Namuhla, njengawo wonke uLwesibili wokuqala kuFebhuwari, i- Usuku lwe-inthanethi oluphephile, usuku lokucabanga ngezinselelo imindeni okufanele izithathe ebudlelwaneni obuphakathi kwamadodakazi ethu namadodana ethu, kanye nokusetshenziswa kwemithombo yezindaba ebukwayo. Imidiya ye-audiovisual eyenza ukungavikeleki okuningi, futhi esinikela ngakho isikhathi esiningi namandla, ngenhloso yokuba ngabalamuli phakathi kwabancane, nalezo zikhala ezibonakalayo (kwesinye isikhathi) ezinikezayo okuqukethwe okungafaneleki ngeminyaka nokuvuthwa kwezingane.
Yize, ukukhuluma iqiniso, uhlu lwezinzuzo ezifanele lubanzi impela, kepha-ke, uma ukusetshenziswa kabi kungakwenza sizichaye ezingcupheni ezithile, Iyiphi indlela engcono ukwedlula yokusungula izinyathelo ezivumelayo gwema lezo zingozi?
Kukhona okushicilelwe eDoxa Comunicación: ukubukeza imikhakha eyahlukene yezifundo zokuxhumana kanye nesayensi yezenhlalo, okuthiwa “Omama nobaba, izingane kanye ne-Intanethi. Izindlela zokulamula zabazali eSpain ". Kuyo ababhali hlaziya amasu okulamula omama nobaba, isekela imiphumela yayo kudatha evela kunethiwekhi yaseYurophu i-EU Kids Online (yaseSpain). Izingxoxo zenzeka ngonyaka we-2010, kanti ukuhlaziywa kutholakala, lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "amasu okulamula asebenzayo futhi anqande" anokutholakala okubanzi, ngenkathi okulandelwayo noma kwezobuchwepheshe kubukeka sengathi akunamthelela omncane.
Ngokulandelayo sizogxila kohlobo ngalunye lwalezi zinhlelo, kepha okokuqala ngithanda ukwabelana nawe, ezinye zeziphetho ezinikezwe yilombhalo oshiwo ngenhla:
- Ukwehla okujwayelekile kwezehlakalo zokulamula kuyabonakala phakathi kwabancane abaphakathi kweminyaka eyi-13 nengu-16 ubudala, uma kuqhathaniswa nalezo eziphakathi kuka-9 no-12. Izingane ezisencane zibonakala zisengozini enkulu kithi, noma ngabe izindlela eziningi zokuziphatha zingenzeka engozini yobusha, okuthi uma hhayi "umlamuli" angakuvezela ezingozini ezinkulu.
- Imininingwane eyethulwe yiSpain ngonyaka wokushicilelwa kwalo msebenzi, yayiseduze nesilinganiso saseYurophu, ngokulamula kwabazali.
- Impumelelo yangempela yokulamula ihlala ilele ekuhlomiseni osemncane ngekhono lokubhekana nezingcuphe, nokuvikela lokhu ukuthi kungabi nemiphumela emibi.
- Iningi labazali baseSpain likhuluma nezingane zabo ngokusetshenziswa okuphephile kwe-Intanethi.
Thina, izingane zethu kanye nobuchwepheshe obusha.
Kubantwana izindawo ezibonakalayo nezingokomzimba zibumbene, noma zingaxubeki, ngoba futhi banesifiso sokuphila ngokuqinile owesibili (ngaphandle kowokuqala), kodwa-ke, kuleli qophelo konke kuncike emathubeni anikezwe ngabazali; Lesi ngesinye isihloko sengxoxo, kepha awucabangi yini ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sesaba umhlaba ophilayo kunezwe elibonakalayo ngaphandle kokuthi kube nokwanda okungafani nobungozi?
Ake ngichaze: izingane ziyathola ukuzimela ukuhamba wedwa emgwaqeni sekwephuze kakhulu, futhi iminyaka eminingi ukunyakaza kwakhe endaweni ebonakalayo kulandelwa eduze, kube nobunzima ekuthuthukiseni amakhono athile; ngokuqapha: Kulula kakhulu ukuthola ithebhulethi noma i-smartphone kwesinye isikhathi esiyisebenzisa 'njengabanakekeli' noma induduzo yezingane zethu!
Ama-ICT ahlinzeka ngezinzuzo eziningi, eziningi, futhi enye yezinzuzo ezibonakala kalula ukuthi ngokusebenzisa kwabo, izingane nentsha bafeza ukushesha lezo "zikhathi zokuphupha" ngazo: ukwenza izinto ngokushesha, nangomzamo omncane. Lokho kushesha, okungezwe ekuzethembeni okweqile, namakhono wokusebenzisa ahlukile, kuholela esimweni esingadala izinkinga, uma izingane zingaqondiswa.
Izindlela zokulamula zabazali.
Sinesibopho semfundo yedijithali, kepha hhayi kuphela abanesibopho, kanti futhi akusibona bodwa: sivame ukuzibona sisebenzisa isikhathi namandla ngamandla, futhi phakathi neminyaka yokuqala eyi-10 yokuphila (ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi, kepha sifunda "ukudedela" nokwethemba). Kungani? Yebo, njengomama nobaba siyazikhathalela izingane zethu, futhi sinamandla okuhamba nazo futhi sizifundise, ngoba sinolwazi olubaluleke kakhulu.
Isixhumanisi esinikezwe ngenhla sikhuluma ngalokhu: ukusebenza okusebenzayo, ukuvimbela, ukulandelela noma ubuchwepheshe bokulamula. Izindlela ezimbili zokugcina zokulamula zibhekela ukubhekwa kokuqukethwe okuvakashelwe yingane (amarekhodi, njll.) Kanye namathuluzi athile obuchwepheshe wokulamula kwabazali. Kukhona ukuma okusisiza ukwenza lula ukuqonda kwamasu wokulamula wabazali, okulandelayo:
Ukulamula okusebenzayo.
Yiba nentshisekelo ezinganeni zakho: ngokuthanda kwazo, ngomsebenzi wazo we-inthanethi .... Izingane (nentsha) ziyayithokozela inkhulumomphendvulwano, futhi zicela inhlonipho nokwethenjwa; Uma lezi zimo zingafinyelelwanga, kunzima ukusungula ukuxhumana okuhle. Ungakhungatheki uma wenza okungalungile, uzilungise uma umemeza noma wahlulela izingane zakho, kodwa ungazishayi wena: kusasa kuzoba ngcono.
Umhlahlandlela, dlulisa amanani, phendula imibuzo, khuluma ngokuzenzekelayo ngalokho (njengomama, njengobaba) okukhathazayo, kwenza kube lula ngabo ukuthi babe nenkululeko yokufuna izeluleko uma belahlekile noma besenkingeni. Ukuqonda okujwayelekile kufakiwe ngaphakathi kokulamula okusebenzayo: ingane eneminyaka emithathu ubudala ayikwazi ukuchitha amahora ama-3 phambi kwethebhulethi, ingane eneminyaka engu-3 akufanele ikwazi ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo ekalwe nge-PEGI engu-6, intombazane eneminyaka engu-16 ayidingi (noma kungakuhle) ukulala nayo i-smartphone… Njalo njalo. Sebenzisa ukuqonda futhi uvumelanise izincomo nendlela yakho yokuphila kanye nezinkambiso zomndeni wakho.
Ukulamula okunqandayo.
Kufaka phakathi ukusungulwa kwemikhawulo, ukusetshenziswa kwezilawuli zabazali, nokuvumelanisa indawo ebonakalayo nokuvuthwa kwengane, ukugwema izingozi. Impumelelo kungenzeka ibe nkulu lapho sihlanganisa zombili izindlela zokulamula.
Okokugcina, kufanelekile ukuthi sisho ukuthi okuthe xaxa ngokwangaphandle komndeni, ukutholakala okuningi kwama-ICT ezimpilweni zabancane, ubukhona obukhulu bomama nobaba kungalindelwa (kusuka kokukhulu kuya kokuzikhethela, kuncipha kancane ngokuya ngeminyaka), ezimpilweni zezingane zethu, futhi kungenzeka futhi ukuthi silindele ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono asivumela ukuthi sibhekane nezidingo zokuhambisana nathi ezinikezwa ngathi sengathi ziyizinselelo.