umlingani wakho, ungabeka i-doud-dou ekhabetheni lakhe lezingubo ngenothi usho into efana nokuthi "Ngizokuthanda ukulala ne-doud-dou yami ngoba kunuka ubaba wami"
Siyethemba ukuthi izindaba zamukelwe ngezindlela ezinhle kakhulu nokuthi uzijabulele lezi zikhathi ezinhle nesoka lakho. Ubudlelwano bakho sebuzothatha igxathu eliyisisekelo, ubeka izisekelo zomndeni wakho. !! Halala !!