Ungayivimba kanjani ingane yami ekuhambeni nabantu engingabazi?

Ukwesaba okukhulu kukamama ukuthi indodana yakhe iyanyamalala, kepha futhi angakwazanga ukukugwema. Kuyadabukisa ukukholelwa ukuthi ingane kumele yazi, kusukela isencane kakhulu, ukuthi kunabantu abangenzi ngendlela efanele noma enempilo, abantu abangabazi abangabalimaza. Kodwa-ke, njengabazali kunesibopho sokukhombisa nokufundisa ngokweqiniso nokuvimbela izenzo ezingenzeka ezilimaza ingane.

Ukuzethemba kwengane

Emphakathini esihlala kuwo, hhayi manje kuphela, uma kungenjalo Kusukela ekuqaleni kwesikhathi, kube khona abantu abangafaka i- ukwesaba, abantu abakwaziyo ukubalimaza, ngisho nezingane, noma babahlukanise nabazali babo. Kuya kujwayeleka ukuzwa izindaba zezingane eziye zahlupheka violencia, kubazali babo, kwabanye abantu, nezingane eziye zanyamalala ngenxa yabantu ezingabazi abadlule ezimpilweni zabo.

Izingane zingathathwa ngenkani noma zishiye ngokuzithandela, ziphoqelelwe, nabantu abake bababona phambilini kanye nalabo ababonakala benhle kubo- Izingane zenza kanjena, zicabanga ukuthi azenzi lutho olubi noma akukho okuzokwenzeka kuzo. Lokhu yinto okufanele uyifundise futhi uyisebenzele nsuku zonke futhi kusukela usemncane. Amagugu afundiswa izingane, zizobenza bakhule ngokomzwelo, bavuthwe futhi babeke isisekelo esiqinile lapho bebhekene nemicimbi yesikhathi esizayo lapho bekwazi khona ukubona nokusabela.

Umbiko omfushane okhombise izingane epaki uye wadlanga, lapho yize omama babo babeseduze nangombono wabo, bavumelane ukuhamba nomuntu abangamazi obathembise uswidi futhi abakhombise imidlwane ayenakho endlini yakhe. Izingane zanyamalala nalo "mfokazi" ngaphandle kokucela imvume, zesaba okuthile nangaphambi kokubuka okumangazayo kukamama ongakholwa, ocabanga ukuthi indodana yakhe ngeke ikwenze.

Izingane zivame ukuthembela, ikakhulu, uma umuntu omdala ebathembisa okuthile okujabulisayo. Njengabazali kuyadingeka ukunqanda lesi simo. Ngokuyinhloko izingane ezincane akufanele zibe zodwa emgwaqweni. Kulungile kubo ukubingelela abantu abangabazi, kepha kungapheli. Akuyona yonke into ehamba. Kumele bazi ukuthi yini engenzeka kubo. Kumele baqonde ukuthi bangalahlekelwa ngabazali kuze kube phakade uma beshiya uhlangothi lwabo futhi benomunye umuntu abangamazi. Kunzima ukufaka ukwesaba, mhlawumbe kungukuqapha, kepha akunakwenzeka ukubhekana nokulahlekelwa okunjalo futhi kufanele kuthathwe izinyathelo.

Ngokusobala abakwazi ukwethemba wonke umuntu, noma baphendulele ubuso babo kubo bonke abantu abakhuluma nabo. Kubalulekile ukuthi bakhombe abantu abangaziwa, abangaziwa, abangabajwayele, ake sithi babeka ukuzethemba kubo. Ngezikhathi ezithile uma ingane idinga usizo futhi ingekho kubazali bayo, umndeni noma abangane, kufanele icele usizo kwabanye abantu. Ingane kumele yazi ukuthi kunabantu abagqoke umfaniswano, omama bezinye izingane, abantu asebekhulile, njengogogo nomkhulu babo, abangaphendukela kubo.

Amathiphu wokungathembi noma ngubani

• Ingane kumele yazi: Kufanele uxoxisane nengane futhi uchaze konke. Impela ngeke ukwazi ukuqonda ukuthi ngubani othembekile noma ongathembeki, ekuqaleni, ikakhulukazi uma usesimweni esishubile, udinga usizo, ulahlekile futhi wethukile. Izingane kufanele ziqonde ukuthi ngaphambi kokukhuluma noma ukuhamba nabanye abantu abakhuluma nabo, kufanele bacele imvume kubantu abathembekile. Uma udinga uhlobo oluthile losizo futhi ushesha, kungakuhle ukuthi ufune kuqala amaphoyisa, abasebenzi bezakhiwo eziseduze noma uma isivele inye. Njengoba kunikezwe okwakamuva, kubalulekile lapho uvakashela isitolo, indawo yokudlela ..., ukuthi ingane yazi igama lesisebenzi noma sokuphepha.
• Yazi igama lakho, isibongo, elabazali bakho, ucingo futhi uma kungenzeka ikheli lasekhaya, ngesikhathi lapho udinga usizo bese othile ecela lolo lwazi bese ethola izihlobo zakho. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kube kusengaphambili isaziso se- unganikezi imininingwane yakho yangasese kunoma ngubani okucela ngaphandle kwesizathu.
• Chaza ukuthi akufanele bathathe noma yini abanika yona omunye umuntu abangamazi: Kulungile ukuqala ubuze ukuthi bangakuthola yini okuthile. Kuyafana nokuya kwenye indawo abaphakamisa ngayo. Kumele bacele imvume kubazali babo, umndeni noma abangane ngaphambi kokwenza ngokwakho.
• Ungafihli imininingwane noma ugcine izimfihlo: Uma ingane ididekile ngalesi seluleko, kungashiwo ukuthi kulungile ukugcina izimanga ezithile, kepha hhayi ukufihla imininingwane kubazali. Abazali bakhona ukusiza kukho konke, hhayi ukwahlulela.
• DKufanele bazi ukuthi akekho umuntu omdala ozocela usizo enganeni, nokuthi uma kwenzeka, kufanele basole futhi baxwayise abazali babo noma abantu ababazungezile futhi babethembe. Izingane zikholelwa ukuthi abantu balungile futhi kufanele bazi ukuthi kukhona okuhlukile. Uma bebona okuthile okuxakayo, uma lowo muntu ebonakala kanjalo, kufanele baqonde ukuthi into elungile abangayenza ukubaleka bayofuna usizo hhayi ukuzigcinela lutho.
• Ungaphoqeleli ukuqabula noma ukubingelela kubantu ongabazi: Ukuthi ingane yiyo le esondela noma cha. Uma ungaphathekile kahle, akufanele wenze okuthile ukujabulisa abanye. Uma abazali noma izihlobo ngokwazo zikwenza ube nalolo hlobo lwezenzo ungahlosile, impela izingane zizokholwa ukuthi abanye abantu banelungelo lokwenza noma yini abayithandayo ngazo futhi ubaphoqe ukuba benze okufanayo.
• Ukungaphenduli kumuntu omomothekayo, okhulumayo futhi enze ukushukuma kobungane ngezenzo ezifanayo noma eziya phambili. Kulungile ukuthi abantu babe nomusa ezinganeni futhi ngokufanayo, kepha umkhawulo kufanele utholakale, okuningi lapho bebancane. Ingane kufanele ifunde ukwazisa izimo. Impela cishe zonke izinsuku ubona noma ubingelela umphathi ofanayo, noma kunjalo, into ejwayelekile kakhulu ukuthi uma owesilisa ekumisa emgwaqweni ngosuku oluthile ukuze akhulume nawe, uvele ujike. Ingane ingakubona futhi ikuqonde lokho futhi yilokho okufanele ikulingise.

Ingane kufanele iye kwabanye abantu abangazisoli izinsolo nasezindaweni zomphakathi noma ezindaweni zokudlela noma ezitolo ezisendaweni yakubo nokuthi iyazi. Ukuze ingane ibone izimo ezisolisayo zabanye abantu, kufanele inake okuthile okungaphezu kokubukeka kwabo. Ukuvela komuntu ongamazi okungafanele umethembe kuvamile, kepha, kumele abaleke, acele usizo kumuntu omethembayo, enqabe, amemeze, uma kungumuntu ongamazi:

1.  Izipesheli uswidi noma amathoyizi.
2.  Izipesheli hamba uyobona imidlwane noma ezinye mascot kude nalapho bekhona.
3. Izipesheli thatha uhambo lokuhambahamba naye emotweni.
4.  Izipesheli mthengele isipho.
5. Inikela ukwenza okuthile ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali babo.
6. Umtshela ukuthi abazali bakhe bamcele ukuthi azomlanda, ngaphandle kokuthi abaxwayise ngaphambili.
7.  Le cela umusa noma akufihlele imfihlo.
8. Kukwenza uzizwe ungakhululekile noma ekubuza izinto ezingafanele.

Vimbela izingane

Njengabantu abadala kanye nabantu abavikela izingane zabo, kufanele belulekwe ngaphambi kokuba kube nezimo ezingenakunqotshwa nezinkulu. Akufanele ukhathazeke ngokuthi izingane zisola ekuqaleni. Kufanele baxwayiswe ngezindawo okufanele bazigweme, ikakhulukazi uma kuvame ukuhanjwa ngabantu abanesimo esithandekayo. Kufanele bacelwe ukuthi banganyakazi. Uma bethi bazoba epaki noma endlini yomngani, akufanele bathuthele kwenye indawo futhi uma kunjalo, bazise kuqala kumuntu omdala engimaziyo. Ukuba seqenjini labangane noma nabazali bezinye izingane kungcono kakhulu, ngoba kuzoba okuphephile.

Kungumthetho oyisisekelo ukufundisa izingane ukubona izingozi ezingaba khona. Ingane kufanele yazi ukuthi akulungile ukushiya noma ukuhlangana nabantu, nge internet noma ngo whatsapp, ubani ongazi, ngoba bangenza into embi. Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi akufanele zabelane ngemininingwane yomuntu kumanethiwekhi abo omphakathi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane encane akudingeki ibe nephrofayili okwamanje. Ngokunjalo, akufanele baphathe igama labo noma imininingwane yabo bebheka esikhwameni, okokugqoka ... Ikakhulu izingane ezisencane kufanele zisebenzise isikhathi esilinganiselwe ziphequlula inetha futhi zikhawulele izenzo zazo.

Njengabazali kufanele niqaphele futhi nibheke izimpawu. Abanye abantu bayaphikelela uma kukhulunywa ngokufuna ukuqabula noma ukuphulula izingane, lokhu kungaba yifulegi elibomvu. Uma ingane ingakhululekile, umuntu kufanele ahoxiswe. Izingane eziphumayo nezikhuluma kakhulu kucatshangwa ukuthi zinamathuba amaningi okuhamba nabantu ezingabazi, kepha-ke, yibo abaveza kakhulu imizwa yabo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Ngakho-ke ukunakwa okwengeziwe kufanele kunikezwe izingane ezinamahloni, ezizogcina ukwesaba kwazo futhi kungenzeka zidlule esikhathini esinzima.

Izingane kufanele zikwazi ukuzimela. Kufanele bafundiswe ngenhlonipho nobumbano nabanye, kepha futhi naku-intuition nokuqapha. Ingane kufanele ithole izeluleko nolwazi kubazali bayo, imxwayise ngemiphumela yokuhamba nabantu angabazi noma abantu abangamniki vibes ezinhle. Umncane kumele azi ukuthi uma ezizwa esengcupheni kufanele amemeze, abaleke, amxoshe lowo muntu obasabisayo futhi afune usizo. Uma ubhekene neqiniso elidala ukusola futhi likwesabise, akufanele uzenyeze, noma ucabange ukuthi kufanele ugcine imfundo yakho kumuntu omdala, ukuvikelwa kwakho kuza kuqala.